Family & Relationships - 30 January 2007

About once every 6 months or so, my husband decides to go out drinking by himself against my wishes. When he does this, he stays out until early morning and drifts in drunk and beligerant, frequently after drunk driving. I am not only concerned about what prompts this need, but that he safety is at risk. When I get upset over this he says I am just trying to control him, that he needs independent contact after working from home all day and that he slept most of it off in the car before driving home. I might add that he adds to my stress by not always answering his cell phone because he says I will just complain, which is also suspicious. The rest of the time this man is such a good companion, with me all the time and we have fun together, so I keep forgiving him and thinking he must be telling the truth, but I can't get him to explain this need of his and it hurts me. Can any one provide some insight?

2007-01-30 10:01:14 · 22 answers · asked by tlc 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I know I'm going to take a hit on this one, but I've cheated on my wife in the past. Enjoyed the sex, hated the guilt. Never did it again, but I been tempted a few times. But I never examined the real reason I cheated. Even today I'm not really sure of the WHY?

2007-01-30 10:01:04 · 23 answers · asked by Basio P 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok there is this girl at school and i like her and i talk to her sometimes he had same lunch but classes changed so i gave her my number (she didnt call) but we only see each other like 3 times a day for a few minutes so thats why i gave her my number so we could talk and i feel like she will say "Yes" but i have allways had the anser "No" from girls so im allways saying to my self shes gonan say "Yes" and then ill think shes gonna say "No" can anyone please give me advise on what to do to get her to say yes or what im doing wrong

2007-01-30 10:00:28 · 21 answers · asked by srpoopir2 1 in Singles & Dating

how many of you are single and looking age so people can talk

2007-01-30 10:00:22 · 12 answers · asked by sweetiefourlive 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-30 10:00:19 · 11 answers · asked by Rachell G 1 in Friends

2007-01-30 09:59:54 · 25 answers · asked by lovingkim33 1 in Marriage & Divorce

she one of those girls who love attention and gives attention. after we broke up two weeks later we just kissed kissed meaning no tongue cuz we arent not dating anymore. her reason for the kisses was that she missed kissing my lips. what does that mean. shes kissed me the most out of any guy. i havent had any lip action in almost 2 months. what do i do if she does this again. take the kisses or back away. she doesnt know the rules of dating or break ups. she would be leading me on with kisses need help. kiss or not to kiss is the question?

2007-01-30 09:59:53 · 4 answers · asked by sweetnstubbornsensitive 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband has had custody of his daughter since she was 7. At 16 she went to live with her mother. At 17 she decided to come back and finish her last year of high school with us. When we asked “why” she said she didn’t connect well with her mother’s community. When she came back we tried family counseling to communicate better but the sessions went no where and I feel the counselor just didn’t dig deep enough. Now she either spends all of her time in her room or at a friend’s house. She refuses to eat meals with us, only speaks when spoken to, stopped doing her chores, just no participation in our family at all. I’ve tried doing things with her such as hair appointments and shopping but she pouts the entire time like this is a chore. It’s getting to the point that both my husband and I dread coming home from work because the tension in our house is so thick. My husband wants to suggest she go back to her mother’s but I know this will only make things worse. What would you do?

2007-01-30 09:59:12 · 15 answers · asked by OhNo! 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 37 and was married 12 years. I fantasize about 18-19 year olds. Any comments appreciated.

2007-01-30 09:58:57 · 13 answers · asked by you2should4sure 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-30 09:58:22 · 43 answers · asked by lovingkim33 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-30 09:57:27 · 17 answers · asked by confused 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend told me that if a guy says he is saving himself for marriage, 65% of the time, that guy is gay. Is she somewhat right?? Can most guys wait??

2007-01-30 09:57:23 · 16 answers · asked by Nicoletta 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok, I as well as you know of that friend that no one likes, Theres one in my tight nit group of friends, lets call him Bob. Well, Bob always fallows me around, wants to work with me, and even hang out whenever I have a friend over. He calls my house and begs to come over. What do I do to get Bob to stop annoying me. (politely)

2007-01-30 09:57:21 · 7 answers · asked by John G 2 in Friends

There are some pros and cons though.
Pros.
None of our family can interfere with our relationship any longer
We can move to a better area
Better schooling for our kids

Cons
I would never see my little baby grandson again.
We were thinking of moving a long way away.
Plz help..

2007-01-30 09:57:17 · 2 answers · asked by The Way 4 in Family

dateing, but us married people like to talk and make freinds too........please let me know.

2007-01-30 09:57:02 · 6 answers · asked by courious soul 1 in Friends

I've been seeing this girl for about two months. I like her and i think she likes me. the problem is, we are completely different. She's super right-wing conservative christian and I'm super-left wing liberal. Add to that, we both have such different schedules that we hardly get a chance to see each other. She's super involved with her church and i'm super involved with school. Before i get too attached, i just want to know whether its worth it. I know opposites attract, but when they're this extreme...? I really like her but i just don't know if it's worth it.

2007-01-30 09:56:55 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-30 09:56:55 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

You don't know me so i don't have to lie.
I am studying in a medical school (college), have all the attributes of a so called successful living but all my life i had one regret.........I never had a friend whom i could call a sincere good and loyal friend, with whom i could share my life, my sorrows, my happiness and EVERYTHING, ask for advice and help. It doesn't mean that i'm an introvert, rather i think i've been too good to others my whole life. I helped those around me, but everybody just stuck with me as long as i was at the GIVING end, later they left and when i seeked help, i was alone. The girl whom i loved so much, from the core of my heart, left me blaming that she was an outgoing girl and blamed me for dragging her into the LOVE THING.....Now i feel so alone and sometimes too depressed thinking why this world is too small for those who are good to others? Or is the word selfish merely enough to describe them?
I have no answer.

2007-01-30 09:56:55 · 11 answers · asked by Dr. Sam 3 in Friends

2007-01-30 09:56:32 · 2 answers · asked by Susie C 1 in Singles & Dating

spank you when you do bad things!

2007-01-30 09:56:07 · 5 answers · asked by Marky Boy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

something really different with him sexually. We've tried most things and yes (the bottom). Guys...What would you like for your wife or GF to do to you or with you. Please do not say a threesome, he won't go for it.

2007-01-30 09:55:45 · 5 answers · asked by Jacuzzi Lover 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I am getting married in Sept of 2007 and am looking for a HOT pink wedding dress. Anyone know where i can find one in canada. I am in Nove Scotia so the closer to home the better.

Oh and PS, when I say HOT pink I mean like WOW thats CRAZY

2007-01-30 09:55:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

guys,do u like girls that are medium tall or short.

2007-01-30 09:55:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was invited to a party at a friend's house not too long ago and during the party my best friend and her boyfriend got into a fight and she left early. He hung out until the party was pretty much over. I was there with some other friends. He came over to me and asked if I would give him a lift home. Considering the the fact that my best friend was his only ride and his other friends had already left, I gave him a ride home. When we arrived at his house, he leaned over and kissed me hard on the lips and tried to stick his tongue in my mouth!! I pushed him off me and warned that if he ever did that again that I would tell my friend about it. He had been drinking a bit but he wasn't at all drunk. When I threatened him with telling her, he just laughed and said :"Tell her, she ain't going anywhere", blew me a kiss, said "bye sexy" and went into the house. Ever since then, I feel very uncomfortable around him. What should I do? I know she will be hurt about this.

2007-01-30 09:54:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have 3 children ages 8, 15 and 17(the 17 yr old is not biologically mine) all boys, and 4 great stepkids(they live with their mom). My husband and I have been together over 3 yrs and recently married last August. He wants 'us' to have a baby. I'm not really sure it's the right thing. I'm 37 and not sure it's still safe to have a baby. I don't want to have an unhealthy baby because of my aging eggs =) He really has been talking about it a lot lately. We don't use birth control but I know my cycle and avoid my ovulation time. The thing is, he also knows my ovulation time and really hounds me like a crazed maniac lol.....kidding. He really wants this. What should I do? I wouldn't mind having another baby if I knew it would be healthy and a hopefully a girl this time!! I'm torn. I had planned to start working on my masters in special education and actually go out into the workforce since we'll be buying a new house this year I need to.

Any advice?

Thanks to all =)
Tori

2007-01-30 09:54:04 · 2 answers · asked by Incognito 6 in Marriage & Divorce

okay, people in my class were telling this one girl that i hate her. she believes them. i asked her who told them, she said non of my business, the girl called me a b**** and everyone hates me. what should i do?

2007-01-30 09:53:08 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

She dumped me cause i was pushy and needy. She is now constantly contacting me but she said she wants to be friends right now and see what happens before she gives me a second chance. My question is this....Is it okay to move on with your life, meaning.....Don't answer her calls all the time, don't call her or make plans...Don't call her back right away but talk to her whenever you are not busy or say hi every once in a while. Is it better to remain a challenge like this? Or should I take all her calls and talk to her when she calls me. I felt bad that I didn't call her last night cause she called me but left no message but I don't want to be a good friend. I just want to be the man that could love her if she wanted me too. Not the one who begs her or wants her badly...How do I act if I want to be there for her but not be in the "total friend zone"?

2007-01-30 09:52:22 · 9 answers · asked by D 1 in Singles & Dating

Also, he's from an entirely different state.

Do you see my point? I tried telling her that he is an adult, but she refuses to listen. Also, he just asked to be her boyfriend, and she accepted. A day after her other boyfriend, a 14 year old from another state broke up with her! I'm concerned, but I don't want to push too hard on her. Ideas please?

I'm 16, by the way.

2007-01-30 09:51:51 · 14 answers · asked by Carolina 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok would you find me attractive pleaz tell the truth! OK i have long legs long brown hair i am skinny i am tall i have brown eyes and i have sum freckles on da cheeks cuz wenevr i go out w/ someone they always end up cheating on me and i just wanna no if i is because of how i look!?

2007-01-30 09:51:39 · 12 answers · asked by Miss you. // ♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

Thus a match made in heaven

2007-01-30 09:50:53 · 9 answers · asked by . 6 in Singles & Dating