My boyfriend seems to test me and expects a reaction out of me. Its gotten so crazy that I just don't understand it. Then he sends me emails I think just to play on my emotions.
2006-12-30 01:12:00 · 11 answers · asked by o'juiccy1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He might be testing to see how you really are and if you're a keeper or not. He has probably had bad past experiences and has learned what he needs to watch out for.
2006-12-30 01:15:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-06 05:13:10 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say good bye to that suspicious man. Ask him to do some research on developing tools for testing. There are many guys like him around the world who would buy the technology from him and he inturn make some money, better leave him
2006-12-30 01:21:36 · answer #3 · answered by smartcamal1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey trust me, when a man is insecure and needs to result to childish things like test, he won't stop even after marriage. Along with his little test, he's probably controlling, possessive, and jealous. Watch out!
2006-12-30 01:20:03 · answer #4 · answered by Wonders 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not give him a reaction. If my boyfriend had kept playing games with me, I'd dump him. Thankfully I'm married to a wonderful man.
2006-12-30 01:15:16 · answer #5 · answered by momofkings 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont test my lady -- i do send lots of messages letting her know how i feel and my understanding of her feelings and reactions --- i do it to make sure i do understand her ---- i keep trying to find out if i am correct (getting a reaction) yet at the same time i KNOW that i am correct --- by her silence she confirms it --- and i keep sending --- to let her know that i care deeply for her
he may be doing something similar
2006-12-30 01:17:59 · answer #6 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both genders can play that game. I've had girls do the same to me, then they say "I've never seen you mad." It comes with baggage, they are testing to make sure they don't end up with the wrong person again.
2006-12-30 01:18:30 · answer #7 · answered by Mike H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoa.......nelly! Um, females test men in relationships way more frequently and intensely than males do.. come on , you must have not reviewed your secret female handbook "the girl's guide to screwing a man's mind", lately , huh
2006-12-30 01:20:14 · answer #8 · answered by memo_phx 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's not just men who provoke others. It's everyone. If someone knows they can push your buttons, then they will. Don't react to his provocations. Ignore them. Trust me, it'll make him leave you alone.
2006-12-30 01:18:23 · answer #9 · answered by honey_bear_21_1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's one of the classic signs of insecurity.
2006-12-30 01:21:28 · answer #10 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋