Family & Relationships - 14 November 2006

I've dated a couple of girls before. they all seemed to want to ease out of our relationship. i dont know why. i'm a kind, sensative man, who likes to be nice and considerate to woman. but they seem to want a posessive man who will keep them in line. i dont want to be like that but i'd like to keep the companionship of a special someone without sacrificing my way of living. what should i do? what am i doing wrong?

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2006-11-14 03:22:43 · 14 answers · asked by greatpharohcesar 2 in Singles & Dating

i went out with this boy for a week and people kept saying stuff so wen i ask him he sad no and now he broke up wit me cuz i dnt trust him and i stilll like him now wat should i do

2006-11-14 03:22:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-14 03:21:53 · 19 answers · asked by XCuteX 1 in Singles & Dating

My best friend does not get on with her Mother in law at all and never has.

The Mother in law in question has never sent my Friend a Birthday card and does not even talk to her.

My Friend daughter talks to her Nan, and her Nan asked Her Grandaughter (My Friends Daughter) to post a Birthday card for her. So she took the card ready to post.
But she gave it to her Mother to post ( my friend) and she has just rang me and asked my advice. She has opened the card it had £10 in it. This card was to her Ex Daughter in law, She told me she opened and now my mate is stuck what to do as the envelope is all ripped and she can't read the address as its in messy writting.
I have told her to make up a story like she dropped it, and envelope got wet, and ask her Mother in law to write another, and take the card and money down to her.

She is not so sure.
So we decided to ask you all?

She said keep money and say nothing (im not so sure as i would worry and for £10 its not worth it

2006-11-14 03:21:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i REALLY like this guy that I am talking about (see my previous questions) but my 'friend' just told me that he held hands with her on the way back and that she might try to get him! i don't know if i believe her about the hand holding thing but what should I do? this is so unfair...she is SO pretty and skinny she could have her pick of any guy she wanted and she has to chose the ONE that might like me. how do i find out if he likes her wi/ out directly asking? help please!!!

2006-11-14 03:20:50 · 6 answers · asked by roxanne 2 in Friends

2006-11-14 03:20:37 · 19 answers · asked by viru 1 in Weddings

I told him that I was having dreams taht he made a pact with her. He said he did but it was a joke. What do I do?
Basically there emails went like this:

His blah blah, He says he is in a relationship but I drive him crazy and he does not know how much longer it will last (meanwhile he proposed in Sept.) THis email was october.

She says you poor thing blah blah.

He says I am so happy to talk to you how about we make a pac to hook up in 10 years if we are single.

She says I am not that young how about sooner.

He says fine. They talk about me and how crazy he thinks I am. Well I did not think things were this bad.

He claims he was joking with her and that he loves me and wants to marry me. He is always around so I do not believe he is cheating. But I feel so sick just thinking about it and I can't tell him I found it as I was being sneaky. I actually have been having weird dreams which prompted me to start looking. What do I do?

2006-11-14 03:20:18 · 29 answers · asked by Itry 2 in Singles & Dating

friends i love a girl whn i proposed her she said we can be friends not more then that i said ok this is 3 months old story. now i came to know that one more guy proposed her around 2 yrs backand then also she refused at him,today also both of them are good friends (as they say) & she takes me as a good friend too i cant understand what is she tring to do.should i propose her again.what should i do, is she already engaged with that guy who proposed 2yrs back, why do she make both of us (the guy proposed her 2yrs back & me) her friends. i cant understand today when i said that lets go out for movie she said that guy also says the same now tell me what should i conclude from this please answer all of my questions...

2006-11-14 03:18:40 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-14 03:18:23 · 14 answers · asked by Nashmonee` ? 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyf idolises me, as i do him but at a party on saturday he and this 'friend' were together all night dancing and having shots, i'm not the jealous type but others were even mentioning it, she was swinging off his neck and he was enjoying it. i was annoyed with him and told him the next day, he says he's sorry but its made me question our relationship, help!

2006-11-14 03:17:50 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Here's the story, I've been with my boyfriend now for 4 months and we are happy and all, but what gets to me is that in the dorms where we stay there are a certain number of girls that try to flirt with him and the majority of the time they do it in front of me. One imparticular knows that I don't like her so she does it anyway. Personally I don't think I'm all that pretty even though my bf thinks I am and tells me all the time, and I sure as hell don't have the upper part of bein well endowed I'm just plain and I just don't want to see him with someone else and I know he is capable of doing so because, he is very good looking. I know it's the self-conscience issue I have but I can't help it. And if he does leave me I would know that I wasn't up to his standards. That's bad but I'd rather have him tell me the reason other than do something that's gonna hurt me.

2006-11-14 03:17:16 · 9 answers · asked by girl_is_depeche 2 in Singles & Dating

My Love does not drink alcohol never had the feel for it and I think its great but the other day he mentioned having some drinks with me but im afrraid he might get to comfortable with alchol what do you guys think about that? What can I tell him...?

2006-11-14 03:17:00 · 6 answers · asked by D'oh! 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-14 03:16:53 · 29 answers · asked by ramesh p 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My friend was sposed to go to lunch with me today but he blew me off because the guy who usually comes with us wasnt in... But afterwards when I was sitting in school he came up and started talking to me again like normal... What I wanna know is that alright? For a friend to be like that?

2006-11-14 03:16:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

her name is natasha she doesnot fancy me but i do, she said we would be freinds what does it mean

2006-11-14 03:16:43 · 15 answers · asked by inderdeep_kooner 1 in Singles & Dating

I recently found out that my married brother has been having a five year extra-marital affair and has fathered a 9 month old child.
My brother has not told his wife about this and he is not aware that I have heard about this either.
Like most men do he has taken the punk way out and has moved his family to another town in order to avoid everything.
As far as I know, no other family members know about this yet.
He also has twin children with his wife that are only a few months older than the other child. To make matters worse his wife is under the care of a psychiatrist.
I am so upset with my brother that I do not want to look at his face. I never really connected with him anyway. He has been calling me and I have not returned his calls.
Should I confront my brother or should I stay away from his house? I miss my sister-in-law and my nieces and I am worried about how this will affect them when the "ish hits the fan".

2006-11-14 03:15:17 · 2 answers · asked by anosey1 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-14 03:14:52 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She met him at a skating ring and he has already been to our house twice (that we know of) without our knowing. She also had a hickie on her neck. Need to know where we stand with the law, so we know where to go from here.

2006-11-14 03:14:23 · 25 answers · asked by grywolf_2000 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-14 03:12:37 · 16 answers · asked by fiona b 1 in Singles & Dating

we love each other, but I know she will never trust me like I trust her.

2006-11-14 03:12:12 · 15 answers · asked by Robert O 1 in Singles & Dating

me and girlfriend just broke up and i tried to rebuild the relationship but she wasnt trying to make it work so i left and we currently live in our own apartment but the thing about this relationship is that we use to talk about getting married and having kids and then all of a sudden everything changed, the day i got into a big arguement with her and her best friend and i said some bad things to her which i regret and cant take back and i know my behavior embarrased her a she have a child which she have call me dad and we were together for 2 years and she was pregnant when i met her and she told me i was the best boyfriend she ever had and that she hadnt been with a boy as long as me. I still think about her a lot and i just wonder do she think about me even if she dumped me and she still wants to be friends but i just dont know about that. I love her still and i still want to marry her and maybe i should just wait things out and put it in God's hand.

2006-11-14 03:12:03 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you feel like you've fallen out of love, can anything be done? I'm in a relationship and think some of the love has gone, we don't say i love you anymore. I don't want it to end because I really care about my boyfriend, but I don't know if I love him like I used to.

Is there anything that can be done to re-kindle our love? Please help

2006-11-14 03:11:24 · 10 answers · asked by matt_angel 1 in Singles & Dating

Well i want to tell this girl i love her, but i dont know if its time to say that or not so i need some help to tel her this..

2006-11-14 03:11:07 · 8 answers · asked by rebel12 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-14 03:10:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

because bf says hes 8 in down there and he might be wide to will this make my hole strectch out of shape

2006-11-14 03:10:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

help me please

2006-11-14 03:10:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love a white girl but I'm so gangster I don't know what to do.
????????????

2006-11-14 03:10:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I tried telling my mom that my brother was abused and she didn't believe me. What should I do now? My brother comes home from the hospital TODAY and I DON'T want him to spend another night with my father who has abused him for the past two years. He even (my brtoher) even showed me some scars. What should I do now?

2006-11-14 03:09:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Don't get me wrong... she's a beautiful girl. But she's so much more beautiful when she puts her hair in a nice style, or gets a manicure, or things like that. She (literally) never wears make-up. How do I suggest that she do some of these things without her getting offended? How would you want your boyfriend to let you know? I compare it to having a great car... like a Cadillac. You know you have your dream car, but it would look so much better if it had a nice pair of rims and a good wax job every now and again. Am I out of line or what should I do?

2006-11-14 03:09:15 · 23 answers · asked by The questioneer 1 in Singles & Dating

I am asking this,because i feel a woman has given all her heart to her previous partners{and is very much limited in giving love}she treats a younger guy ,as other men as treated her in relationship.{well am feeling so , thats the reason am asking you good people]
I feel i love her,adore her,respect her , more than she does to me.I feel like she"s my last love
She is not taking me seriously ,she changes her words {likes playing games}, she always tells me she has kept options open ,{and i dont like to shout her for such things}
1} Who loves the Other More .?
2}Who cares for the Other More ?
3}Do the woman really loves the Guy ?

2006-11-14 03:08:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating