A man who gives you everything you want and works hard to do it and is hardly ever home or a man who cant give you everything and still works hard and is always home.
2006-11-24 04:06:59 · 10 answers · asked by mel 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
the first one
2006-11-24 04:11:48 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think the ideal situation would be to find a balance.
Any of the above situations gets you pissed after awhile. If the man is hardly ever home you start feeling 'left out ' after a while don't matter what you have but at the same time I wouldn't want someone who can't provide enough plus I'd be sick of his *** in a minute if we're both always home. Everybody needs a little time away.
2006-11-24 12:15:50 · answer #2 · answered by ayanagin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A man who works hard but is at home working on the relationship. Monetary things don't and can't make you happy. A true partnership is what's important in a relationship whether it comes along with gifts or not. I'd much rather have a man who wants to give me things and can't afford it but spends quality time with me, than a man who thinks he can buy my happiness or affection. Which one would you sleep better with at night, the one who's there or the one who isn't?
2006-11-24 12:12:34 · answer #3 · answered by georgiarose_01 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I have second one...going on 5 years now. He is home alot even though he goes to community college. We spend lots of time together and our relationship is healthy. Even though he doesn't work (he used to though) and I can't always have what I want I still enjoy the way things are. I am not a "material" girl it is the little things that are important to me. For me this way is better because if things were the other way around and I didn't get to see him much I would feel distant from him and getting what I want wouldn't make up for it.
2006-11-24 12:18:29 · answer #4 · answered by Red F 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If U love somebody , it means that he gives U something U want , if U feel for the second guy this means that he is able to do something u really like , no matter what is it , dont just look at the shape of the matter , look at the way they are arrenged! and what they are built from !!! If what U want is a guy who gives U whatever U want then ... U got the answer!! If not see what U really want !
2006-11-24 12:12:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that a man who give u everything because materialistic satisfaction is also as important as love. so u need it.
2006-11-24 12:12:38 · answer #6 · answered by nandru_22 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Neither. I can get everything I want by myself. I don't want a man in my life for anything but sex.
2006-11-24 12:09:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
the first one because being home all the time is boring and i am also gone a lot
2006-11-24 12:08:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well I was the one who gave her everthing and worked my *** off and was never home, I was always at work, and she got bored and found "friends"
2006-11-24 12:08:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A man that can please me in everyway and be there when I need him in every way. I have found such a man and it's wonderful. Lori
2006-11-24 12:16:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋