Is gaining a lot of weight as bad as not brushing your teeth? or not bathing?

Question

I just want to pput this in perspective, a lot of women say "You should love her for who she is, not whether or not she stays skinny and sexy" So if I got a beer gut, stopped brushing my teeth, and only took a bath once a week, then a woman should love me for who I ma inside, right?

For me if a woman is sexy and fit when you meet her, and then she get's complacent a few months into the relationship and starts gainig weight, it's just as bad as if she stopped brushing her teeth or stopped bathing...

Answer 1

honey, only fat and ugly and lazy women say that u should love her for what she is inside. all the rest of the active world say a woman should stay sexy and young and thin all her life, no matter how many children she has and no matter how old she is. so no honey, normal women wouldn't like if u grew a beer guts and stopped taking shower and brashing teeth. and a woman should stay thin and sexy and u should love her for that AND for what she is inside

Answer 2

Well I would not put all of them in the same category. Gaining weight is one thing and personal hygiene is another. It's easy to take a shower and brush your teeth everyday and it may not be easy for some to keep the weight off. Some people are stress eaters. When they get stressed, they turn to eating for comfort. If you constantly harp on a person because of their weight, well I am sorry to say but you are making them eat even more.

I am the opposite of that. When I get angry or stressed, food is the furthest thing from my mind. On the other hand, my sister-in-law will continue eating everything in sight when she is stressed.

Answer 3

Sure you can do that, but you MUST think of the opposite. Will YOU like a woman for who she is if SHE gains weight, doesn't bath or brush her teeth?

Try to be realistic. Personal hygiene is a different kettle of fish to physical health. You should maintain your own health and hygiene and she should admire you for your health and hygiene, even if they aren't perfect.

All the best.

Answer 4

umm, if you stopped brushing your teeth and only bathed once a week on purpose.....you deserve to be alone. You should love yourself a little more than that if you want someone to love you back. There is no excuse for lack of personal hygiene.

Answer 5

No, she wouldn't. Looks are not everything but there has to be some sort of attraction and if you already have a beer gut, you had at least better shave, shower and brush those nasty-*** teeth if you want to get jiggy!

Answer 6

Your weight fluctuates during the day with the aid of eating / eating (weight is going up), sweating / waste removal (weight is going down). in simple terms weigh your self as quickly as on an analogous time daily and shop song of that. in case you attempt to micro-cope with your weight countless situations in line with day you will in simple terms finally end up beating your scales to smithereens with a hammer.

Answer 7

I wouldn't mind weight gain,but there's no way I would put up with the no bathing thing.If that was part of who he is then I wouldn't love it.

Answer 8

Jacky - are you saying that fat women arent "normal" women? You need a reality check.

I think weight and hygeine are two different issues.

Answer 9

Weight gain and bad hygeine are two different things!

Answer 10

Skinny is sexy because it is harder to be skinny. It takes discpline not to gorge your face and exercise and eat right.