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My mother died on 9/11 every time i think about my mother. I wanna break down but also i feel this rage like i wanna go out and hurt this people i was never racist Ive got all kinds of friends who are black but any ways when i see this people on t.v i feel this rage that scares me like its crossed my mind to go out and really hurt these people i spoke to my friend he told me i should go to counseling to help me get over the loss of my mother its been 7 yrs but it still hurt it hurt worse cause that day we got into a big argument i told her that i hated her and when ever i think bout her that's all i can remember so the question is is it wrong for me to wanna really hurt these people i mean these arabs. Put em to sleep am i crazy cause its been 7 yrs but it still hurts me baddly
its a pain that wont go away.

2007-02-27 22:31:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Friends

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I am so sorry that you lost your Mom in such a tragic and senseless way. Not all Muslims are like the ones that killed your Mom. One of my Dr. is Muslim. She is an awesome gentle lady. We had a long talk and she told me that it hurt to see what those rebels are doing. A true Muslim doesn't run around killing 'infidels'. I know several Muslims and they are very nice people. Remember what I said, not all Muslims are like those of 9/11. Many people suffered that day when they lost their loved ones. There comes a time to forgive. If you don't it will eat you alive and you may be filled with such hate that you might do something that you may regret. Would your Mom want you to be eaten up with hatred and anger. Try to do something positive. The only person you are
hurting is yourself. We lost our son in 1997 at the age of 31. My ex-husband killed him with his hatred. My beloved son committed suicide because he couldn't take any more
of his biological father's hatred. It took me a while, but with God's help, my husband & I
got through it. We still miss our son and this never should have happened but I gave my
hate to God and asked Him to replace it with His will. Romans 12:19 says, "Beloved, do not avenge yourselves, but rather give place to wrath; for it is written, "Vengeance is Mine, I will repay," says the Lord. Also read verse 20. Once I relinquished my hate to God, I had peace. You can, too, if you ask God for His help with your pain. I wish you all the best as you work through this. If you retaliate, you are no better than the ones that
did this. Please, think about that. May God be your source of comfort and strength.

2007-02-27 23:03:48 · answer #1 · answered by Garnet 6 · 0 0

I can relate to your emotions. It;s fine for you to feel this way. You have been through a lot and suffered a great loss. I don't blame you for hating the people who killed so many loved ones on that day. Your Mother is a heroe. I hope you will be able to come to terms with your Mom's passing. The hardest thing I've ever been through is losing a parent. I feel for you and your family. Hang in there and have faith in our future.Good Luck.

2007-02-28 06:45:48 · answer #2 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0 1

I think its normal to feel rage when someone you love was taken by violence. What you have to remember is that the Muslim community is not who did this, extreme fascist Muslim terrorist did this. Most Muslims are outraged by terrorism. You need to find a healthy way to get your anger out. Continue seeing a therapist and maybe ask them for some healthy outlets. Good luck to you, and please don't become like the evil people who caused your pain.

2007-02-28 06:38:50 · answer #3 · answered by bunnydlh 3 · 1 0

no, not wrong, but not muslims in general, they dont all agree with wat happened on 9/11, and may your mother rest in peace! (no im not an arab, im aussie)

2007-02-28 06:38:02 · answer #4 · answered by otsy 5 · 1 0

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