My sister Citae` (24) is getting married in 2 months... but to a guy that is mean to her and has even hit her b4 - theyve been dating for almost 9 years - WHY THE HELL HAS SHE STUCK WITH HIM? He has stoped hitting her because I called the coppas on him, but he still swears at her and... um ... " abuses " her if u know what I mean... HELP ME GUYS ....Also -- She has a daughter to him... 8 year old one too.................................
2006-11-30 14:01:37 · 5 answers · asked by Yahmina 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Citae` has been a mess ever since she was 15... she got pregnant with Ixxabelle only 10 weeks after dating him! she had Ixxy when she was 16 and ever since that her life has been likw cow sh*it!
Also - THIS JERK IS ALMOST 40!!!!
2006-11-30 14:10:32 · update #1
And - meaning she got pregnant - at 15! to a 31 year old!!!!
2006-11-30 14:12:41 · update #2
I want them to sp / l / it b4 its to late - but I dont wany Ixxabelle to be a divorce - child... Ixxabelle needs her dad ... her Mum is - even now stuggling to keep her. Neither Jerkface nor Citae has a job or anything
2006-11-30 14:14:48 · update #3
let her read this, as a man i want a woman to love and to make love to. to hold, to kiss, to talk to when im down, to talk to on the phone just to hear her voice and to tell her i love her and with that i would never lay a hand on her and trust me there are more men like me out there
2006-11-30 14:06:35 · answer #1 · answered by keithy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, first off, there is nothing you can do to make her change her mind.
Second, she is a dum @$$ for getting involved with this man. I'm sorry, but I have no respect for any little girl that gets pregnant at 15, all that says to me is welfare momma.
If neither has a job then they are both incapable of having a child. Tell your sister to go and get a job to take care of her child., She seems like an irresponsible person who has no business having a child.
If she isn't smart enough to get out of the relationship herself, then nothing can save her.
My advice, use this situation for yourself to see what NOT to get into. Go to school, get your diploma, get your degree, and worry about men alter.
2006-11-30 22:22:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what a mess!
talk your sister out frm marrying that jerk....my sister is getting married also pretty soon and is always opened to anything i wish to advise,whether or not your sis is like that i strongly suggest that you try whatever may possible to talk her out of it.
good luck.
2006-11-30 22:05:10 · answer #3 · answered by onetreehunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to see a counselor ASAP!!!!!!!! I used to be like that until I got some self-esteem. She has got to leave!!
2006-11-30 22:04:18 · answer #4 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is probably co-dependent on him and needs counseling.
2006-11-30 22:03:50 · answer #5 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋