He cheated on me a long time, I didn't know. We were married 23 yrs. The lies, betrayal, stealing money from out household account to spend on her, the thing is he said its all my fault, because I was so controling and insecure, a manipulator. Well how can I be those things if I didn't know, wouldn't I have been over his shoulder not allowing him to do stuff without me if I didn't trust him? I'm not saying I am perfect gosh no, but the reasons he has given are so far from the truth. They met online and she knows he's married, doesn't care though. She has harrassed me by phone, email, letters, he doesn't believe its her, she's not that type of person because she didn't sign her name, but the calls are from her phone in Canada and she lives alone. Her faimly doesnt know hes still married, she would be to embarassed to tell them but she demanded for everyone here to know. He has seen the phone bills and still doesnt believe. I dont want him, the type of person I am, I care for him still.
2007-01-19
11:16:06
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Sassy D
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Marriage & Divorce