2007-01-24 03:50:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, however you should work on your low self esteem. No body wants TOO much baggage. marriage has enough problems in its self much less low self esteem. Work on yourself first then get married.
2007-01-24 07:00:41 · answer #1 · answered by Lauren D 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
With the right partner it is manageable. Unfortunately, women with low self esteem are easy targets for domineering partners. If the woman is aware that she has an issue with her self worth, she should seek help immediately and work on building herself. If she has an understanding partner that does not try to take advantage of her, the partner can really help in the process. A true partner will want to help in this process. Low self esteem can be extremely dangerous when it leads to depression, suicidal feelings. Just a lack of confidence damages your social relationships and undoubtedly your career. The good news is it can all be changed. So in answer to your question, a woman with less self confidence can be a candidate for a wife, so long as she is determined to better her feelings about herself and her partner is truly supportive in the endeavor.
2007-01-24 03:57:57 · answer #2 · answered by Tara P 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I personally would say NO. Because if your self-esteem is already at a time low then marriage will not help it. Going into a marriage you will need all of the self esteem you can get and it doesn't need to be on low. The only way you would be a good candidate if you are marrying someone that is truly wonderful and patient with you to help you with some of your issues. Then he will be a winner and I will say marry him now. Good luck.
2007-01-24 04:00:41 · answer #3 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Low self esteem is not good at all. And until you get some you shouldn't want to get married. Men usually take advantage of women with low self esteem. You put your self and he'll turn around and agree. A lot of women with low self esteem put up with crap from guys that they usually wouldn't if they have self esteem. You should yahoo search for building up self esteem. I'm sure there are a lot of tips and answers that you could find.
2007-01-24 03:57:54 · answer #4 · answered by ms.knowitall 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely..
Low Self Confidence & Low self esteem are sometimes
feminine & endearing qualities...
A good husband can usually remedy these problems.
2007-01-24 03:56:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you can relax now because there are millions of people out there with low self esteem. Its normal.
2007-01-24 03:54:11 · answer #6 · answered by Mike 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think it is fairly normal for us to have low self esteem at different times in our lives. doesn't mean it will affect the marriage at all, marriage might boost her self esteem. we all have suffered with it, better a little humility than to be so full of ones self that all that matters is them.
2007-01-24 04:20:12 · answer #7 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, she can be a "candidate" for a wife. Marriage isn't exclusively for emotionally flawless people. In fact, the love of a spouse can help heal some personal demons. It isn't always tragic to bring your flaws into a marriage.
2007-01-24 03:56:43 · answer #8 · answered by Bzl1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do you want to be a wife? or a possession or a whole person?
You have to want to be ALL of the above! Don't lose sight of the big picture to accomplish one small part of your goal!
2007-01-24 03:56:09 · answer #9 · answered by hiding1959 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its a very unattractive quality..i hate it when good looking women say they are fat. it pissed me off.
2007-01-24 04:04:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋