been freinds with guy for 6 yrs, have bf who am engaged to going out with him 4 yrs recently started meeting freind behind bf's back ended up kissing ... now thinking i like freind not sure what to do he keeps going hot and cold now i think we might of f***ed up freindship yet cant have relationship as we live in different countys and i wont leave bf unless im sure he really wants me i wonder is it just sex he is after or does he really like me?
2007-02-27 22:32:12 · 4 answers · asked by lucy l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he has kept in touch with you, as a freind I would doubt very much that he just wants sex! The situation with B/F does complicate things. Only thing you can do is take the bull by the horns and speak with your freind, find out where you stand, and tell him your thoughts and feelings. Unfortunatly soome is now going to get hurt, the best way forward would be to try an minimise the damage.
Good luck and I hope things work out for you
2007-02-27 22:57:48 · answer #1 · answered by djp6314 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh dear ether way i think you should leave your bf you obviously don't love him enough to marry him ask your friend out right you need to know as this will be a life changing decision good luck
2007-02-27 22:54:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep break up with ur bf if he is only playing second best anyway and he aint going to luck that and u should never settle for second best
2007-02-27 22:49:21 · answer #3 · answered by kezz247 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oooh naughty girl!! Sounds to me like the 1st thing you need to do is break it off with your fiance.
2007-02-27 22:35:51 · answer #4 · answered by Laura Lou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋