Family & Relationships - 7 February 2007

this kid that i like has a girlfreind right now(she dosnt go to our school because she is 2yrs older than us) and he know i like him and i talked to him last year but now this year its hard to even say hi because he knows i like him, well he still makes eyecontact with me and today in the cafeteria when i walked in he got up from his table and went over to the vending machines(my tables are next to them) and kinda hung around but then bought something and stood and stared at me. he told someone that hew dosnt know why i dont say hi to him anymore because i talked to him last year.....its hard to say hi but he has a girlfriend?? and still is always making eyecontact, but idk can you help me? ?thanks...♥

2007-02-07 11:54:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-07 11:53:06 · 4 answers · asked by dirtangel91 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-07 11:53:04 · 5 answers · asked by Randy J 1 in Singles & Dating

i am jus soo lonely. i see all these people around me at high school and their jus so happy for some reason allll the time. everyday i wake up and hav nothing to be happy bout. nothing to look forward to too. i would like to hav a relationship to be happy bout the next day, the next week , the next month and so on. but i try hard to get into a relationship but i jus cant. its as if God is stopping me for something better but i jus cant help myself. im trying to jus stop looking for a realationship in hgih school and find something else to be happy bout everyday BUT I CANT . I JUS KEEP GOING BACK TO IT AND I JUSS CANT STOP. So plz help me?

2007-02-07 11:52:53 · 19 answers · asked by jack a 1 in Singles & Dating

I was at youth group tonight and this girl asked a bunch of us what we thought about my best friend and her boyfriend. He is a senior and she is a freshmen. I said that I really didn't like it that they were dating and he wasn't my favorite person in the world. I also said that I probably wouldn't go with her to shop for her dress for prom. Well a guy that was standing with us came up to me later and said she overheard the whole thing that we all said. We all said what we meant but it wasn't meant for her to hear. When I confronted her about it she said he came up to her and told her. I asked him about it and he got really mad at me. My best friend is upset with me because of all this........ I don't know what to do? Any advice?

2007-02-07 11:52:08 · 5 answers · asked by Sen10r 2 in Friends

And whos going to give it to them (besides black men)?

2007-02-07 11:51:40 · 13 answers · asked by Kevin G 1 in Singles & Dating

OK there is this guy I am in Love with and he is hopefully going to come over on Valentines Day to spend the night. The thing is how do I make it romantic? I have never been with a guy on Valentines Day so I don’t know what to do about it all. I need tip's for what to make for supper, and snack's, what movies I can rent that him and i both will like( we both like comedy's, action, and he likes horror, me i don’t like them as much as him but I'll watch them) what kind of thing's should i get? And one other question for guys is it true that if you’re wearing a condom when you’re getting a B.J. you don’t feel anything? also I am not planning on having sex with him, I am waiting till I am married to have sex, but what are something's that are almost as good as sex? ha ha ha ha i feel dumb asking this but I know some of you will have good answer's for me ANYTHING will help =] please no dumb answer's
thank you all =]

2007-02-07 11:51:38 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So women will only sleep with you if they don't like you and won't sleep with you if they do (not sure if those women have any self-respect). Guys treat women like crap and get all the attention while nice guys get ignored. If you are friendly you are seen as gay or something but women are attracted to a guy who looks disinterested. Trying to date or hookup means we need someone but we can't let that little bit of info out because it makes us (man or woman) look needy. I mean come on! Who came up with these stupid rules?

2007-02-07 11:51:28 · 12 answers · asked by InvicibleStar 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-07 11:51:22 · 12 answers · asked by xXSugaDaddy'sGurlXx 1 in Friends

okay theres this girl in my class...and I did want to be a bit unique in my conversation (she does not sit by me btw)...so after class we got our grades and so the teacher wrote it herself..so I was like as we were walking together i said...(keep in mind first time we talked) .."do u know how to read this...she was like umm no I don't (not in a rude matter or anything but yeah that was pretty much it lol)...so i c her we cross eachothers path in the hallway and i look at her..and she looks at me...(eye contact) but i panic at the last second as i was gonna asy something but I dont!!!and she goes to her class i was like ahhh!!! lol what should I do now?

2007-02-07 11:50:56 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok so im a guy and iv tried asking girls out nd well lets just say my record is not so good. I don't see why i strike out so much. I don't think im that bad looking, im in shape, iv got personality, and im smart. Whats the problem? 1 thing tho is im not all that social outside of my group of friends. so ya help?

2007-02-07 11:50:29 · 9 answers · asked by beelyath 1 in Singles & Dating

she knew even before we got together that I dont celebrate ValentinesDay but she still demands that we celebrate. I tell her that i love her everyday and that celebrating Valentines Day is like being lukewarm in love because of the commercialism. What do I do?

2007-02-07 11:50:14 · 31 answers · asked by Dan 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a crush on this guy that's my friends brother. He's just turned 15 and I just turned 16. He's really sweet and acts mature. Is having a younger bf good?
Oh and he's more experienced than I am. Is this ok?

2007-02-07 11:49:13 · 6 answers · asked by Caitie 2 in Singles & Dating

we have been dating 3 weeks but we have been in the same small school for years so i know him but im not sure what the best thing to get him for valentines day is any ideas

2007-02-07 11:49:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My son has had custody of his child for almost three yrs. and still has not filled for child support. It's not like he does'nt need the money, he does! She makes 3 times what he makes, lives alone and says she has no money to help. It takes every dollar he has to just get thru the wk. They have been without heat and food at times, and if its not for me helping, I don't know what would happen. It might sound cruel, but I have threatened to quit helping, hoping it would push him into filling. I don't know if he thinks guys don't ask for child support or what. If she were atleast trying to help, I could understand. He pays for the day-care, food, cloths , activities and all other needs. He works everyday, cooks for them,helps with homework and everything else that needs done, you'd think if she did'nt want to help financially, she could help with other things. I just don't understand!

2007-02-07 11:47:52 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

They forgot my birthday it was yesterday. I tell them its my birthday but they don't listen to me and they said I was wrong. I know my own birthday.

2007-02-07 11:47:17 · 6 answers · asked by KENNY T 1 in Family

I don't want him to laugh at me. And if I tell him that I like him and he doesn't like me back, I don't think I could get over the feeling of rejection. And in that case it could ruin our friendship. He is one of the cutest guys in school. I am scared to confront him with that. Kids have started going out already and I would like to start too. He is sending me mixed messages. P.S. I am only in middle school. Please Help. Thanks in advance.

2007-02-07 11:46:27 · 5 answers · asked by <3 Jessie <3 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I dont think i would be a jerk off!

2007-02-07 11:46:07 · 7 answers · asked by Wolfburg 1 in Family

the quote, "the people who gossip to you will gossip of you"? Why?

2007-02-07 11:45:34 · 14 answers · asked by js_scooby123 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

She's at church! She knows I like her! We talk some, but not much! I only see her once a week!

Also, she is close to her family!!! What signs might they give???

2007-02-07 11:45:20 · 10 answers · asked by 80srock 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok so heres the deal. We wanted a small wedding so we chose a chapel that only holds 30 people max. To be fair, we are only inviting 15 people each. This is fine with me except I will have toleave some people in my family out. How can I be polite about this? I really dont want to hurt anyone's feelings. How can I invite my aunt and uncle, for instance, and not invite my 7 cousins (their grown kids)?

2007-02-07 11:44:54 · 12 answers · asked by wildheart 2 in Weddings

Will going up to a girl for the first time in fornt of her friends be better or worse?

Will her judgment of me change? or will it look better?

or what if I went up to her in front of her friends then asked to talk to her privatley or something?

2007-02-07 11:44:30 · 38 answers · asked by Andrew 3 in Singles & Dating

my other question was not clear enough.

the mall thats near me is abou 1.5 miles away and its very cold outside so how would i walk to places in below 0 weather.i dont have a ride to go places.and the only thing near is a a small resturant and a park.again its freezing outside.

so what do i do?

2007-02-07 11:44:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hi im a freshman in h/s and one of my friends has a crush on one of our teachers and its really sketchy! her name is kristen and she likes mr nichol a science teacher.. she wants to buy him a valentine next week, she has written poems about him and she even brought her camera to school to take a picture with him! this is a serious question, my friends and i know we have to have a BIG TALK with her but idk what to do or say. he is a 40-something guy and he likes winking at everyone but she winks back which scares me. please help
*Nicole

2007-02-07 11:44:07 · 10 answers · asked by Nicole G 1 in Friends

i decided for my ladys birthday that i wanted to do something real sweet. something relaxing but yet something that would help her enjoy here day

any ideas on what i could do to fit the description

2007-02-07 11:43:56 · 6 answers · asked by random at its finest 6 in Singles & Dating

I broke up with my grilfriend thinkin i wanted to be single and date other girls but slowly found out i dearly missed her and wanted her back and when i did try and get her back she told me she started seeing another kid i didnt give up adn now get very mixed answers from her about if she wants to be with me she ahs told em she loves me but doesnt believe i have changed and doesnt want to hurt this kid who did nothing wrong and is now telling her he loves her

2007-02-07 11:43:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-07 11:43:18 · 29 answers · asked by Kelly929 2 in Singles & Dating

My ex and I have been apart for 3 yrs. After we separated, we verbally agreed that I would maintain custody of our 11-yr old son during the wk & he would get him on wkends. My ex is now remarried--since then, his wife has done the following:
- She wrote me a 2-page letter telling me all the things that were going to change concerning my son (i.e., manners, things he was allowed/not allowed to have, etc.)
- She disciplines & sets consequences for my son & is the one to enforce these things, rather than my ex
- She calls me, rather than my ex, to talk about plans/concerns with my son
- She attends parent/teacher conferences in my presence
There's a lot more, but during the 2 yrs they have been married, it seems that she is trying to take over as the mother & is making my son feel resentful towards her in the process. At times he says he likes her, & at others he doesn't. How should I handle this? Is she wrong? My ex supports her actions. Help!!!

2007-02-07 11:40:13 · 9 answers · asked by anon2009 1 in Marriage & Divorce

keep fighting and i hate it it drives me crazy but sometimes i cant stand her at all! and she recently just made me move away form the only things i knew and i absolutely hate where i am now i hate the people the school the life i feel like im gonna just die of bein so homesick i wanna go home so bad it aint even funny and dat is also drivin me and my mom apart becuz she made me move out here wat should i do

2007-02-07 11:39:56 · 14 answers · asked by simply lovely 2 in Family

Me and my friends both boys and girls were sitting in class, when one guy came and stood behind my friend and mouthed "She is so gorgeous. This girl is so gorgeous" Then, as he was passing by he rolled his eyes up (know what I mean?) like kind of looked up really quick and then said "Ohh Goddd!!" not really loud but not whispering like either and the guys chuckled not laughed.

What does this mean? What were they trying to say about my friend?

2007-02-07 11:39:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating