I like him, but I don’t want to caress him, or touch him in any sexual way, because I don’t want it to lead to bed and end up frustrated again, and again, and again… like it’s happened. He is a very caring individual during the day, he’ll will kiss me all day long and hold my hand all proud and happy, but at night is a WHOLE other story. We’ve had several conversations about this issue and he seems to want guidance, wants me to tell him exactly what I want and how I want it. I remember the last time I had to do this (the guy was 23 yrs old – hello!) and it was to be expected, but from a grown man. I just don’t feel comfortable having to tell a grown man what does it for a woman. Now I don’t feel like being affectionate during the day anymore, because it doesn’t change anything at night. The situation does really frustrate me, and now he is getting frustrated because he’s not getting enough affection. We are both grown adults, shouldn’t intimacy just happen the right way naturally?
2007-01-24
03:52:29
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