If you were in love with a woman, but had trust/commitment issues because of your ex wife and previous girlfriends (they cheated and lied), what could a woman do to show you that she isn't going to betray you and that her love is for you and you only? That she's not the cheating type and you can trust her??
I've been looking into buy him a Harley - to show him my heart, mind, soul and eyes are only for him.
Please help me. Thank you.
2007-01-19 11:25:01 · 6 answers · asked by GreenEyedLou 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
1.Dont stall when asked a question. 2. Look him in the eyes when you talk to him. 3. Dont go on yahoo answers to ask a question that you already know the answer to, he doesnt trust you, you would know if he did. dont buy him a Harley. That wont build any trust. If he cant trust you, there is nothing you can do for that. Where does trust come from? Look to God, pray together, be honest with him with everthing.
2007-01-19 11:38:28 · answer #1 · answered by SalesDude 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I would have to know that the trust issue is totally something that I need to overcome and that it is not the current girlfriend's fault that I don't trust. That girlfriend should show me that I can trust her by being where she says she is going to be, be up front, and if something happens, I need to be the first to be called. Material things are not going to buy trust. Its those little things that is going to earn my trust. I myself would do the same to show her that she can trust me......But then again, that is just me, I can't speak for anyone else. Good luck!!
2007-01-19 19:56:00 · answer #2 · answered by Nice guy in OR 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't buy him a Harley. Show him you can be trusted by your actions. Be true, be committed, be real, and he'll trust you. I had a friend that got a Harley from his fiancee, and they ended up getting divorced after less than a year of marriage.
2007-01-20 00:54:01 · answer #3 · answered by JB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's in your actions. You just have to put yourself in shoes and ask yourself what he wants. You show by listening, understanding, thoughtfulness, and positive experiences. You can't buy love, you earn it. He got burned in the past and he's just being careful. You can win him over by remaining consistent with your actions, and never give him reason to doubt. Trust takes time to build, and one moment to erase what you have built.
2007-01-19 19:53:18 · answer #4 · answered by Need Answers 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
material things probably wont cut it.if somebody has deep set trust issues they are as much to do with themselves as they are with there past & present partners,if you could get them to see that & admit that to themselves trust would surely be forthcomming,...but i think that it would be an impossible task due to the fact its never our own faults-we always wrongly think its someone elses.
2007-01-19 19:42:26 · answer #5 · answered by webby 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just be there for him when he needs you. always talk with him, and be involved in conversation. let him know you appreciate him.
2007-01-19 19:32:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋