i cant understand this girl!!!!!!?

Question

friends i love a girl whn i proposed her she said we can be friends not more then that i said ok this is 3 months old story. now i came to know that one more guy proposed her around 2 yrs backand then also she refused at him,today also both of them are good friends (as they say) & she takes me as a good friend too i cant understand what is she tring to do.should i propose her again.what should i do, is she already engaged with that guy who proposed 2yrs back, why do she make both of us (the guy proposed her 2yrs back & me) her friends. i cant understand today when i said that lets go out for movie she said that guy also says the same now tell me what should i conclude from this please answer all of my questions...

Answer 1

You should conclude that for whatever reason she has, she does not want to marry either of you, but likes you just fine as friends.

Maybe she is waiting for you to get an education so you can write and express yourself appropriately.

Best Wishes,
Sue

Answer 2

I think being friends is all that she wanted and friendship can b with any number of ppl. why r u so possesive about her.Untill unless it is two ways love u cannot do anything, cannot call this relation more than just being friends and talking and sharing good and bad talks.3 month old story is not old , give some space and time for it to grow matured and than only u can decide whether u should propose again or not. Dont b jealous of d other guy, now let her develop feelings for u. As others r suggesting to propose again, in my opinion dont do that now, if she refuses u loose all chances to get her in ur life, instead b nice to her and let her also understand u. All d best.

Answer 3

That is life.

That is her life.

You have no choice.

You can also have more then few good friends, that are girls, but you can have only 1 wife that is by law only. Only few years ago many religions allowed and encourage people to have more then one wife. The government did not have civil registry of any kind.

As the time changed laws changed.

If you are serious about getting married and still like to give her a chance, just put your foot down and tell her you wish to get married and this friendship and the marriage cannot go on concurrently so it is her decision to make. If she says lets be a friends, you say OK but do not see her again.

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Answer 4

If a girl tells you she only wants to be friends she is not interested in you romantically. Your competing with another guy which is strange and she doesn't want either one of you. She just wants the attention she gets from both of you. You need to go find a real girlfriend and wait just a little while to get to know someone before you propose.

Answer 5

im assuming u r an indian...so when u say "i proposed" u mean u said that you loved her, right? and not ask her hand for marriage immediately...
she might be playing "hard to get". and why she rejected the previous guy is immeterial. u've to concentrate on wooing her. make her feel romantic towards u, and not just as a friend. compliment her on her looks, tell her how beautiful she is, how u like her eyes, take her out often, talk & listen to her, send her flowers, surprise her, all in all make her understand that being just her friend is not what you u r looking in her. then only she'll start seeing u differently & reciprocate ur love.
good luck.

Answer 6

hi!
wat really hv u proposed hr 4(luv/friends/marriage)? IF AS A FRIEND,then i thnk u should hv no problem if she maintains wth others.IF 4 LOVE,then try 2 know wat her feelings r about it. love means diff 2 diff people. these days, love means a nice passtime &njoyment mayb 2 extent of sex but then get settled elsewhere as per ur parents. Does she want 2 end her luv in marriage?IF 4 MARRIAGE, then i must say she is nt interested.
Ucan try askn her again being more specific,if ready 2 marry then should i proceed wth talks among r families.
Try 2 judge ur question 1st, then the answer becomes obvious. U c gals rarely say anythn directly.They luv 2 b understood b4 sayn anythn.
GOOD LUCK Hans. MAY U GET UR ANSWER SOON.
I

Answer 7

I think dat gal is a kind person, though she din accept ur & the guy proposal. still she is not rude to u guys & she is like "we can b frnds", dats really kool abt her. May b she dont belive in love & all dat & so she made u'll her frnd, its good for u, u sud b her frnd i mean a gud frnd after sum time may b even she will start liking u who knows
love starts from friendship rite. May b she first like to b frnds & then know the person closely & then involve in love.

Answer 8

You know what,some of the girls like to be friends with most of the boys than to have them as her bf or something.You should not propose to her because if you do and she doe snot have any feeling like that your friendship will be definitely ruined.Be friendly.There is some other girl waiting for you in the future.

Answer 9

there are two things what i understood. One she is not still mentally matured enough or not still ready to get married.
Now you should know one thing. If you think she is not hearing and not interested in you, you should not waste time and look for someone who suits your requirements. If you can request your parents to findout a girl, probably they can do the best for ur future.

or if you can wait for the same girl, you may be just wasting time and would soon become mad.

All the best.

Answer 10

It sounds like she isnt ready for marriage and that she really just considers you a friend. She might just naturally flirt with and lead guys on and not realize it. If you want to get married, it sounds like all you can do is move on.