So my girlfriend went to vegas recently with some friends from high school and her closest friend brang some of her friends who my girlfriend didnt know and yeh. when she was down there she met a new guy from a friend and i guess they have been talking on the phone because they have been exchanging numbers thru myspace.. and now , i guess they havent been tlaking too each other for a while and my girlfriend sends a msg to the guy saying . " HEY I HAVENT TALKED TO U IN AWHILE.. I WAS WONDERIN IF U WERE MAD AT ME.. IF U R TELL ME SO I CAN MAKE IT UP K? LET ME KNO ".. now can this lead to cheating or is she maybe cheating on me? thanks a lot for those who answer :]
2007-01-24 03:54:00 · 10 answers · asked by yeeeeyeee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
haha, yall are smart thanks again for answers, it was quick :]
2007-01-24 04:06:42 · update #1
ohh yeh, if i did tell her about this going thru her email she would be sayin **** like " while u going thru my business", but then it is my business and like " why u think i cheat on u blah blah, im ur first ( we lost it to each other ) , i give u everything " she said she loves all that "
2007-01-24 04:08:59 · update #2
it was a MESSAGE , not a comment.
2007-01-24 04:35:31 · update #3
Well, it sounds like she has established some sort of connection with this guy and it's obviously making you uncomfortable. If she is hiding her contact with him from you then I would be much more suspicious. It might continue to grow into something that could be cheating if it hasn't already. I would talk to her as soon as possible and see what she has to say about it. If she respects you and your relationship she will be honest with you. If you still think she is hiding something then she may not be trustworthy. It seems like you are already having trust issues with her because you are reading her messages. Bring it up without mentioning the fact that you were snooping in her mail and hope for the best!
2007-01-24 04:05:03 · answer #1 · answered by purple stars13 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas. LOL
Why were you not invited to go with her since there were guys there? Is she acting differently since the trip? What happened to make you start snooping around in her stuff?
That message doesn't prove anything. Sounds like she hasn't talked to him in a long time and she's wondering why. It's just a comment that she made through her MESSAGE.....whatever!
You need to quit being so INSECURE and start respecting your girlfriend's privacy.
2007-01-24 04:33:58 · answer #2 · answered by MD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would be cheating if he did considered one of those issues' a million: He kissed her. 2: He held her 3: hugged her like extremely close and grow to be whispering in her ear 4: grow to be retaining palms or the different actual varieties of charm.
2016-09-27 22:30:54 · answer #3 · answered by riopel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people would consider that cheating, but it's not. One thing I'm going to ask you is, are you going through her personal belongings to find this out. If so that is the wrong thing to do. To me this sounds like she just made a really good male friend. I don't think she's cheating on you. One thing to do, is talk to your girl about what's going on. You need to say what is on your mind. Don't walk around going "is she cheating on me, is she going to cheat on me" TALK TO HER.!!!
2007-01-24 04:00:48 · answer #4 · answered by Jaime A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump her dude, she has cheated or she will be cheating, its only a matter of time, if a girl is so involved that she cares about someone elses feelings like that, then its time to send her down the road.
2007-01-24 03:59:48 · answer #5 · answered by J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id ask her straight out mate.. obviously she could lie but if you trust her then at least you'l no the truth.
sorry to sound harsh but if she is chatting to someone else like that you have to ask yourself why should she need to when she has you if that makes sense. sit her down and say something like ' i need you to be completly honest with me and relax her so that she no's your not gonna flip.
good luck mate, hope it works out for yous.
2007-01-24 04:01:43 · answer #6 · answered by flintstoneeagle1985 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheater cheater pumpkin eater!!!! I'm sorry to say, but it does sound like she has already cheated. God Bless and Be Safe :)
2007-01-24 04:00:59 · answer #7 · answered by Yeah it's me................ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sry hun but it sounds like she already cheated
2007-01-24 03:57:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably not girls do seem flirty with guys just because you nice to another guy....dont worry about it
2007-01-24 03:58:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am not really good at relationships, but did u try talking to her about it?
2007-01-24 04:02:30 · answer #10 · answered by turtle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋