soo sad so PLZ HELP!!!?

Question

i am jus soo lonely. i see all these people around me at high school and their jus so happy for some reason allll the time. everyday i wake up and hav nothing to be happy bout. nothing to look forward to too. i would like to hav a relationship to be happy bout the next day, the next week , the next month and so on. but i try hard to get into a relationship but i jus cant. its as if God is stopping me for something better but i jus cant help myself. im trying to jus stop looking for a realationship in hgih school and find something else to be happy bout everyday BUT I CANT . I JUS KEEP GOING BACK TO IT AND I JUSS CANT STOP. So plz help me?

Answer 1

Keep on looking and you will find someone.
Good luck

Answer 2

I don't know who you are, or how you communicate with your fellow students. I don't know you, but I can picture you shivering and full of nerves when you talk. Relax. I know you want so bad to fit in.

You are thinking you don't have a chance to make friends. First, take the weight off. This not life and
death. Start of every day by simply saying hello to some people as you walk by, shake your head and acknowledge others. If your schedule permits try out for a sport or two. Not everybody on the team is going to be the star, but everybody who puts the heart and soul into the game is part of the team.

When a person or two engage in a conversion
outside the class room with you, kept as brief
as you can (remember, they also got to get to
class. Also, there may be one or two people
they want to speak to on the way.) If some one
confides in you don't advertise what they told you.
Trust is key in a relationship. The exception will be
if they are going to hurt themselves or some one
else, or doing something that is against the law.

Also, get advice from your parents, guidance
counselor, or others who are worthy of your
respect as to how exand your scope with socializing. Help a neighbor with their yard. Volunter time at a hospital or place or worship. You are a very expressive join a writers club, or take a drama class. Borders bookstores allow meetings to take place through various groups
who meet there.Attend a couple meetings, see if any of those groups garners your interest.

Remember, people have lives of their own. So, allow them their space. As they say abscence makes the heart grow fonder. Give it a chance.
I wish you well. Be good.

Answer 3

Guess what, I'm lonely too, I want a relationship too, but I still smile and I carry on. If you keep a positive attitude and don't think about, either the unexpected can happen or you just won't care anymore.

every once in a while, it can be annoying if you don't have anything, but if you stay positive you can move on.

Edit: I almost forgot, but the soulmate thing doesn't happen unless you are active or open-minded, the best paragraph about this I've read was:

A man came before a wise man and asked him, "When can I meet my soulmate?" The wise man responded, "You met her, you thought her nose was too big."

Answer 4

I am so exhausted time is 02:58 AM here and I will go to university and doctor tomorrow . I really want to give an exact answer to your problem but I can not at the moment . But whatever your problem is and in which condition you are you should feel normal at least to remain your mental health so do not be sad for anything . Enjoy your life .Do not bother relationships . Just have relationships to have fun in your life not for having heart pain . Take care.

Answer 5

okay well there is alot more to be happy about then having a relationship there is the fact that u r alive but i understand how u feel i guess i'm looking to but i know that one day somebody will walk into my life and sweep me off my feet just think of it that way. from some of my friends they say that they don't like desprette guys so try not to look so hard if that helps any

Answer 6

well, if u want a relationship, u first need to show the girl u are a HAPPY person, or else she will be tirned off about ur personality. so, either take depression medicine or fake it. then get to know as many girls and maybe boys as u can. get to be really good friends with soem of them. and then find the girl u like, and u prolly have a chance since she knows u and sees u have a good personality.

Answer 7

wow...i no how you feel. When my bf isent around i feel so sad when i see couples all happy in love :-( All you can do is focus on yourself...do something that makes YOU happy. When your not looking for love you always find it...but if you keep looking youll never find the perfect person. I promise this is true... BUT if you already have the perfect girl in mind talk to hur! try to get hur...just remember that youll find the love of your life eventually. dont give up!

Answer 8

Oh, honey, I'm so sorry. Highschool sucks so bad. I promise you with all my hear that it'll get better. Get through highschool and life will begin to get better. I had the worst 4 years of my life in highschool, but college was a blast. You can find people like you, who you relate to and you can be an individual. Screw the relationship now, you can't force it.

Answer 9

The only bf i've ever had was in kindergarden. You should plan something special every day, like go to a movie, or something like that. Also, pick a person who is in your grade. (maybe of the opposite gender) get to know them better, and (if of the opposite gender) you might be able 2 ask them out.
BE HAPPY!

Answer 10

ahhhhh i've got self assurance sorry 4 u. i no that's a undesirable feeling, even nevertheless that's time 2 flow on, u hav 2 attempt n' 4get her n' all the flaws dat got here approximately inda previous.. u'll see mayb de guy she grew to become into kissin wid isn't gonna make her as satisfied as u did, mayb dis female is gonna omit those days u helped her n' stuff. u might desire to juss inspect ur destiny n' open a sparkling web site in ur lyf...do not concern der'z different gyal'z out dere waitin 4 ur love!!

Answer 11

okay, here is what i would do. first of all, i believe that everyone has a soulmate. whether you choose to believe that or not, your thing. but maybe you weren't meant to be with anyone in your highschool simply because God has seen it fit for you to find your soulmate later in life. so don't be sad, but find someone you can talk to every so often, whether its a friend, a sibling, or if you need to, email me and i will try to help you. but don't focus on everyone else, chances are you end up much happier than they will.