this kid that i like has a girlfreind right now(she dosnt go to our school because she is 2yrs older than us) and he know i like him and i talked to him last year but now this year its hard to even say hi because he knows i like him, well he still makes eyecontact with me and today in the cafeteria when i walked in he got up from his table and went over to the vending machines(my tables are next to them) and kinda hung around but then bought something and stood and stared at me. he told someone that hew dosnt know why i dont say hi to him anymore because i talked to him last year.....its hard to say hi but he has a girlfriend?? and still is always making eyecontact, but idk can you help me? ?thanks...♥
2007-02-07 11:54:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it seems he still wants me to say hi and stuff, please dont say move on....because thats hard...and i dont know his girlfreind, shes in highschool
2007-02-07 11:55:18 · update #1
i know how this is. no, dont move on. i mean, if you REALLY care about his guy, go for it!! just be friends first but DONT get to be friends with his gf. see, i did the same thing, i liked this guy, but didnt talk to him much, then we became friends, but he already had a gf, then me and his gf were best friends, then they broke up, and i got with him ,but my friendship went down the drain. we split up a long time ago, but now we aint friends, cuz hes a jerk..lol..but go for gurl!! be friends with HIM, not her, then try and work him off onto you!! try it and tell me how it all works out...
2007-02-07 12:02:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont want to lose him as a friend do you? I mean not talking to him cuz he has a girl is kindof mess up. And what happens if he breaks up with that other gurl? You shouldnt let that keep you from talking to him ya know. He probably is feeling you just ask up front.
2007-02-07 20:08:08 · answer #2 · answered by Young South 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont go and say hey are you still going out with that girl kinda thing, take it slow start off when he is alone or at his locker or something go up to him and say hey hows it going and just start from there you never know what a simple hi might do, i will seem awquard, one time one of my guy friends asked me to homecoming but i didnt want to go with him it was hard to talk to him again but i just said hi and we are still just friends so just try saying hi and go from there
2007-02-07 20:02:59 · answer #3 · answered by alejandra611 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll never know if you dont try just dont get ur hopes up if he still wants you to say hi then say hi and let it go from there
2007-02-07 19:59:50 · answer #4 · answered by Natasha0443 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋