we love each other, but I know she will never trust me like I trust her.
2006-11-14 03:12:12 · 15 answers · asked by Robert O 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If there is no trust, the relationship isn't solid enough to even consider marriage.
2006-11-14 03:13:56 · answer #1 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should have a talk with her and tell her how you feel. That way the communication lines are open because marriage is a big step and big responsibility. You should get that all squared away before you ask her to marry you. Because if she doesn't trust you now, she won't trust you when you 2 get married. You should ask her why she doesn't trust you. Have her open up to you and re sure her of your love. If she still doesn't trust you I would really examine yourself and figure out is that something you would want to deal with FOREVER. It's up to you because I really don't know your situation.
2006-11-14 11:22:31 · answer #2 · answered by The girl next door 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Y would u want 2 marry someone that doesnt trust u!!!!! She doesnt love u if she cant trust u. Save yourself the heartache and pain. Keep your money and dont ask. See if u 2 can talk and try working on your relationship first. If things dont work out and she still doesnt trust u then leave her because she doesnt even trust her self.
2006-11-14 11:25:01 · answer #3 · answered by Kiwi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU SHOULD ASK HER IF YOU LOVE HER AND TRULY WANT TO SPEND THE REST OF YOUR LIFE WITH HER. THE WORST SHE COULD SAY IS NO RIGHT. AND SINCE YOU ALREADY KNOW THAT SHE DOESNT TRUST YOU, THEN YOU CAN SORT OF PREPARE YOURSELF FOR REJECTION. IS THERE A REASON THAT SHE DONT TRUST YOU? HAVE YOU DONE SOMETHING TO LOSE THIS TRUST? BUT THEN AGAIN, MAYBE BY ASKING FOR HER HAND IN MARRIAGE, THEN SHE WILL LEARN TO TRUST YOU. TAKE CARE AND GOOD LUCK. AND IF SHE DOESNT WANT TO MARRY YOU, THEN I THINK SHE IS LOSING OUT ON A GOOD THING. YOU ARE HONEST AND OPEN AND MOST GUYS DONT HAVE THAT.
2006-11-14 11:16:58 · answer #4 · answered by sherryw_1978 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does she not trust you? are you very flirtatious? If you love her so much you want to marry her you might want to look at your actions. If it's the other way around and she just has some bad trust issues you definitely want to hold off and see if it changes. There's nothing worse than being married and being in prisoned.
2006-11-14 11:16:58 · answer #5 · answered by Venus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her and tell her that trust is key in a relationship. let you know that you love her very much and want to marry her, but you can't until you know that she trusts you. it would be horrible being in a marriage and not having the trust
2006-11-14 11:16:04 · answer #6 · answered by Kristen V 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your problem is not asking her to marry you, it's her saying 'no' to your question. If that's what you're worried about, then maybe you should work on rebuilding that trust before you take that next step. Why don't you ask her how you can do that first?
2006-11-14 11:16:46 · answer #7 · answered by tipper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why doesn't she trust you? if you know she'll never trust you, why would you want to marry her? marriage is built and based on trust and if there is none there you can't have a marriage.
2006-11-14 11:16:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someones hurt her so bad to the point shes making sure shes secure enough with you.Take it easy make her feel more secure.
2006-11-14 11:24:39 · answer #9 · answered by weezybaby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*** no, no, no. btw, why doesn't she trust u? might be better to start over...find someone new...where there's no history...and u can ensure there never will be? sorry, i'm just ASSUMING maybe u did somethin untrustworthy?
2006-11-14 11:17:31 · answer #10 · answered by meme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋