Family & Relationships - 27 December 2006

this girl keeps harassing me on myspace talkin about he`s my man so get outta my face!! i don`t want to think he`s a player but i might not have a choice. i`m not with him all the time but i trust him. and on top of that, i`ve given him MONEY!! (black women: relate) so what do i do if i trust him but she keeps telling me to back off?

2006-12-27 19:47:37 · 7 answers · asked by babiflow20 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-27 19:47:05 · 3 answers · asked by Green Valley 2 in Friends

Ok so we hang out alot because she just moved in with her mom about 3 months ago.she used to life in a different state but i would see her each summer for the last 3-4 years.k i told her i liked her and she said she needs a friend now(her ex broke up with her 5-6 months ago he didn't love her any more they went out for 2yr)so like a week later its her b-day and we had some drink and got buzzed and made out.and after a half hour she gets up and say sry and gos to bed.so its now a month cents than and we still hang out alot and she hits me all the time and not hard and we play fight and when i have her pined she bites me(she likes to bite)so does she like me?she just need time to get over her ex right?she talks about him now and again but only for a moment but she got upset when she found out he had a new girl. i real dont want to be friends i want her so what should i do? but if i have to i will be just friends.thaxz for the help!!

2006-12-27 19:46:58 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you have true friends that are there for you because of you not money or popularity?

2006-12-27 19:46:12 · 12 answers · asked by mimi07 1 in Friends

2006-12-27 19:45:46 · 2 answers · asked by ali m 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm scared that they'll be mad and i don't want them to yell at me, and i don't really want them to know but i think i need their help.

2006-12-27 19:45:28 · 19 answers · asked by Caitlyn 1 in Family

be honest everyone, mine spends too much on me, way too much, over $40K aud on a new car she spending on me so it's gonna be cool, I aint gloating cause she asked if I wanted a new car so dont say anything stupid like I using her ok,

but be honest whats the most you had spent on you or will have spent on you before you die??

Mitch

2006-12-27 19:45:19 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-27 19:45:13 · 5 answers · asked by reeses30135 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Been engaged for 2 yrs. In our culture the dad provides the money 4 d wedding, i work but he's refused to accept help from me. I am tired of waiting. I wanna have kids while i still can & i want to be with my man. He'said if i do it without him, he'll never forgive me. This is a war between culture, religion and love, help me.

2006-12-27 19:45:07 · 43 answers · asked by Fireblaster 2 in Weddings

Ladies, If I willingly laid down in a puddle of muddy water would you walk on me, use me like a bridge? I could not bear the thought of your pumps getting wet.

2006-12-27 19:44:51 · 12 answers · asked by cold runner 5 in Singles & Dating

All my life I'd always been a "loser" with women - couldn't get a date to save my life in most cases. Then I met a woman a little over a year ago who was everything I wanted - attractive (very), intelligent, nice, everything. We fell in love with each other and things got very serious; we even talked marriage. Then after her birthday in September, she pretty-much dumped me. I mean, third time she says "I want to marry you" and then six weeks later she's sleeping with some other guy. Pretty painful to say the least. Anyway, I'm at a crossroads: I'm afraid I won't find something else, the "beggars can't be choosers" mentality, I can't lower my standards (I'm just not that way) and I REFUSE to "use" another person to get me over her, thus hurting that other woman in the process. I feel caught between a rock and a hard place and since more (non-serious) relationships are the best way to get over past ones, I'm at a loss. What can I do?

2006-12-27 19:43:35 · 10 answers · asked by Phoenix 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-27 19:42:41 · 14 answers · asked by kakira 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-27 19:42:01 · 29 answers · asked by Josh 3 in Singles & Dating

whats it mean when you love someone so much you cant sleep and you cry everynight! but he dont know and last time i told him i liked him a yr ago he said were just friends but he dont know i still love him

2006-12-27 19:41:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 2 years and dated my husband for a year but we known each other for 15 years.My marriage hasn't been in mint condition for the pass 3 months, my husband has cheated on me and wanted to leave but i begged him to stay. Now I'm tired of trying to make a marriage work, I love my husband but I'm not in love with him. The Ex-boyfriend is my 1st boyfriend ( i was 13 he was 15) and I still have feelings for him, he came back and still wants to be with me and he still loves me and is in love with me and i feel the same way despite me being married and unhappy which he pointed out without me having to tell him. HELP

2006-12-27 19:41:42 · 27 answers · asked by ANNICE 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-27 19:40:56 · 11 answers · asked by satyabhamamoharathy2005 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-27 19:40:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this guy is homeless and im guessing that he is mentally ill too coz often i saw him like talkin by himself and i always wanted to hand him just about anything, pizza, cigarettes etc, one day i was suprised when i hand him a pizza, he said " are u sure?..hey Thanks....that time i feel good and bad, coz that mean this guy is sane....am i making him more lazy if i hand him something? is it a good or bad thing to do??hmmmm....?

2006-12-27 19:40:02 · 4 answers · asked by Baby Blue 2 in Friends

2006-12-27 19:39:36 · 12 answers · asked by Bootsy 3 in Singles & Dating

There's this guy at work who plays around with me sometimes. One day, he sees me walking by and goes, "There she goes." And one time, I was stocking some dairy products at wal-mart and he goes, "hey, quit playing with the yogurt."

2006-12-27 19:39:25 · 21 answers · asked by Dreamyeyes 1 in Singles & Dating

a guy who says he has money and bullshits just to go out with you. nowadays girls like guys with money even if they are butt ugly. Once they find out that he lied then they dump him. There are alot of girls like that. My friend always did that and he got to go out with many of the naive girls. this works usually girls under 25. After 25, girls are smarter b/c they have been lied too so they know how guys could be. Usually works with the younger chicks

2006-12-27 19:38:11 · 10 answers · asked by PD 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay, I'm a 16 year old girl who knows plenty about masturbation and sex and whatever. I know it's normal and okay (to do in private!). But my 19 year old brother does it while watching TV in the living room, and I'm maybe 15 feet (tops!) away from him, on the computer in the dining room. He does it "discreetly" under a light blanket but it's VERY OBVIOUS what he's doing. I don't care what he does in his own time with his own privacy, but he's like IN PLAIN SIGHT OF ME. It's disgusting and extremely uncomfortable. I don't know what to do! I am much too uncomfortable to confront him about it. Should I tell our mom? Should I use it as blackmail next time he sees me smoking? I need help, PLEASE.

2006-12-27 19:37:07 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

im a single guy and i have the hardest problem finding the right women am i the only one with this problem?( im over 30 )

2006-12-27 19:35:51 · 24 answers · asked by little_bear 3 in Singles & Dating

tell me some hints how a guy flrt wth a grl .

2006-12-27 19:34:46 · 11 answers · asked by priya 1 in Singles & Dating

I just want to pput this in perspective, a lot of women say "You should love her for who she is, not whether or not she stays skinny and sexy" So if I got a beer gut, stopped brushing my teeth, and only took a bath once a week, then a woman should love me for who I ma inside, right?

2006-12-27 19:34:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he is in my class. he is my good friend but sumtimes he talk to me very diffrently well i dont know wat he is trying to proof
he loves to play with my hair . he stares me everytime.on christmas when i asked him wat to wear he told me to wear red and white but i refused saying i would look like santa's girl friend he answered back saying i want to wear santa's clothes.
he hates my boy friend .he always say i love u whenever i say i hate u.he loves dancing with me . he sumtimes sing songs for me he he he ........................

2006-12-27 19:34:28 · 9 answers · asked by tanu 2 in Friends

She is from Taiwan and I am from the states. She is very close with her family and they are very important to her. I do not speak Chinese and trips there are out of the question at the moment, so I have no real way of clearly communicating with them. They have also made it clear that they would not approve of her being with an American. Although she doesn't feel the same way, she wants to respect her parents wishes as they are only trying to protect her. After college is over she doesn't know what to do, and neither do I. If she goes against her parents she risks serious repercussions. She is afraid it isn't practical and we won't be able to make it work. What can we do? We love each other very much, but I don't know if that will be enough to keep us together.

2006-12-27 19:33:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

why do guys think size matters?

2006-12-27 19:33:33 · 21 answers · asked by Katy 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-27 19:32:58 · 21 answers · asked by Isu 1 in Singles & Dating

how do u reject a guy that is ur rly good friend and then still stay friends with them and how is hte best way to do it

2006-12-27 19:31:50 · 13 answers · asked by Katy 2 in Singles & Dating