hi im a freshman in h/s and one of my friends has a crush on one of our teachers and its really sketchy! her name is kristen and she likes mr nichol a science teacher.. she wants to buy him a valentine next week, she has written poems about him and she even brought her camera to school to take a picture with him! this is a serious question, my friends and i know we have to have a BIG TALK with her but idk what to do or say. he is a 40-something guy and he likes winking at everyone but she winks back which scares me. please help
*Nicole
2007-02-07 11:44:07 · 10 answers · asked by Nicole G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
he is married with children. but this doesnt phase her one bit
2007-02-07 11:49:52 · update #1
she thinks he'll like her if she keeps obsessing and thats why this is so weird its not just a crush. and by the way there are hot teachers at our school and hes definitley NOT one of them
2007-02-07 11:55:12 · update #2
Wow. Maybe you should talk to a guidance counselor at school. Them them you are worried about your friend and don't want to see anyone get in any trouble, but you think it's becoming a problem.
When I was in HS, we had a young hot teacher, and we ALL drooled over him. I even took a picture of him shaking his rump at the prom (he was a chaperone - and no he didn't know I was taking a picture) ... but it wasn't like anyone actually thought they could be his girlfriend or anything, we were all just really happy to show up to second period social studies
2007-02-07 11:52:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's scary...I hope your friend and this teacher don't end up on the 6 o'clock news...ya know? When I was in high school, I had crushes on a couple of teachers but I never acted on it and I don't think any of the teachers would have either. Now a days it seems like people are just sex crazy and will take a chance at getting in someone panties. Tell this teacher about this and see if he'll man up and talk to your friend in the right way to set thing straight. Also make as many other people as possible know about this situation so that everyone can keep an eye on this. It needs to be brought out into the light before something really bad happens. That's what you should do for your friend.
2007-02-07 11:47:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'll be honest, your friend is what is known as "jail bait" and that teacher will never share her feelings.Even if he wanted too. Explain to your friend that she has a crush and she will get over it soon. If she tries to dismiss your statements, just remind her that he does wink at everyone and this relationship can never happen.Don't bs her tell her the cold hard truth and she"ll come around
2007-02-07 11:54:31 · answer #3 · answered by arkangelblak 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no matter which way you say it.....you have to tell her! thats just wrong....and shes need to know no matter what, he's not going to liek her back(if the teachers smart) just tell her thats gross and theres no point in flirting with him. she needs to know, before people find out she likes him, and soon the story will get changed around and the teacher will get in trouble.
2007-02-07 11:56:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
to many highschool flings going on now
nothing good will come of it
been there done it my teacher was mrs dagellico and I was a soph
I got a B and she got divorced haven't seen her since
2007-02-07 11:51:31 · answer #5 · answered by oct2855 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as he's not showing any interest in her, I think it's ok. But if you're really worried about her, then absolutely tell someone!
2007-02-07 12:12:14 · answer #6 · answered by Sophie <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to back off. That's illegal, and he'd probably get fired or arrested if she even made it look like anything was going to happen.
2007-02-07 11:48:27 · answer #7 · answered by Justin V 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay, hopefully it'll ONLY be a crush and nothing more than that.
2007-02-07 11:50:56 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she'll get over it . it won't be good if he has a gf. help her through tthis stage.
2007-02-07 11:47:46 · answer #9 · answered by johnnytsao1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is normal let him handle it
2007-02-07 11:55:50 · answer #10 · answered by Nora 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋