Family & Relationships - 30 November 2006

im always parinoid about everything...i dont know why, i think sometimes it stops me from having fun and being a reckless teen like im supposed to be. what can i do to change that about me.

2006-11-30 14:02:38 · 9 answers · asked by manderz 1 in Singles & Dating

I've never been in love with anyone. Simply because I haven't.
But now I have a good friend, recent friend, and now we're both single. For a long time he has had this way of staring at me... Well, he smiles at me in a different way, and I don't get butterflies in my stomach or anything, but I like it when he looks at me like that.

He's more serious around me, but he does make me laugh, and he knows exactly how to do it. I have a weird, twisted sense of humor, and he tickles me just right. We have so many things in common.

I've also completely disturbed myself on how I've noticed weird things he does. I've never done that with anyone. Silly things, like the way his lips lift more on the right side when he finds something really funny. And other things...

Now, I know what infatuation feels like, but I've never felt this. And I don't have a crush on him, since I don't get tongue-tied around him.

What the hell is wrong with me???
Am I really falling in love?!

2006-11-30 14:02:34 · 16 answers · asked by Nicole 4 in Friends

My sister Citae` (24) is getting married in 2 months... but to a guy that is mean to her and has even hit her b4 - theyve been dating for almost 9 years - WHY THE HELL HAS SHE STUCK WITH HIM? He has stoped hitting her because I called the coppas on him, but he still swears at her and... um ... " abuses " her if u know what I mean... HELP ME GUYS ....Also -- She has a daughter to him... 8 year old one too.................................

2006-11-30 14:01:37 · 5 answers · asked by Yahmina 2 in Marriage & Divorce

He lost ring in his car. R we still engaged?

2006-11-30 14:01:18 · 32 answers · asked by jane m 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been living with my boyfriend for 3 years, together for 4 yrs. he comes up with excusses why he shouldn't engage me.
I just want to be engaged for a few years before marriage! it's not like I'm asking to get married tomorrow.
Is this normal? why does he do this? how long did you date before getting engaged?

2006-11-30 14:00:48 · 5 answers · asked by Bitterly Sweet 3 in Singles & Dating

What to do?

2006-11-30 14:00:33 · 2 answers · asked by Cas 4 in Singles & Dating

its been a few weeks since my bf and i broke up some of you may know the reason but, if not i will tell you he got shot and when i was told what the doctor said i said oh but in a sad and worried way but you see i wasnt on the phone with my bf when i said that it was his firend so of coures he told my bf what i said but he didnt say it the way i did he made it seem like i didnt care so my bf got upset and broke up with me...... so my question is is there still a chance that someone who told you that they are done messing with you and saying that its best that way is there any chance of that person having a change of heart could they change there mind and take you back has it ever happened before((but keep in mind that this is our second break up )) i jsut miss him so much this is the guy that i want to spend the rest of my life with we are both 17 i know yall will say i am too young but what i feel is real i just dotn know what to do please help me pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

2006-11-30 14:00:15 · 2 answers · asked by danielle 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it wrong to love your GF/BF more than your family and is afraid of losing your 1 true love on a special holiday?

2006-11-30 13:59:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my girl left me last mounth. She saying how she doesnt love me and want to move on. afte two weeks of acting out we meet for dinner and she says she is scared and wants to move on. After taht we kiss and cry and say good bye. then day after she calls me and tells me how much she missed me. So we get back 2gether and the whole week she tells me all this stuff about marraige and moving in with me. I am cool with this. She goes to see her friend 4 de wk and when she comes back there is the distance from before. On thanksgiven after dinner she ask me if i am more in2 this then her. She says she wants 2 muv on. I call her friday she says she doesnt feel the same and only cam bac 2 see if she can force herself 2 luv me. I dont understand. y say all that stuff and not mean it. Is she confused will she call me again. or is it all over. should i call her. she is online alot should i tlk 2 her. I truely love her and i miss her so much. i want there 2 be something.

2006-11-30 13:59:42 · 6 answers · asked by detox_denny 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-30 13:59:04 · 15 answers · asked by Misty L 2 in Singles & Dating

He and I walk to class together, he always jokes with me, he sometime grabs my hand as if he's trying to hold it, and we seem to flirt. But my friend asked him If I liked me would he go with me and he just said "maybe". Does this mean he doesnt like me? What should I do.

2006-11-30 13:58:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Would you ever go out with a girl who is kind, smart, and great when you get to know her even if she was not the best looking and had her hair cut like a guy? Please respond.

2006-11-30 13:57:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

or do they wait for marriage?

2006-11-30 13:57:40 · 24 answers · asked by Imogen F 2 in Singles & Dating

ive never given oral sex to anyone before. over the past couple of years ive had a couple periods of bulima and because of this, my gag reflex is very sensative. does that mean...i cant give a ******** when im older?

2006-11-30 13:57:39 · 19 answers · asked by ♥Pictsy♥ 4 in Singles & Dating

sleep without a bra, am I weird

2006-11-30 13:57:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anime Freak!!!!! 3 in Friends

I hav a friend who I hav been friends w/ since the begining of the school year. He is really nice and all, but he offered me chew twice, smokes once and it is starting to get me worried. He used a lot of reasons that I should be doing it ALREADY like, "You listen to all this hard rock and metal and punk and alt. rock, why don't you smoke?" [The music I listen to isn't that bad (Good Charlotte, Breaking Benjamin, Linkin Park, Skillet, Kutless ect.)] I told him to leave me alone, threatened to tell that he was trying to do this (My other friend had already told the principal but he dosn't hav the best record because of dumb stuff like sleeping in class ect.) I like him as a friend and I want to help, but I don't know how much more I can take, I will NEVER chew or smoke and I've told him that but he dosn't buy it. HELLLLLP!!! PS just started a new account on this thing, hav many other questions if u want some extra points, and I need the extra answers lol

2006-11-30 13:57:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

like for example: he always talkin about how sexy he is but the subject dont even be on him dont get me wrong i love him in all but he is annoying.
I NEED HELP

2006-11-30 13:55:29 · 21 answers · asked by tinkaboo 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-30 13:55:09 · 5 answers · asked by Tonya M 2 in Weddings

My boyfriend and I are pretty close. I really adore him, and I know he means it when he says he loves me. We're very straightforward with each other, and we seem to have a fantastic relationship. We've been together for a nice chunk of time now. I'm just curious as to whether or not most guys are afraid of their/their girlfriends parents. And if they are, why? And on a similar topic, what's so dreadful about "inlaws?"

2006-11-30 13:54:48 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need some games girls and guys can play together...im a teenager soo yeah... i know about truth or dare and spin the bottle...what r some other fun ones!!!

2006-11-30 13:54:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-30 13:54:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've never been in love with anyone. Simply because I haven't.
But now I have a good friend, recent friend, and now we're both single. For a long time he has had this way of staring at me... Well, he smiles at me in a different way, and I don't get butterflies in my stomach or anything, but I like it when he looks at me like that.

He's more serious around me, but he does make me laugh, and he knows exactly how to do it. I have a weird, twisted sense of humor, and he tickles me just right. We have so many things in common.

I've also completely disturbed myself on how I've noticed weird things he does. I've never done that with anyone. Silly things, like the way his lips lift more on the right side when he finds something really funny. And other things...

Now, I know what infatuation feels like, but I've never felt this. And I don't have a crush on him, since I don't get tongue-tied around him.

What the hell is wring with me???
Am I really falling in love?!

2006-11-30 13:54:06 · 1 answers · asked by Nicole 4 in Singles & Dating

My wife watched as I made love to a single girl we met at our local swingers club. Upon leaving, the girl looked very upset and continuously appologized to me and my wife. We just looked at eachother and didn't know what to say! Being a part owner (with my wife) of the swingers club, we know what we've gotten ourselves into, but this girl was very upset with herself! Why do you think she decided to come to the club in the first place? It IS a swingers club afterall. Why do this to yourself if you feel you may get emotional about it? I just don't understand, do you know?

2006-11-30 13:54:02 · 3 answers · asked by Arthur Andrews. 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-30 13:53:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Foreplay and excitement, not positions.

2006-11-30 13:53:39 · 14 answers · asked by oceanse11 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been and known this girl for 3 years now, going on 4. I have dated her in the past and have grown a lot of feelings for her. I love her and I know she loves me too, but it is hard to tell how her feelings are guiding her. I do not want to get hurt anymore and I know she doesn't either. Her and I have had some up and downs but it is what has kept us together. I really love her but I feel like I can't show my emotions for her because she tells me not to say those things and I just want to shake her and just tell her that I love her.

2006-11-30 13:53:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-30 13:53:09 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it just me or are the men who are 35 and older strange birds? Or they talk about their bitter divorce and evil ex to the exclusion of all other things. Have you met any quality guys and where did you meet them?

2006-11-30 13:52:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My partners mother has no respect for me she has called me a B#@% and other things never to my face but to my partner.She has also said awfull things to my partner. i have told my partner that she is not seeing my son until she gains some respect for us.she called yesterday and talked him into taking my son to her house on monday and at christmas.But she said she will not appologise and that i should get over it.I have always been respectfull to her because it is his mum but ive had enough.I dont want my son to go there he is only 4 months old .I feel bad for my partner though he is really stressed because his mum keeps harassing him about it.what should i do i just want to move my family away ?

2006-11-30 13:52:35 · 17 answers · asked by ness 1 in Family

Ive been sexually active since I was 15 (not something Im proud of) and my parents found out, they were very upset, i lost their trust etc....yrs have passed and never again have my parents known about my sex life until now. Im approaching 19 in a few days and my mother found some birth control pills. She's calling me a bad daughter and about to tell my Dad who is almost sure to over react and possibly kick me out. All Im asking is...Do they really have a right to care about my sex life anymore? Do they have a right to have a say in it? or am I really a bad daughter because Im human and have chosen to have sex with a guy I love? What do I do in my situation?

2006-11-30 13:52:08 · 37 answers · asked by finallyINlove 2 in Singles & Dating