This is a long question. I live with 4 other miltary guys in our house outside of the U.S. And we are supposed to have a curfew of 0300 in the morning. Well... its flexible but I have this one roomate who doesn't go out and just sits in his room waiting for us to break curfew so he can tell on us. Then when he brings it up to our boss (He doesnt care... kind of a dont ask dont tell about the curfew) the he has to say something because he definitely knows about it now. Nothing gets started in this country till midnight anyway and no one would care how late we stayed out except my annoying hermit of a roomate. How can I tolerate this guy?
2006-12-30 00:57:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Believe me he does nto go out I have tried to invite him. Just a little insight on this guys personality. He sits in his room and makes little sculptures out of clay of X-men all day. Which I dont care what he does but he is my age and he is a grown man with no life and pissed off at life. And he likes to keep it that way.
2006-12-30 01:16:45 · update #1
wow that guys sounds like a real jerk. heres what you do. tell him that he should go with you. or have one of your female friends invite him out. make sure she keeps him out till past 0300 that way when he gets home you will know that he is late and he won't be able to tell on you guys without you being able to tell on him. or you could talk to him tell him that you guys are all on the same team and that he should not be routing against you. tell him that you really want to be all buddies but if he keeps this up it will be hard to be friends with him. good luck
2006-12-30 01:03:21 · answer #1 · answered by littleluvkitty 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1st: (which I'm sure u already tried), ask him to go out w/ you guys
2nd: Confront him, ask him why, get him talking and make it seem like you care about him and what he's saying. He may just feel left out or sometimes people don't socialize just because they're shy and tend to get nervous around other people.
3rd: He may have a "don't ask, don't tell" secret of his own, so tell him you'll "tell". Even if he's not tell him that rumors can sometimes get started, and you'd hate for that to happen, etc. You know the passive aggressive approach.
Anyway just a few sugs, GL.
2006-12-30 01:29:53 · answer #2 · answered by GreyGHost29 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
seem. in case you have a boyfriend it is being stalked with the aid of your room ate you're able to desire to ask her to bypass away or get out. considering the undeniable fact that isn't a chum, so in case you wreck it off you're actually not loosing something yet an enemy. Now, we could communicate approximately your boyfriend. how are you able to 2 initiate trusting one yet another to artwork out arguments instead of him working to three one else. each and every guy gets annoyed and needs somebody to speak to, yet whilst he's discussing breaking apart with somebody different then you definately which ability the relationship isn't probable equipped on believe. You 2 ought to take a seat down and initiate listening to one yet another. I instructed my spouse as quickly as we met that our relationship became component of an inner circle that no person else belonged in. i became VERY extreme approximately explaining that. no person must be speaking approximately your very own employer becuase no person ought to comprehend approximately it yet you 2. it's time to speak approximately what privateness is. Get to it!
2016-11-25 00:40:05 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get him out with you other guys. Include him and quit ostracizing him for being quiet. We are all different and choose different things in life.
Befriend him and treat him with respect, maybe he will repay you in kind...
He definitely feels like an outsider.
You guys need to put some effort into this and be sincere... put aside your anger , don't judge him.
Treat him how you would like to be treated. No name calling, badgering or teasing....
Get off your high horse and be a human being......be sensitive to other peoples feelings'... don't get so caught up in me, me, me.
2006-12-30 01:17:43 · answer #4 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's no need to be particularly mature about this. Just do like kids do in school. Get something on him you can blackmail him with. Threaten him you'll spread some rumour you've made up, get some photos in a compromising position or fake-up some photos.
2006-12-30 01:01:02 · answer #5 · answered by ricochet 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try an get up early for once. It will work.
2006-12-30 01:00:28 · answer #6 · answered by rhe_abhatia 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you brought this up to him?
Have you thought about inviting him?
Thank you for serving. :)
2006-12-30 01:10:10 · answer #7 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what a prick--- hey, don't you do that blanket party? I think one of those wouldn't be bad. Happy New Years btw...
2006-12-30 01:01:03 · answer #8 · answered by erotikos_stratiotis 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋