You don't know me so i don't have to lie.
I am studying in a medical school (college), have all the attributes of a so called successful living but all my life i had one regret.........I never had a friend whom i could call a sincere good and loyal friend, with whom i could share my life, my sorrows, my happiness and EVERYTHING, ask for advice and help. It doesn't mean that i'm an introvert, rather i think i've been too good to others my whole life. I helped those around me, but everybody just stuck with me as long as i was at the GIVING end, later they left and when i seeked help, i was alone. The girl whom i loved so much, from the core of my heart, left me blaming that she was an outgoing girl and blamed me for dragging her into the LOVE THING.....Now i feel so alone and sometimes too depressed thinking why this world is too small for those who are good to others? Or is the word selfish merely enough to describe them?
I have no answer.
2007-01-30 09:56:55 · 11 answers · asked by Dr. Sam 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It is pathetic how the world and (mostly) everyone in it now a days is so d a m n selfish!! its sickening...and i hate to hear stories like yours...good people deserve so much more than those stuck up little people running around with hundreds of dollars in their pockets!
your in medical school? im surprised you havnt made ne close frends there?? med school i would think your so busy all the time studying and in class your around all the same ppl...
maybe you should try getting a short job? maybe once or twice a week...i kno at my last job i made plenty of really good frends!! hung out every night after work and told each other everything...
goodluck~!
if that doesnt work you could always try joining a frat or a club???
sorry to hear about it all....but think about it this way...it can only go up from here!
take care!
2007-01-30 10:20:15 · answer #1 · answered by roxybeach793 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good friends are hard to find. I can say I really have no sincere or genuine friend till this day. That is why I use the term "associate" when I refer to them. Their always wanting you to listen to them but never being there when you need someone to talk to. I guess I fall in the same category. Their always taking and we keep giving of our self. You get tired of the crap after awhile. Selfish is only the beginning to how some people are. You should not be depressed you did a good thing. It's just now that it is your time to shine forget them their problems can be placed on the back burner....why?...because their problems are not emergencies. Don't let people stress you out. Seriously, congrats on medical school. When you find that real friend hold on to them.
2007-01-30 10:23:38 · answer #2 · answered by narcisscus24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get involved in a club, or church, or a sport, you will be able to interact w/ more people & hopefully you will find someone you click with. I am looking for some new friends, someone that I will have a fun outgoing relationship. We just have to step out of our routines & see who is out there. I don't think you will find one on the net though.
Sounds like the girl is a witch, go out & have the time of your life & forget about her. Do some soul searching & find who you want to be. It is hard to find real friends, people are shallow, & selfish, but not all so there is hope.
Good Luck & don't change your good qualities, just associate with people worthy of them.
2007-01-30 10:08:41 · answer #3 · answered by shouldbworkn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at first, quit being so troublesome on your self. once you help others it continuously comes lower back to you. you sound rather advantageous and that i'm specific you have acquaintances. inspite of the incontrovertible fact that something has befell that makes you experience unloved. i say, somebody on the fringe of you loves you and is there for you frequently. and that stylish sounds like a Hag. Her loss, honey. sturdy for you! and take a inspect to make your self be perhaps somewhat greater outgoing. no longer something to drastic on the commencing up, only small infant steps. locate some small chit chat and you will do fantastic. you by no skill be attentive to who you will locate to be your new terrific buddy! sturdy success to you!! and you have a chum in me!
2016-09-28 05:06:11 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of days, I feel the same way.
I think a lot of people thing that a friend should be there for them, but dont realize that they need to be there for that friend as well.
2007-01-30 10:03:58 · answer #5 · answered by Mellissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I know how you feel, we could try to be friends just e mail me to heart2soul2007@yahoo.com and please do not get depress focus on something else get involved in anything you might like to do. I have asked myself the same question many times.
2007-01-30 16:07:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have gone through exactly the same kind of life i have
so wanna maka friends with me?
2007-01-31 22:28:18 · answer #7 · answered by jasmine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ill b ur friend so u can email and im me anytime u want
2007-02-01 10:32:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you just need to talk with someone e-mail me! if everything goes well we might be friends..
2007-01-30 10:27:05 · answer #9 · answered by sweet_bb_eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try 2 be friendly with small kids they are innocent............and u can have peace in ur mind.
2007-02-02 03:02:08 · answer #10 · answered by paka a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋