Family & Relationships - 12 December 2006

What do you do when it seems like ALL of your friends are two-faced, and you cant tell anybody anything any more?? Do you move ((not just because of that)) to a different high school and make new friends or what?

2006-12-12 14:30:30 · 8 answers · asked by ilovedancing4 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Guys: Whats the first thing you check out on a girl?

Girls: Whats the first thing you check out on a guy?

Lesbians: Whats the first thing you check out on a girl?

Gays: Whats the first thing you check out on a guy?

Bis: Whats the first thing you check out on a guy and a girl?


Personally what I I check out on a guy is his hair but I really dont know why it just seems really hot to me I guess. What about you?

2006-12-12 14:28:46 · 30 answers · asked by Kayli (: 4 in Singles & Dating

Ok, do you think that if you are bi that you can have a boyfriend and girlfriend? Just wondering.

2006-12-12 14:28:18 · 13 answers · asked by buddy_the_freak 1 in Singles & Dating

there is only one problem!!.
he has a g/f that he has been goin out with for a couple of months..he tells me everything and all his problems with his relationship...and we flirt...and hug..but in the best friend way...what should i do...??
he doesnt kno i like him...:(

2006-12-12 14:28:16 · 8 answers · asked by Nanna222 2 in Singles & Dating

I made up this list of what not do do when meeting a girl for relationship purposes so far i have this and i want to know if i have any critical elements i am missing on my list that i can add. Please give your suggestions.

1. Do not talk about sex or anything that remotely relates to sex
2. Do not flirt with her friends
3. Do not try to meet her online
4. Do not talk about sensitive issues (religion, politics, etc.) until you get to know her
5. Do not say you "like her" as this is quite unrealistic. Say you are "attracted to her" if she asks you why you want to get to know her better.

2006-12-12 14:28:13 · 10 answers · asked by chris d 1 in Singles & Dating

My mom is not confortable with my boyfriend, i know she wants the best for me, but i know what im doing. In this year i've been through a lot , so i dont think she really realizes how she is hurting me when she tells me this.. any advices?

2006-12-12 14:28:07 · 9 answers · asked by lola 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

So, I just got engaged..=)

I was wondering. what comes next after that?

Like, when do should you take engagement photos, the bachelor/batchlorlette party, stuff like that?

Thanks everyone =)

2006-12-12 14:28:03 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Theres this new guy and i like him alot and told my friends sister and she told me he liked me...but asked 4 her number im so flippin mad at her. She could have gave him my number what do i do to get him back?

2006-12-12 14:27:28 · 5 answers · asked by xOxOkissesxOxO 1 in Singles & Dating

i know this female that is around 36 or so..nice girl, seems level headed, good job...but today we were talking and dont ask me how we got on the subject of masterbation but she confessed to me that sometimes at work she will use the bathroom to masterbate and says she does this at home at least once a day. how common is it a woman masterbates and have you ever done it at work?

2006-12-12 14:27:02 · 14 answers · asked by dave v 2 in Singles & Dating

My friend Katie, my roomate Jim and myself are looking for something to do. Any suggestions?

2006-12-12 14:26:29 · 7 answers · asked by Mark P 1 in Friends

2006-12-12 14:25:20 · 5 answers · asked by Michael Towers 1 in Singles & Dating

I think my gf may be cheating on me. I live like an hour away from her. Me in a small town her in the city. during the weekdays i dont hear from her at all she says that she does not have a phone or a computer. This makes sense due to her families economic state. however i am a very jelouse type of guy and every girl in my past which i have dated cheated on me. I guess you could say i have piss poor luck when if comes to dating. anyways though i am curious if she is cheating on me. If anyone can give me advice on how to find this information out it be much appreciated and no smart *** answers part of me feels shes not because she is getting pissed off at me during the weekends cause i am not always able to go visit her. Please Help Is she cheating on me, or am i overreacting and how can i find out if she is for sure?

2006-12-12 14:24:57 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Since thanksgiving I've felt very empty, hollow, and joyless, and I've been experiencing most of the telltale signs of depression, change in appetite, abnormal sleep patterns, excessive crying, discouragement, loss of joy in activities that once brought joy, etc.
It all stems from a late november conversation, I finally told this girl who is a really close friend of mine that I didn't want to make our friendship awkward but I was in love with her. Well she said she loved me too-like a brother...unfortunately it has been awkward-we're barely speaking. We were very close so that hurt, but I expected to get over it after a little intense grieving that she didn't share my feelings. I have confided what happened to close friends.
I have forced myself to get back out their socially. I have put my mind into, work;music;anything, but it always makes me somber. Is this a normal amount of time to be saddened? When will it get better? Or do I need some medical help?

2006-12-12 14:24:47 · 8 answers · asked by strokesfanatic 3 in Singles & Dating

She thinks i lied to her but i swear i didnt and i dont lie!

2006-12-12 14:24:44 · 2 answers · asked by Caroline M 1 in Friends

A position at my job just opened up. I was first on the list to get this position by my credentials won't allow me to get it until March.I will get it for sure in March. My friend/co worker heard about the position through me.(dumb move) her credentials will allow her to get this position now. She has talked to everyone but me about applying for it. Should I be upset with her? She told other co workers that she will talk to me about it tomorrow, how should I handle it. I am not happy . I don't think she will do well in this position, and not because I want it.

2006-12-12 14:23:48 · 8 answers · asked by Tx_Ladybird 2 in Friends

I am really short..like 5'0 exactly. I am 17 and only 102 lbs but very petite. I haven't grown in a few years, and the guys used to be around my height and now they have out grown me! Will this have ANY kind of effect on the men I will date in the future? (I am actually pretty attractive..but VERY short!)

2006-12-12 14:23:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Heres the story. I met this girl about 18 months ago and at the time, it was obvious that she liked me. She rung me a lot and wanted to hang out. Well, a few days ago she gave me her number and we went out for the day. She comes from an abusive family and has scars on one of her arms from what her mother did to her. Well, after an hour or so I asked her out and she told me that although she has known me for over a year, we have hardly spent any time together so I need to think about it some more. We still ended up hanging out and doing stuff all day until about 6 when she told me she needed time to think. She went on messenger and started a normal conversation with me and told me that she had to work the next day at 9am and she would call me at 1:30. I ended up calling her at 2 and asked what she was doing and told me she got her roster wrong and she had to work in the afternoon and she will call me when she is finished. Is she beating around the bush and not interested in me anymore?

2006-12-12 14:23:23 · 2 answers · asked by Daniel 1 in Singles & Dating

I didn't find out until his cell broke on a date and he couldn't call me for four days. When he got the phone back and I asked why dont have I have another # for you he said we'd talk later. Then no call for another 4 days. So I looked up his office number and confronted him.

How is it possible that I didnt see the signs? Bringing his briefcase to my place when he wasn't going to/coming from work, obsessed with fixing his hair after sex, never taking me home with him (said he lived with his mom) and on and on... maybe it would help to hear other peoples similar stories.

2006-12-12 14:23:02 · 6 answers · asked by Jen 2 in Singles & Dating

ONLY SERIOUS ANSWERS

2006-12-12 14:22:27 · 35 answers · asked by Miguel B 1 in Singles & Dating

my friends bf commented one of his gal friends on myspace that she was dam sexy, my friend had that same girl as her friend and when she saw the comment she was crushed. he also asked in a hidden way to the girl he commented about giving him a ********. Is that bad that he said that? is that a form of cheating?

2006-12-12 14:22:22 · 8 answers · asked by JJ~girly girly 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-12 14:22:11 · 4 answers · asked by DFlavor 2 in Singles & Dating

he is really sweet, funny. im not scared to talk to him but when i try to tell if how i feel i get nevous and i start rambleing i have know clue what to do im usally the one giving the advise about boys to my friends but this is me and i never have a problem with this stuff

2006-12-12 14:21:57 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my husband and I have been married for 8yrs, and always had a healthy sex life. The past year it has crashed terribly and I dont know what to think about It. I love sex, and My husband never seems to want it. But the catch is that I know he is masterbating. I find stuff in his underwear, and find that he get into porn. Im not fat and dont want the smart *** comments, Im just curious can a man get addicted to masterbating? I also know he is not cheating, But the masterbating is realy hurting me and im very horny. If I was the cheating kind, I would because I crave sex, but I would never. I have approached him on this and he just ignores me pretty much. I dont think he gets how much it means to me. I feel that sex is a good portion of the relationship. Please give some advise, not mean comments. How do I get him to want sex, and not masterbation?

2006-12-12 14:21:11 · 20 answers · asked by lisa b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

will that b*tch I divorced be there then?

2006-12-12 14:21:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

if i ask a guy "are we moving forward " forward would that scare him away ? like "will our friendship ever go to the next levelt"

2006-12-12 14:20:58 · 1 answers · asked by clair 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend that is driving me nuts! She calls me like 10 times a day (im not exagerating). We are both pregnant, and have been spending alot of time together, going to each other doctors appointments, and shopping and such. I just feel like lately it's been to much. Today I was trying to take a nap, and she called 3 times! If i dont answer she just keeps calling back! I am going away this weekend and she is freaking out, Asking me what she is going to do with out me for 4 days!!! I dont wanna be mean, and being pregnant myself I know how emotional we can be, What do I do?


I know just saying something to her is the easy answer, I just hate to hurt people's feelings.

2006-12-12 14:19:58 · 8 answers · asked by lindsey4706 3 in Friends

So I want my guy to shave his junk, and he won't, how the hell can I convince him?

2006-12-12 14:19:55 · 17 answers · asked by krissy 5 in Singles & Dating

Ok, so here's what happened. Me and my friends were talking about one of my friend's amazing bf, then i say how i'll never get a bf because i'm such a loser and no one likes me, etc. Then, one of my friends goes "you mean you don't know who likes you?" I DON'T! so i ask her and all she'd tell me was that he exists, he goes to my school, and that he's a guy (hey, you've gotta check these things) Then i find out that not one of my friends knows, but two! they won't tell me anything about him, initials, hair color, grade, ANYTHING!

If anyone has any ideas about how to get my friends to tell me who he is and/or how to figure it out for myself, please let me know.

I'm 15, freshman, female, if there's anything else of importance that i didn't mention, ask, or email at bubblepup13@yahoo.com

2006-12-12 14:19:35 · 2 answers · asked by bubblepup13 3 in Singles & Dating

i like this guy but hes in another grade than me. hes in the popular group, and i dont think he notices me. sometimes we both look at each other, but im not sure its anything. i dont really want to talk with him either, cause he might think im weird. what should i do?!?!?!?!?

2006-12-12 14:18:21 · 5 answers · asked by xoxo 2 in Singles & Dating

I personally find guys that wear boat shoes, have blonde hair, golf and ski, and finally don't have too much hair absoluty irresistable...what do you find irresistable in men/women?

2006-12-12 14:18:12 · 23 answers · asked by Jen B 1 in Singles & Dating