He lost ring in his car. R we still engaged?
2006-11-30 14:01:18 · 32 answers · asked by jane m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that's up to YOU. just because you have a ring is not the reason your engaged...that is just a symbol of what is suppose to be his commitment and pledge to you.
he asked for it back to hurt you...
if it were me....I'd tell him it's his own fault for having lost it. and that you'll consider re-committing to the engagement when he decides to grow the hell up!
2006-11-30 14:05:15 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would he just ask for the ring back after an argument??? I'm sure you guys argued numerous times in the past 6 years BEFORE you got engaged. Maybe he has cold feet, and that's normal and OK. As for the lost ring....I dunno. That really really sucks, but if its in his car, then you'll find it, don't worry. Are you still engaged? Yes, if he says you are, then yes. A ring is just a symbol, its not the commitment.
2006-11-30 14:11:15 · answer #2 · answered by volkgal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch. I'd hate to disappoint you, but for me it's about the same sign as a girl telling a guy that she's too busy to go on a date with him. Asked the ring back and "lost in the car"? If he doesn't tell you whether he plans on finding it, I'd say he prob'ly won't need it again. But... that's the answer to the question you give. If you add some more details, that might change the picture completely.
2006-11-30 14:05:37 · answer #3 · answered by Negotiator 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to find that ring. Otherwise I would make the decision MYSELF as to whether or not we were still engaged. If you take the ring back, the engagement is OVER>>>>>>>>>>>>>
2006-11-30 14:02:49 · answer #4 · answered by Elizabeth L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GIVE ME A BREAK! Are you that blind and dumb, he didn't lose that ring in his car, he would have found it by now...a car isn't a whole lot of space to the point where you can't find the damn ring...I say, he went to go PAWN that thing...have you noticed anything new on him?
Well, from my point of view, yours and his relationship isn't healthy if it has to get to the point where he takes that ring off your finger...I say, call off the wedding, and try some type of counseling or just give up on the relationship. You are both immature to be in a marriage.
2006-11-30 14:07:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He lost the privilege of being engaged to you by asking for the ring back. If you still want to marry him make sure you do it on your terms.
2006-11-30 14:16:10 · answer #6 · answered by lynnieboo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was in the car, he'd find it. I'd say a guy who calls off an engagement over an argument is not good husband material.
2006-11-30 14:21:01 · answer #7 · answered by schweetums 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, yes... engagement is about the commitment, not the ring.
perhaps he will learn not to act out of anger next time. you can't just back out of a commitment just because of an argument. you should seek pre-marriage counseling before you get married.
2006-11-30 14:04:20 · answer #8 · answered by christy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on what state you live in...first (laws)
I believe legally if taken to court you will have to hand over the ring to your ex boyfriend. give it back to hime and be done with him if you argue now you will most definitely argue more after you are married, alot bigger issues come into play for example, money, house, kiddies etc
2006-11-30 14:06:36 · answer #9 · answered by bubbles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If HE asks for the ring back then YOU get to keep it and he has to walk away, if YOU break it off then YOU give the ring back. Sounds like he is breaking off but doesnt have the balls to do it nicely.
2006-11-30 14:03:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋