I really would like to hear serious answers because I'm honestly curious about this. I have "feelings" for men and not for women, but men don't sexually turn me on while women do. What could be the reasoning for this?
I'm in a one year relationship with a very handsome man, but I don't get turned on at all when we have sex. I often think about women while we're getting intimate. I can get in the mood with a man and somewhat turned on, but only thinking about females gets me to climax.
Could it be that I'm not trying hard enough or focusing hard enough while we have sex? Could I be bisexual? Should I experiment with a woman?
Like I said, only a man can make me fall in love, but only thinking about a woman can get me to climax.
Honest, please!
2006-11-24 04:05:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe I have a low sex drive? But when I think about females I get extremely turned on very fast, but not the same with men.
2006-11-24 04:06:48 · update #1
Your man does not know what he is doing....that's the problem. If he did.....he would know how to get you aroused. Works the same for guys......I can make love to a woman......but if she just lays there.....then its a wam bang.............but if she gets into it an knows what buttons to push or lick.....then we are off to the races. You need a more experienced man........
2006-11-24 04:11:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Fairly low. The percentage of the population at large with HIV is still fairly low, but the fact that the two bottoms allowed unsafe sex isn't particularly good, either. As long as he didn't have cuts/abrasions on his dick and the penetration was that short of a time period, he's probably freaking out for nothing. But better safe than sorry. In a few days, he can exhale. And hopefully he won't be stupid again. Because unsafe sex with two people he obviously doesn't know that well is extremely dangerous.
2016-05-22 22:24:59 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that your hiding from your true feelings. I think it's time that you should step out and see if your feelings you have towards women are true. I didn't think I was bi but I did have the same thoughts you did and when my first time happend, well it was the best I had ever felt and now I think that I prefer girls to guys.. good luck xoxo Jess
2006-11-24 04:16:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be bi sexual. Maybe you are just curious about being with another woman. Try it and see if you like it better, because fantasizing about something and making it come to fruition can be two different things entirely.
2006-11-24 04:10:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey I wont say your bio... but think on it this way. do you really like him or do you think you like him. I were in that same situation but somebody asked me the same question, then i went home and think really hard about it. And realise that i like her but she isnt the right one after a while i got another girl but she was really the girl for me and believe me, she turned me on and everytime after sex i wanted to know when is the next time.
mwa
2006-11-24 04:16:36 · answer #5 · answered by Andre Mare 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should try it with a girl then you will know for sure .You cant say you will not fall in love with a woman if you have not been intimate with one ...
2006-11-24 04:18:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should have your guy find a way to make you turned completely on while having sex... it doesn't matter what it is it could be anything .. hormones are crazy and stupid somtimes... just have your guy play around wit your body doing all sorts of things... you may find somthing that turns you on and makes you want to have sex alot wit your guy
2006-11-24 04:11:23 · answer #7 · answered by Ms. Mystery 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i really think you may be bisexual... if you have a best friend and if she is willing maybe you should experiment with her. don't be afraid or embarrassed. just be careful and have fun.
2006-11-24 04:08:58 · answer #8 · answered by Btieti 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you need to work out what it is about women that do it for you...
Perhaps you should ask your bf about a 3some and pursue it...
2006-11-24 04:10:29 · answer #9 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may be bisexual. send me a message if you want to experiment ;-)
-Jill
2006-11-24 04:10:51 · answer #10 · answered by jack_and_jill420 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋