We have been together a year now and this has never happened before. I was with someone else before for almost 3years when I met him. I broke it off and ended up with him. I really grew to love him and I believe with my whole heart that he love me to. I have been through a lot with him. He is almost 12years older than me and has 3 kids. My mon dont agree with us being together but yet still I was always there for him and he was always there for me. We have a very good relationship, We were friends before we started dating. We share everything together. I never felt happy so in my whole life before meeting him. Until last week when he beat me up and called me hoe and all sorts of degrading things because he went through my phone and saw a text that I sent to a male friend of mines and he called the guy and the guy said that he is my man. that made him really angry, he even tried to stab me with a knife he said he would kill me. I cant even explain how I felt. Now I miss him I dont know
2006-11-24 04:07:51 · 13 answers · asked by brownie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it is time you left that relationship since you know he is threatening to kill you, he sounds like a really jealous guy and you don't need that in you life. I am sure that you love him but it could lead to something much more worse then what it is if you stay around him. I don't think it should be his business who you call and who you don't when he is not around, I am sure he has other women that he calls, so there is not excuse there. You should not subject yourself to violence, you could call the police and have him arrested for assault and battery. I am sure what you boyfriend intentions are were to get your attention but I think that is too much. Leave him and find someone who is not violent and jealous. You need to do whatever you can to get away from this guy because if you stay with him any longer you could end up in a body bag on the way to the morgue because you did not leave him when you should have and that is not something you need to face. So my suggestion is if you live with him move out immediately if not stop calling him answering his e-mails change your phone number if you have to find friend to hang out with until he is out of sight. You can do better and you will, just believe.
2006-11-24 04:22:21 · answer #1 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A man in a rage trys to kill you and you do not know, What are you thinking, this may be the first time he has beaten you, but if you stay there it will defiantly not be the last.And if when he comes around and apologizes and he will , as well as promises it will never happen again, are you going to forgive him because if you do that is a Green light for him to kill you in the near future. FAIR WARNING
2006-11-24 12:15:49 · answer #2 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How in the world can you love someone that beats you regardless of the reason. You better get yourself out of there go to have peace bond put on him, he is nuts. Once he ever gets away with hitting you, it will continue. If you want to die keep making excuses for him ,that is what your doing. He's sorry and no good anytime a man beats a woman it isn't the first time and want be the last.
2006-11-24 12:18:27 · answer #3 · answered by Nicki 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You leave me speechless, girl, GET OUT before he does permanent damage, he should be the one doing the running not you, and even then you should not take him back, what you can;t even text a friend of yours? he spies on you? and then he believes what some other guy tells him instead of listeninig to you? are u really ready to speand the rest of your life with this guy?
2006-11-24 12:14:56 · answer #4 · answered by virgodoll 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to call the guy that said that he was your man and talk to him about what happened if you are good enough friends that you can text him then he should give you some advice about what to do. You don't deserve to be treated like that and you need to sever all ties with him and if he calls don't answer if he comes to your house don't answer the door. If you see him in public act like he is not even there.
2006-11-24 12:14:48 · answer #5 · answered by D'Whannah Lowe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are stupid if you go back with him. Listen to yourself. There is no such thing as a good relationship with someone that beats you. He is too old with too much baggage. Get him out of your mind and your life.
2006-11-24 12:13:14 · answer #6 · answered by MG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got a violent boyfriend. Start to reconsider your relationship with him. Seek help and support fast.
2006-11-24 12:11:39 · answer #7 · answered by Bright 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So you want a man who just tried to kill you? Life is sad isn't it?
2006-11-24 12:10:58 · answer #8 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Babe... grow up now. Your boyfriend looking for a docile girl to sleep with when he wants to and be a nanny to his kids....
Is that what you are looking out for too ? Get out of there while you can
2006-11-24 12:20:40 · answer #9 · answered by Versace Guy 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You MISS him? He tried to kill you and you MISS him? Just get out of there before he succeeds. You shouldn't have to put up with this crap.
2006-11-24 12:10:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋