I think I'm a fairly handsome fella, my mom said so. Still, I can't find my pretty girl, I mnt bike at least 50 miles every weekend, so I'm fit, I am a self employed G.C., I try to wear desighner clothes, (I end up tearing them up at work) so, if it's all on looks, whats wrong and how can I make it better?
2006-11-24 04:04:46 · 19 answers · asked by NIGHTSHADE 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanks all, but I'm not too into myself, I'm into "The Problem" I'm only being brief and to the point, it seems looks is primary in dating, so I focused on that in this question. It's so very easy to be misunderstood here.
2006-11-24 04:14:32 · update #1
Hmmm....maybe your personality is what needs work. I don't care how good looking and fit a guy is, if he seems full of himself, I won't give him the time of day. If he's kind and puts others ahead of him, then I take a second look.
2006-11-24 04:08:08 · answer #1 · answered by Someone who cares 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you put to much importance on your looks it's what's on the inside that counts. You can be the most handsome man in the world with the most expensive clothes but if you act ugly and if your words come out ugly than it doesn't matter how you look. You should concentrate on being happy with yourself a pretty girl will look your way one day and see how confident you are with yourself and you could be dressed in raggy clothes and your hair be messed up but she will see what's on your inside and think this guys is hot in many ways.
2006-11-24 04:12:16 · answer #2 · answered by SHEILA N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks have very little to do with relationships (especially in the long run)... Its more about personality and communication than wearing designer clothes...
I'm not going to accuse you of being stuck up or standoffish, but you know the kind of person that you are... Work more on your personalty and manners, and I guarentee that you'll bag yourself the gal of your dreams... Beauty is only skin deep, and you will only get nasty shallow girls if you try to base everything on looks
2006-11-24 04:09:12 · answer #3 · answered by C.G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously the problem is within yourself. Love and atraction is not about the look and what clothes you wear. Is all about you, your interests, what you project to the outside from the inside, and knowing who you are and what you want. The way you are taking is not the right one. You sound pretty inmature by talking that way....maybe that is the problem after all.
2006-11-24 04:10:32 · answer #4 · answered by scorpionbeat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you been with a girl before?
Why don't you spend the night with me, I will check out all your skills to see where you lack, also your manners, your body odor, kissing, intelligence, everything, and then I will give you a report card with a grade and let you know areas that need to be improvement.
2006-11-26 03:12:46 · answer #5 · answered by Tiffi Poodle Pie 69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are very handsome you dont need to make exercises if your mom said that you are very nice
2006-11-24 04:24:08 · answer #6 · answered by smralda20 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well there is nothing wrong with how you look. Its that it takes time till that girl will come along. She isn't going to be there right away. Like i said it takes time.
2006-11-24 04:08:45 · answer #7 · answered by ♥mcmanda♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your too into your looks. Look inward. The way you have your picture speaks volumes about you. Not good.
2006-11-24 04:08:20 · answer #8 · answered by MG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its because you are self absorbed. Get over yourself and get on with your life.
2006-11-24 04:08:48 · answer #9 · answered by Trini Trixie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things come to those who can wait. Maybe its not your look but your obsession in how you look. Be yourself.
2006-11-24 04:07:41 · answer #10 · answered by Ivory_Flame 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋