my girl left me last mounth. She saying how she doesnt love me and want to move on. afte two weeks of acting out we meet for dinner and she says she is scared and wants to move on. After taht we kiss and cry and say good bye. then day after she calls me and tells me how much she missed me. So we get back 2gether and the whole week she tells me all this stuff about marraige and moving in with me. I am cool with this. She goes to see her friend 4 de wk and when she comes back there is the distance from before. On thanksgiven after dinner she ask me if i am more in2 this then her. She says she wants 2 muv on. I call her friday she says she doesnt feel the same and only cam bac 2 see if she can force herself 2 luv me. I dont understand. y say all that stuff and not mean it. Is she confused will she call me again. or is it all over. should i call her. she is online alot should i tlk 2 her. I truely love her and i miss her so much. i want there 2 be something.
2006-11-30 13:59:42 · 6 answers · asked by detox_denny 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give her a little time. It sounds like she must be really confused right now. If she truly loves you she will call you and come back to you. If not you will just have to find the strength to move on. But I would say form what you have said that she is a very confused girl right now. Give her some time to get things straightened out in her head. As long as she is confused things will never work out.Good luck to you cause it sounds like you care an awful lot about this girl.
2006-11-30 14:06:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time she leaves, don't take her back for at least a month. I really think she wants to leave, but maybe she's scared of being alone. If you can keep your distance for a good long time, She'll have time to get settled into a new life. Then if she comes back she'll be sure it's for you and not because she don't like sleeping alone. You may lose her this way, but it's better than the head games she's playing on you and also herself.
2006-11-30 14:04:54 · answer #2 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jim, ive been in the same shoes.. my 4 year ended 3 months ago... to tell you the truth, she probably wont come back, and honestly it is most probably for the best... im having a great time single and i urge you to do the same, regardless of iff she does or doesnt come back... plus in my opinion, its always a bad idea to get back with the X, and 2 if she's out looking whats on the market, do you really want her back? i know i dont (after 3 long hard months of desperatly wanting her back)... i see the light... i wish you the best of luck... there truly are zillions of other fish in the sea.. i promiss...
2006-11-30 14:08:04 · answer #3 · answered by ziggy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we cant tell u just by what u say. she seems to be done with u tho. so just find someone else n put her out cha mind.
2006-11-30 14:02:43 · answer #4 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is emotionally confused
2006-11-30 14:03:48 · answer #5 · answered by Tim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's DIZZY AND CONFUSED!!! Give her some time to soul search.
2006-11-30 14:02:40 · answer #6 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋