okay, people in my class were telling this one girl that i hate her. she believes them. i asked her who told them, she said non of my business, the girl called me a b**** and everyone hates me. what should i do?
2007-01-30 09:53:08 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Try talking to her in private with no interruptions. You may become friends. After that it is all hearsay.
2007-01-30 10:01:36 · answer #1 · answered by Captain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I hate the fact when everything is one sided. There's two sides to a story and regardless of who said what. Never mind the s*** disturbers that loves to cause trouble. I would tell her the truth and hopefully whe will listen. Unless, she wants to believe it?????????????????? Then the next thing is going to happen is these people in your class will cause trouble for someone else. I can already guess who will be BELIEVED? No one and I don't care who it is can speak for you.
Whatever you do try not to stoop to their level........
I hope this was helpful?
2007-01-30 10:02:54 · answer #2 · answered by ********* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain to this girl that you didn't say anything about her and that the other people don't like you and are lying to her, so she won't either. If she can't get over that then, you just have to move on. She shouldn't have called you that because, she didn't have all of the facts. It's a shame that people will lie about you. We live and learn and someday she will realize that you weren't the one in the wrong.
2007-01-30 09:58:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhm I think you should settle things with everyone or, tell the girl you are truly sorry if you said that and it is just a rumor. I personally would just settle things with the girl, or wait for everything to die down because of another new thing like those fly pens or a new sims game.
2007-01-30 10:00:20 · answer #4 · answered by aquadebunnyrocks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just make her see that you don't hate her. Talk to her about it. Even if she calls you names. If she's going to be rude about it then it's not worth your effort to care. If you don't react the rumor will stop. When people say it then just ignore it. not everyone hates you...dramatics won't help...they're just being evil like teenagers can be.
2007-01-30 10:07:55 · answer #5 · answered by Destiny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, just like MTV. Seriously, just ignore them do your schoolwork, graduate, go to college, get a great job, become rich and then when you go back for your 10th year graduation anniversary you can ***** slap 'em all. Living well is the best revenge.
2007-01-30 09:59:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to pull her away from every 1 tell u don't hate and you want to be friends with her i hope this helps u
2007-01-30 09:59:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wear a shirt to school that says 'I don't hate anyone' on the front for a couple of days. The dummies might get the message that way.
2007-01-30 10:02:06 · answer #8 · answered by kicking_back 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rumors are very toxic- the thing is people believe what they want so all you can do is tell her the truth .She can take it however she wants. If it turns into people harassing you then you need to tell your parents or teacher(counselor).
2007-01-30 10:01:24 · answer #9 · answered by meaty_okra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore them, & find someone else to hang out with. If she isn't going to tell you & doesn't believe what you say, there is nothing else you can do.
You might want to join Karate preferably Kenpo. Then if it gets really petty, you can defend yourself.
2007-01-30 09:59:53 · answer #10 · answered by shouldbworkn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋