2007-01-19 11:17:38 · 40 answers · asked by ♥ms.peREz?♥ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I did. I was 17. But I don't regret it. You don't really regret that unless you are some selfish person who does stupid things and can't deal with the aftermath of their actions.
I can't stand when people tell you that you will regret it when you get older. Its so ignorant.
2007-01-19 11:23:58 · answer #1 · answered by TricksterM 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Not regretting it is impossible. My mother had me at an early age and it was very hard for her. If i were you i wouldn't regret it as much. It all depends on how you look at the situation. You can see it as a bad thing. .or a good thing. .or just nothing. Think about when the baby gets older. That child will be able to know you longer before you die bc they were born at an early time. They will also feel closer to you IF you SUPPORT them and don't treat them like they are a mistake. At first having a child at an early age doesn't seem like it holds many advantages but as you get older they will start to appear.
So in summary, if you look at it as regreting it and as a mistake then that's what it will be. Change your view of it, support the child, and try your best to be a good mother and everyhting will work out fine.
2007-01-19 11:26:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I did ....1st child 17...2nd baby 18....and then, 2 more children following that. I do NOT regret it at all!!! Me and my husband have been married 15 years and I love hearing people say, "You have a15 year old daughter? You do not look old enough!" I just say well. I was really young!!
Everything happens for a reason and some of us are just blessed with a good life and good families earlier than others!!
2007-01-20 07:51:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had my first son at the age of 18. I am closer to him than my other 2 sons that were 10 years and 17 years younger than him. I think it's because we kind of grew up together. I never regretted it. But on the other hand I don't think that I would have wanted one any younger than that.
2007-01-19 11:28:03 · answer #4 · answered by unicornfarie1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had my son and 18 and don't regret it at all. He was the best thing that could have happened to me. I now have 3 more babies and am happy to say that I will be 44 when they are all graduated from high school.
2007-01-19 11:22:15 · answer #5 · answered by Militant Agnostic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm 20yrs old i was 18 2 days before my daughter was born she is now 2 and a half years old, i don't regret it if i could go back and do it again i would she is the love of my life she brings me happiness everyday how could anyone regret that?
2007-01-19 11:26:34 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my 18 year old cousin in the Philippines has two kids and i dont know if she "regrets it", but the parents got mad. Same with my other 18 year old cousin from my dad's side. She's now 21 though. My neighbor had a son at 20 years old, and I don't think she regrets it either. The parents were disappointed for a while though, until he was born. I for one, don't have kids yet. I'm 22.
2007-01-19 11:26:56 · answer #7 · answered by Suzy Suzee Sue 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Lorelai Gilmore? Oh wait, she's not real.
I don't know any young mothers who don't regret it. They may be happy, but I've heard them talk and they would rather have gone to school or gotten a job than been saddled with a kid at 20.
2007-01-19 11:22:51 · answer #8 · answered by Rachel 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I had a baby when i was 16. His name is josh an he's almost 5 now. He's the biggest blessing me and my husband could have ever asked for. It was really hard to have him at such a young age. I'm still trying to finish college but hey... it was worth it.
2007-01-19 11:21:18 · answer #9 · answered by ~*~BelAnge~*~ 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
How young are we talking here? I was 23 when I had my son and I didnt regret it AT ALL. Wanted to start young (and retire young!).
2007-01-19 11:21:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋