Family & Relationships - 24 November 2006

Why?

2006-11-24 04:08:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been together a year now and this has never happened before. I was with someone else before for almost 3years when I met him. I broke it off and ended up with him. I really grew to love him and I believe with my whole heart that he love me to. I have been through a lot with him. He is almost 12years older than me and has 3 kids. My mon dont agree with us being together but yet still I was always there for him and he was always there for me. We have a very good relationship, We were friends before we started dating. We share everything together. I never felt happy so in my whole life before meeting him. Until last week when he beat me up and called me hoe and all sorts of degrading things because he went through my phone and saw a text that I sent to a male friend of mines and he called the guy and the guy said that he is my man. that made him really angry, he even tried to stab me with a knife he said he would kill me. I cant even explain how I felt. Now I miss him I dont know

2006-11-24 04:07:51 · 13 answers · asked by brownie 1 in Singles & Dating

HELP!

2006-11-24 04:07:29 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A man who gives you everything you want and works hard to do it and is hardly ever home or a man who cant give you everything and still works hard and is always home.

2006-11-24 04:06:59 · 10 answers · asked by mel 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

oh my God!!! please any ideas, serious answers, by the way I already see as little as possible. he argues with anything I say He would argue with a oppussom

2006-11-24 04:06:33 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My mother was adopted from Germany in 1950 by a South African couple. All she has left is her original birth certificate and her mother's name. How do we go about tracking down her biological mother and siblings?

2006-11-24 04:06:30 · 7 answers · asked by Paula879 2 in Family

we are really very close to each other..everytime i will go to her house to do revision 2gather..and i really treat her as my best friend..but at last she also betray me...and she end our friendship becos of her stupid bf.Thing became more complicated and she started to spread rumours that i wish her n her bf broke up..so she du1 me to be her friend anymore..so other friend will believe her and avoid me..i really sad..i dint even wish her n her bf broke up..i dint say it before but y she want to say like this to our friend..Moreover,my bestfriend bf say me i am a slut n the ways i speak are so action .....y he want judge me like this although i just meet him for a few time...life is so complicated n i am totally lost..

2006-11-24 04:06:12 · 4 answers · asked by alex kong 1 in Friends

I really would like to hear serious answers because I'm honestly curious about this. I have "feelings" for men and not for women, but men don't sexually turn me on while women do. What could be the reasoning for this?

I'm in a one year relationship with a very handsome man, but I don't get turned on at all when we have sex. I often think about women while we're getting intimate. I can get in the mood with a man and somewhat turned on, but only thinking about females gets me to climax.

Could it be that I'm not trying hard enough or focusing hard enough while we have sex? Could I be bisexual? Should I experiment with a woman?

Like I said, only a man can make me fall in love, but only thinking about a woman can get me to climax.

Honest, please!

2006-11-24 04:05:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This seems to be the new trend around many of my friends. Any ideas as to why?

2006-11-24 04:05:34 · 22 answers · asked by mstrywmn 7 in Marriage & Divorce

I think I'm a fairly handsome fella, my mom said so. Still, I can't find my pretty girl, I mnt bike at least 50 miles every weekend, so I'm fit, I am a self employed G.C., I try to wear desighner clothes, (I end up tearing them up at work) so, if it's all on looks, whats wrong and how can I make it better?

2006-11-24 04:04:46 · 19 answers · asked by NIGHTSHADE 4 in Singles & Dating

what things do you plan, and why stay a moment longer?? what reasons besides the basic, lack of trust, cheating, no sex, etc...,etc... would prompt you to leave

2006-11-24 04:04:39 · 2 answers · asked by Dolphinmarine 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Our marriage was on the rocks until we decided to give a try for the sake of our lil one.Since then we've really longed to be with each other.

2006-11-24 04:03:43 · 12 answers · asked by Ferny 1 in Marriage & Divorce

this is a little embarrassing but i havent had my first kiss yet and i'm 13 ! there are lots of girls in my class who havent either but it feels like i'm the only one! is this weired? or normal? how old were you when you had your first kiss? thanks for your help!

2006-11-24 04:03:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

All I've been able to find are European brides. There doesn't appear to be any way to become one, especially if you are American. I'd really like to become one after I graduate university. Can anyone help?

2006-11-24 04:02:36 · 4 answers · asked by marauders4@pacbell.net 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Im trying to find out the year my house was built. It may be Victorian, is there anywhere on the web I can look?

2006-11-24 04:02:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Are you 100% happy with all of the major decisions you've made in your life?

2006-11-24 04:02:23 · 30 answers · asked by Pardon Moi? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I need some tips on flirting with this girl in my class. I also would like to know a way to find out if she is interested in me or not. I dont often see her in class (because of split classes), so mainly we talk on bebo or msn. Can you flirt on them? TY!

2006-11-24 04:02:09 · 6 answers · asked by matthew 1 in Singles & Dating

what are some hints or clues that he likes me when we are at school so i can tell if he REALLY likes me??so what are some things he could do to me while we're at school??be realistic!!at school!!middle school!!wut r some things he could do to let me kno he likes me or wut r some ways to tell??

2006-11-24 04:02:05 · 4 answers · asked by kiss the girl<3 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-24 04:01:54 · 16 answers · asked by rocky 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-24 04:01:12 · 22 answers · asked by SIVA K 2 in Friends

He told me this morning he no longer cares if we divorce or not. He is tired of trying. He is tired of getting hurt. He loves me but he doesn't feel he needs to show me. He doesn't want to be vulnerable because he might get hurt. People have always let him down.

I have never cheated on him. I don't always keep a clean house, but I try. Sometimes I call him names when we fight. I cook for him every day. I have sex with him whenever he wants. I serve him breakfast in bed almost every day. I pay all the bills. I do all the laundry. I work full time. I am in school to get my real estate license so we can have more money coming in.

Should I leave him?
There is a very, very small chance that I could be pregnant. We were not as careful as we should have been this month. I won't know until next weekend. We don't have any kids together, no kids at all. We have only been married a few years.
Should this fact affect if I leave him or not?

2006-11-24 04:01:09 · 14 answers · asked by Cheyne 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We all know that when you find out someone likes you, you get a little bit of an ego boost. You feel a bit on the clouds, even if you don't like them the same way.

So, I like this guy. He doesn't feel the same way. But he acts completely cocky around me. Saying to me things like "I can get p*ssy anytime and from anyone I want.." "oh, believe me, I can get laid.."

Why did he change on me? He was so sweet, which is why I liked him. Is he trying to turn me off? Did I boost his ego a bit too much? Anyone have any thoughts?

2006-11-24 04:00:38 · 14 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4 in Singles & Dating

It's not like I'm nervous around her, but it's like I feel frantic sometimes trying to keep her attention, keep her interested. And inevitably (at least w/ past relationships) I smother them. Why do I insist on doing this? Anyone else like this or used to be and have tips? I could use them b/c I am trying to do this now w/ about the most fantastic woman I could ever imagine wanting to be with.

2006-11-24 04:00:14 · 9 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

And why do they think that it is ok to just be done... when theyre done? They should at least finish what they started!!!!

2006-11-24 04:00:06 · 7 answers · asked by Christie D 2 in Singles & Dating

does he like me if we sometimes walk to the only class we have together we walk together sometimes...and wen we have free time in that class we mouth stuff back and forth to each other and wen ever i look at him he is either looking at me or turing his head to look at me...does he like me if he does this to me??even if his friends say he dosent?cuz they might be lieing...does he like me??
wut r some hints??and wut r some hints or clues that i could look for wen we're in class or wen we see each other??how can i tell if he TRUELY likes me??

2006-11-24 03:59:04 · 7 answers · asked by kiss the girl<3 1 in Singles & Dating

He is 20, we live in Oklahoma, he loves to waterfowl hunt and loves the weather, but he also has pretty much everything he needs for both of those. PLease help me by giving good, sensible ideas. Also, we have been together for almost 5 years. we live together.

2006-11-24 03:57:29 · 9 answers · asked by ♥RN♥ 4 in Singles & Dating

ive never had my 1st kiss and my bf has. im really nervous that i will be terrible at it. is there any way i can like practice or something?

2006-11-24 03:57:06 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met a guy last Thursday. He is 10 year older than me. It was like love at first sight. I spent 24 hr with him during the week end. It was awesome, he kept telling me on we were the same, he was soooo loving and caring etc...That was Sunday afternoon.
As I was missing him, I left him a message on Tuesday and Wed morning, then I sent him an email (on Match.com). He replied to cancel our may be Wednesday night date and asked me how was my schedule for next week. What does this mean?
He never called me but he desactivated his profile from Match, I had just reactivated mine because I was pissed. The next day he reactivated his...What does this mean?
I have not replied to his mail yet. What shall I reply?
I am really into him and I want him to feel the same. What shall I do? I need a good strategy. He even asked me to go with to the Super ball in January. I am so LOST. HELP please....

2006-11-24 03:56:43 · 9 answers · asked by Frenchie 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-24 03:56:30 · 6 answers · asked by desi 1 in Friends

Ive been hanging out with this Girl from one of my classes. At first, it seems like there is potential to get something more serious going. I guess within four dates, Her attitude turned me off completely. Shes 18 and Im 20, recently, I started ignoring her. She keeps calling my phone. Tonight, I picked up and told her to leave me alone... How do I cut it off with her completely, so she doesnt bother me again? I dont really want to have anything to do with her. I wish I had not Talked to her, or started things with her...She called again and started calling me names, i told her, i could care less, and hunged up. I still have this december to see her in class... HELP!

2006-11-24 03:56:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating