im a single guy and i have the hardest problem finding the right women am i the only one with this problem?( im over 30 )
2006-12-27 19:35:51 · 24 answers · asked by little_bear 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are not alone. However you can start meeting women easily if you do it right. Find out what kind of women you are interested in - then go to places you are most likely to meet that kind of women. If you like the sporty type - join a gym. The smart type - hang out in bookstores. Don't be afraid to approach them and DON'T use cheesy pick-up lines. It's always best to start the conversation by asking them a question - something like that you are looking for a perfect book for your sister and what they would rec commend. Good luck.
2006-12-27 19:44:22 · answer #1 · answered by jmk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some would go to a club or a bar; not the best place to find a mate.
Others might go to church, better than the club or bar, but you may not find a lot of single woman.
If it were me, I'd take a class at the local Junior College, in perhaps photography, or something that you are interested in. And make sure you go to the cafeteria during breaks...
2006-12-27 19:40:32 · answer #2 · answered by SatinGun 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
u are not the only one,and the problem might be u are too choose just like me i'm single coz i choose too much or it might be u have been heart broken and u find it hard to love again but u got to understand that u have to go on with life learn to love and forget the past don't bring the past into ur knew relationship.
2006-12-27 19:54:34 · answer #3 · answered by richardsmercy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do some variety of night training or connect a club in a priority you like. you're certain to fulfill some women human beings you share comparable interests to you. you will get chatting and in step with threat the some magic will ensue. If no longer you will get some acquaintances who might have a unmarried pal they think of you will like.
2016-11-24 19:33:21 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if this gonna make u any feel better, i have the same problem. not only feeling lonely i go day by day just being mad and frustrated of my ex and thinking of those good days which i thought i was happy and missing her, but at the same time being mad and angry b/c of what she did to me.
im just hopping the longer i wait a better person i become , and i get to know myself better before i give my heart to someone else. and when i find her i will cherish her and will love her forever.
2006-12-27 19:40:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don`t worry, you still have time to find someone to share hapiness and sadness.If you feel lonely try to make changes.Make friendships and have fan.Everything will be great in the future if you`re optimistic.I belive in you and I know that you can success!
2006-12-27 19:43:58 · answer #6 · answered by sanjabezovska 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, and I think it gets harder as you get older because you know more what you want, and don't want, so you can't just go out with anyone anymore, and be happy/interested
Just do things you like, and hopefully you will meet someone along the way
Good Luck
2006-12-27 19:41:09 · answer #7 · answered by Corandero 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to figure out what you're looking for first, what is the right woman. No you're not the only one with this problem, but your options are going to start to dwindle. You also need to figure out why your prior gf weren't the ones.
2006-12-27 19:41:38 · answer #8 · answered by gopats_54 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no sure you are not the only one, finding the right person being it a guy or gal is very hard these days... look around and wait, she'll come around when the time is right and you wil know she is the right one for u... good luck
2006-12-27 19:43:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I have the same problem with women, though I'm 18. I'm sure you're not alone on this.
2006-12-27 19:38:38 · answer #10 · answered by lone wolf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋