Ok I still love loooking at beautiful women and all, but it seems like once I talk to them most of the time, my attraction for them goes down.. I mean it seems like if we ahve nothing in common its no use in talking or flirting with a girl. Is this what chemestry is all aobut?
2007-01-24 03:55:59 · 10 answers · asked by Arthur D 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Congratulations! You are an adult. Looks fade. As the comedian Ron white says "You can't fix stupid". You are among the minority of men that can see past a womans cup size. I am proud of you my young Jedi. When the right girl comes along she will knock your socks off.
2007-01-24 04:01:17 · answer #1 · answered by chcknbizkit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way. I'd be very suspicious if you were attracted to most women after you talked to them. Attraction starts with physical, and proceeds very quickly to communication, common interests, and many other non physical attributes. When communication starts, most attractions are thoroughly filtered, sorted, and discarded as unsuitable.
At least you are meeting women, and have a chance to do the sorting. One of these days, or years, you will have your socks knocked off with someone who is just about perfect. Then the shoe goes on the other foot, and you wonder if you are attractive to her!
Your problem is universal, so don't worry about it.
2007-01-24 12:09:24 · answer #2 · answered by Tim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eureka!! I think by George you've got it!!!
You're maturing. Pretty things are great to look at in the store, but sometimes you find that it was simply the pretty package and the contents leave something to be desired.
You're getting to the point in your life where that is not the most important thing to you, and you should be applauded for that.
1000 gold, flaky stars to you!!!
2007-01-24 12:10:00 · answer #3 · answered by Bathroom Graffiti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, maybe you're looking in the wrong places. Try to not be so shallow, and talk to a pretty girl, instead of gorgeous one. All women are pretty, but if you're only interested in superficial girls, that's all you'll find! I'm not saying the prettier they are, the dumber they are, but, looks aren't everything.
2007-01-24 12:02:53 · answer #4 · answered by purpledragonflyjrh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, guy goes for appearence first, than personality. Bacially we guy follow our lower part of our body first and once the lower part is tired, then our brain is in control.
2007-01-24 12:00:00 · answer #5 · answered by ken401lam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.And you sound like a decent person.Knowing that it takes more than a physical attraction to have a real relationship. ;O)
2007-01-24 11:59:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG...I am the same way....I lose interest fast. Everyone tells me that it takes a lot meet people til you find the one!!!
2007-01-24 12:02:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea not everyone is going to be pretty and perfect there are going to be somethings you dont like about people.
2007-01-24 11:59:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure is...if it isnt there you know right off the bat...no matter how hot she is.
2007-01-24 11:58:50 · answer #9 · answered by BiancaVee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are just meeting the wrong girls. try catching them before the jager bombs
2007-01-24 12:00:49 · answer #10 · answered by Mel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋