Family & Relationships - 30 December 2006

My boyfriend seems to test me and expects a reaction out of me. Its gotten so crazy that I just don't understand it. Then he sends me emails I think just to play on my emotions.

2006-12-30 01:12:00 · 11 answers · asked by o'juiccy1 2 in Singles & Dating

or is it better to say nothing because by asking it-it puts a damper
on the whole thing? if after 2 dates you don't kiss, but the girl
agrees to go out- doesn't that mean the girl is leaving it as a
possiblity? Would a woman ever go out with a guy on a 3rd date
just to be friends- not romantic-but not say that is the case?

2006-12-30 01:11:44 · 8 answers · asked by don;t know 3 in Singles & Dating

im, 16 and i never had a bf before, well, im the type ofpersomthat is open for anything or anybody........ i have a sense of humor. quite talented...friendly....openminded.......help?

2006-12-30 01:10:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My darling dog has been so important in my life. Her sweet ways, all the love she has to give and how she makes me laugh. I would like her to know just how loved and appreciated she is and how important she is to me. How can I make sure she knows this?

2006-12-30 01:10:46 · 9 answers · asked by ohmygoodness! 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Why doesn't a woman go down on "her" knee to propose marriage to a man?

2006-12-30 01:10:21 · 22 answers · asked by devotionalservice 4 in Weddings

I am the only child home now. I just turned 18. When I wake up and I have done nothing wrong, I get called dumb and stupid for just having the cordless phone in the bed. I get called ignorant all time. I just want to leave. but I have one more year in high shool. I have to beg to go places with my boyfriend, like I have given them a reason not to trust me. I am so unhappy here. I try to read the bible and my mom tells me that I am the devil, so put the bible down. She talks to me like I am nothing, I just want to make something out of my life so I can leave here and never come back. She puts me down and tell me that I'm not going anywhere. I could go on and on, but its not enough space. I have good times too. But when this happens it gets unbearable. What should I do?

2006-12-30 01:09:38 · 12 answers · asked by GG 1 in Family

I'm looking for serious answers here. Nothing along the lines of "duh" or "of course".
I'm just wondering, because I haven't been able to find a woman who thinks that it's important for a man to live his life with integrity. Most women that I know think that it's great when a man is unfaithful, lazy, bullying, and dishonest in general. They view him as being a "bad boy" who has "edge" and is a "challenge".

On the other hand, a man who is confident, mentally and physically healthy, a community leader, intelligent, romantic, honest, and would be a devoted husband and father, is seen as "boring" and "too nice".

Why is this? Do these women have low self-esteem and think that they don't deserve better . . . or, do men of integrity have to start being losers in order for women to appreciate them?

I look forward to your intelligent and well-thought-out answers.

2006-12-30 01:08:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am a guy who is 24 years old, and still a virgin, because I am saving myself for marriage. The thing is it has put me off going on dates, because I worry when I do get a girlfriend and I tell her that I want to wait until after we are married to have sex she might not want to be with me anymore. The only reason I worry about this is the way today’s society is obsessed with sex, and I don’t want to risk getting hurt if when I do get a girlfriend and tell her she might not want to wait because she likes sex to much, or she might cheat on me because she has given up waiting. So is what I feel normal, and what do I do? It would also be nice to know if a girl would be willing to wait? Or would you say no and end the relationship?

2006-12-30 01:07:06 · 49 answers · asked by Hades 1 in Singles & Dating

he continued to hurt you to the point of tears but you really were happy with each other besides all the pain he caused you? I am mean, I know, but I really like her. I want to have hope but I think she is done with me!?

2006-12-30 01:07:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-30 01:06:45 · 7 answers · asked by arif q 1 in Weddings

Just curious!

2006-12-30 01:06:16 · 24 answers · asked by Mark C 3 in Singles & Dating

Why do these guys ask me for sex all the time I am really not that way and I don't want a BF..infact I am difficult so why they have to be that way I really don't like it!

2006-12-30 01:04:00 · 7 answers · asked by canihavelikethat 1 in Singles & Dating

When you lost a lover that you love so much, can it be true, that you can spend alone for the rest of your life , and not find anyone you like anymore ? can that be that you love a girl so much, that could never find someone to equate her or to fulfill your heart as she did ?

2006-12-30 01:03:37 · 17 answers · asked by Roy A 1 in Singles & Dating

I know this is not the place to ask but I'm at my wit's end!! I love my man to pieces and he's made me so happy in the long time that we've been together, but lately he's been cancelling on me, not bothering to call me etc. It's fine when we're spending time together but when we're apart it's as if he forgets about me. I know how he feels about me and I know that he's not cheating on me, so I just feel like he's taking me for granted. I've spoken to him today after he's cancelled on me again and said I want to speak to him tomorrow. He said he's scared that I'm going to break up with him. I don't want to lose him but can't face feeling like this. I've spoken to him so many times about it and he always says he'll change, but soon goes back to normal. I'm torn between breaking up with him and giving him one last chance. Is it worth giving him an ultimatum? I know I sound demanding but that's not how it is at all, I just want a balanced relationship!

2006-12-30 01:03:31 · 29 answers · asked by mishmash 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

He seems aloof from me & keeps finding fault wid me saying he does not want to go out wid me anymore as does not like my attitude. He has made the receptionist his PA & is promoting her & giving her all his attention. He was madly in love with me but now he suddenly does not seem to care about me or my work or my potential. Yet, he does not leave me or break this relationship. He is going thru major problems with his wife & a separation, yet he wants me to leave him alone but when I tried to break-up he said it was not over from his end. I love him yet I am finding it hard to trust hm. He used to drop me home earlier but now he does'nt & drops this receptionist evryday & gives her special attention & says this only bcoz he is grooming her. He celebrated her birthday with much better fanfare. Don't know wat's up with him but this is effecting me badly.

2006-12-30 01:02:15 · 15 answers · asked by Pammy 1 in Singles & Dating

Me & my bf were trying to make a fresh start. He has everything he needs & wants, & there is nothing that he wants that he can't buy from $100.00 shoes to $200.00 sports wear. But for whatever reason & I believe it's his past he has no desire to go all out for me. If we go to the movies I pay for the tickets he buys the food. He does not have a problem with us going dutch when we dine out, & I am trying to figure out if money is no object then why does it has to be this way. My thoughts are he had gold digging gf's before me & is determined to not go there again, but I don't want to spend my entire relationship trying to prove to him that I am not them. He has been hurt really, really bad, & I feel to a degree I am paying for it. So my question is if he is able to take care of anything finically, & I have never asked him to buy me anything, but just fully pay for dinner & a movie what do you call this and what am I suppose to do about it. This is the only problem in our relationship.

2006-12-30 01:02:02 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have an english penfriend , I love him and I want to meet him but I can't :( i'm spanish and he lives very far.
I want to send him an original message, because he sent me "i'm a sad clown, because i can't draw my nose with the carmine of your lips"
what can I answer to him??

2006-12-30 01:01:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-30 01:01:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Me & my bf were trying to make a fresh start. He has everything he needs & wants, & there is nothing that he wants that he can't buy from $100.00 shoes to $200.00 sports wear. But for whatever reason & I believe it's his past he has no desire to go all out for me. If we go to the movies I pay for the tickets he buys the food. He does not have a problem with us going dutch when we dine out, & I am trying to figure out if money is no object then why does it has to be this way. My thoughts are he had gold digging gf's before me & is determined to not go there again, but I don't want to spend my entire relationship trying to prove to him that I am not them. He has been hurt really, really bad, & I feel to a degree I am paying for it. So my question is if he is able to take care of anything finically, & I have never asked him to buy me anything, but just fully pay for dinner & a movie what do you call this and what am I suppose to do about it. This is the only problem in our relationship.

2006-12-30 00:59:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have been emailing you lot for a few weeks now. my partner of 7 years left me and his daughter to go and live down south, he had said he didnt know what he wanted and he didnt have feelings for me, i wanted an answer from him, were we over or not, he wouldnt give me a a straight answer. some of you did say why wait for him, you tell him you are over!!! well i have today, ive text him and told him i am moving on!!! i am a bit scared at the moment but a new year is beginning and i hope i have better luck next year. just wanted to thank you all for your support and suggestions over the last few weeks, its really helped me. thank you xxx

2006-12-30 00:59:16 · 30 answers · asked by ann_jacques 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

This is a long question. I live with 4 other miltary guys in our house outside of the U.S. And we are supposed to have a curfew of 0300 in the morning. Well... its flexible but I have this one roomate who doesn't go out and just sits in his room waiting for us to break curfew so he can tell on us. Then when he brings it up to our boss (He doesnt care... kind of a dont ask dont tell about the curfew) the he has to say something because he definitely knows about it now. Nothing gets started in this country till midnight anyway and no one would care how late we stayed out except my annoying hermit of a roomate. How can I tolerate this guy?

2006-12-30 00:57:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-30 00:57:36 · 4 answers · asked by trisha 2 in Family

I recently got home from 2 off an on years in Iraq. I guess I haven't really been around to be the best father but yesterday I was going through our computer and I saw some videos of my daughter and her teenage friends ages 15-17 dancing around in their underwear and I also found a bunch of Pictures of them in our bathroom wearing hardly anything! I mean she is lucky she wasn't naked or else I would be in Jail right now for Killing her! But When I confronted her she said thats just what girls are doing these days!!! Is this true? I mean I spent a little while searching through myspace.com and I noticed alot of half dressed girls...what the heck is going on? Does anyone else think this is a problem? Why all of a sudden did it become cool for teen girls to put pics of themselves in thongs all over the net?

2006-12-30 00:56:08 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have a crush on my gym instructor. I'd like to ask her out. not b/c I think we would match terribly well but rather b/c I thik we may both have fun with it. Some facts to consider:

Pros:
a) I find her attractive b/c she is really fit (duh!) and b/c she is so obviously very different from how I am and in addition seems very careless
b) she always complements me on how I do in class
c) she makes more small talk with me than with others and sometimes we walk to the subway together after class

Cons:
a) I don't want to make her uncomfortable, and I'd like ot keep going to her class
b) She's much older than I am -- in her mid-40s. I am in my late 20s.
c) She's not the brightest bulb -- but being together with grad students all the time this may be a nice break, keeping in mind that I wouldn't want anything serious and am rather looking for some fun (and would only do it if she were in the same position)

Has anyone done this? Any tips?

2006-12-30 00:55:51 · 4 answers · asked by trey 2 in Singles & Dating

i am going out with my boyfriend for almost 2 months. i got him something really nice for x-mas but is it a good idea to give him a cd with love songs and if yes any good love song??? thanks

2006-12-30 00:54:24 · 10 answers · asked by athina 3 in Singles & Dating

Just wondering....

My boyfriend often goes on hiatus from love making....like for weeks. And, there is this mysterious rough patch of skin that is sometimes there....sometimes not.....on the head of the penis.

This seems unnatural to me, as we have only started living together a few months ago....and this should be the "honeymoon phase" in our relationship. But....it is not.

Something isn't right.

2006-12-30 00:53:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

1. got a sex pertner
2. get a person than who is care his?
3. get a persona than who is doing his work.?

2006-12-30 00:51:58 · 9 answers · asked by shafu 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-30 00:50:48 · 7 answers · asked by sweethopez 1 in Singles & Dating

why is it when im calmed and im happy be possitve my man gots to mest it up and get me uppset and angry inside like right now i feel so angry with him cause he mest up my moring by takeing something i asked the wrong way n trust me it was not bad and nothing neggative torse him

2006-12-30 00:50:34 · 5 answers · asked by Jesenia O 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

someone recently pointed out to me that i spoke of my ex relationships too much. i thought this was normal, because i believe these people have influenced me in some way and i could never let go of them. am i right or am i just obessed?

2006-12-30 00:50:17 · 23 answers · asked by mia. 1 in Singles & Dating