Family & Relationships - 13 October 2006

You don't understand, when I say ridiculously in love, I mean RIDICULOUSLY in love. I've liked him since last year, two semesters ago. I didn't even have him last semester because he wasn't teaching at my university but he's still the only thing I thought about all day and night all semester and all summer! How frikkin insane is that. He's young and he's not married.

I know I'm in love so that's not the question, the question is what do I do? I don't know if he likes me, I don't know what he thinks of me.

After a trillion years I finally got up the courage to go talk to him two weeks ago. So I go up to him after class and I told him about an article I'd found that was really interesting and asked him if I could send it to him. He was really nice about it ("Sure you can!" I think he sensed my nervousness). So I did. He wrote back thanking me for "sharing that with" him.
Then I went and asked him a question yesterday after class

2006-10-13 17:12:54 · 16 answers · asked by HomePerson 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-13 17:12:20 · 7 answers · asked by lovable_friendly_fun 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

She says he just popped up and you have to go? And did not break up with you.

2006-10-13 17:10:54 · 22 answers · asked by Winkytreats 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it normal for a man to still 'pleasure himself' even after he has moved in with his girlfriend, and the relationship is good?

2006-10-13 17:09:41 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-13 17:08:32 · 34 answers · asked by Carmen S 2 in Friends

My husband decided to hire our neighbor to remodel our basement. He has not signed a contract; hasn't even gotten a full outlined estimate in writing. But get this. Tomorrow morning, the neighbor is supposed to start the work!! I'm just finding this out. My husband won't even be here! Neither will I, and I am very concerned about leaving this guy in my house alone. He's my neighbor, sure, but my husband hasn't even checked on his insurance!! I'm no genious here, but I know for a fact there should be a contract in force before any type of work has begun. My plan is to call the guy in the morning to tell him he can't start the work without a contract.

My husband's being very unreasonable, and quite frankly, just stupid about this. How can I make him see that he's asking for trouble??

2006-10-13 17:07:22 · 18 answers · asked by MaknMeCrzy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-13 17:06:40 · 10 answers · asked by cofuciousd 1 in Singles & Dating

That people are so frightened of physical contact between adults and children that we're in danger of breeding a race of androids?Not everyone's a Paedophile...Protection's essential;but so is human contact.

2006-10-13 17:05:59 · 6 answers · asked by kwenzini 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i listened to some beautiful Romanian songs for the first time - so happy now, and you?

2006-10-13 17:05:14 · 12 answers · asked by chloe 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

era,me /

2006-10-13 17:03:42 · 7 answers · asked by sweet_bianche88 2 in Singles & Dating

What does it mean when a guy writes this as his headline on his website? Is he gay or heartbroken? Any ideas?

"I was looking straight at him, he was looking straight at me. And then, he said IT, and for me time stoped completely....and it began to rain uncontrolably..."

2006-10-13 17:03:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-13 17:02:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

so I see her all the time and I really like her but everytime I see her she is asking me how many loans I've closed and how much commision I'm getting from each and if I just get paid once a month ect ect.. I try to just laugh it off and say...oh "i don't keep track"...or I "try not to jinx myself" but today she was driving me crazy with the questions. I really like her and were good friends but I guess I've always I'm more private about how much me and my husband make? How can I say something to her without being rude? or should I just keep trying to laugh it off? I really want to be nice about it I'm not a mean person? any ideas? She even asked my daughter about the number of loans. I closed..my daughter is 10?

2006-10-13 17:02:32 · 18 answers · asked by Jen G 3 in Friends

i tihnk my teacher checks me out or something... everytime i take a nap for 20mins in class, he doesnt say anything and stares after i fix my hair from it, and looks away when i start looking. he says im the smartest person the class and trust me, my class is dumb! (plus the subject he teaches isnt the best i always do good in) ive noticed he stares at me a lot when i dont notice.. he usaully picks me when ppl raise there hands.. and takes the notes i pass with my friend and reads them lol.. whats with that?

2006-10-13 17:01:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-13 17:01:29 · 9 answers · asked by LIL SERIA 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

see this guy that i have known for a few weeks i like him and he likes me. he always knows what to say and i like him because he is straight forward with me. but the only problem is is that he is like 20 years older than me and i already have feelings for him but i don't know if i should. and i don't know what to do if i do fall for him and he hurts me like my ex did when i was in love with him. i know this one wont hit me but i just don't want to get my heart broken another time cause i might just decide to give up completely from woman and men. can you help me and tell me what i should do and how i can tell if i am really in love with him or not.

2006-10-13 17:01:16 · 6 answers · asked by nm_chiquita 1 in Singles & Dating

that all men, in their heart of hearts, secretly worship women and are completely facinated and mystified by them.

Is this true?

2006-10-13 17:00:48 · 9 answers · asked by mithril 6 in Singles & Dating

i face a big problem in my life..my lover... dont know why he is compeling me to do nursing, he said he wont marry me unless i do nursing. his brothers wife is a nurse she is getting good income and she is buying gifts for her husband like that he want me to be a nurse to an income and to buy gifts for him, i asked my parents i want to study nursing they didnt allow even though i dont like nursing profession still i compel them i want to be, but later i found i hate to see blood, i am not interested to see operatiions i will faint down, my boy friend used me, i am not a virgin, i have no idea, he is saying i wont marry you unless u do nursing but he is not ready to propose me to my parents or to his parents... what i have to do. its a 3 yr long relationship...

2006-10-13 17:00:44 · 6 answers · asked by ann m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've asked this before, but i need more response.


My boyfriend really likes squeezing my breasts. To the point where it hurts. Lately I've noticed some bruising, and I was wondering if I could develop any problems because of him.

2006-10-13 16:59:50 · 16 answers · asked by puffenstuffsrevenge 3 in Singles & Dating

me n my b/f talk on the phone about everyday for like 2 hours average but lately we have been talkin for less time now n we constantly hesistate about wat else to say to each other wat should i do or wat do we talk about??

2006-10-13 16:58:23 · 9 answers · asked by The Taste U can See 3 in Singles & Dating

...they drove by, then came back and did a crazy doghnut in front of the house. They peeled off afterward and they were all whooping, swearing, and being just plain reckless! My uncle closed the gate when they left and thats when I came by for a visit but I was locked out. My uncle opened the gate for me and told me what happend. They never came back afterward but I have a feeling that they are going to come back again late tonight. What should I do? I live on the rez in Newcomb, NM where it is just a desert with dirt roads, hogans, and small houses which are 10 miles apart. My uncles house is in the middle of nowhere and those drunk guys might be back to do something worse than before. Can anyone help me with this? Any answers, I mean ANY answers on this would be MOST appreciated! Thanks!!! I don't want any of my family members hurt by these drunk guys.

Respectfully,
GrayFox

2006-10-13 16:56:18 · 19 answers · asked by GrayFox64 5 in Family

okay well i talk to this guy on the phone everyday (he calls me) and we talk at first we were all cool and all but the we started singing love song to each other onthe phone u know so ya but he has a girl and she like a far-away-type-of friend but to tell you the truth shes not pretty and he is SO cute. wat should i do? he told me this so far :
i love talking to u on the phone
take care
blow me a kiss over the phone (i did and he did 2)
dream about me
take to ya tomorrow
bye goodnight

2006-10-13 16:55:06 · 14 answers · asked by hottie wit dimples 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together for three years. Everything was nice at first. We now have a daughter together. When I was about 9 mos. pregnant we fought and finally broke up. After the baby was born, I wanted to get back together and he did not. He treated me very badly. One day he invited me to live with him, and I did, but one day he would be nice, the next very mean. I left, and after searching for me for five mos. I gave him another chance. One night he confessed that he had been so mean b/c he was not a good person, and admitted to cheating on me several times. I asked him to give me my space, and he has let me live on my own and just visits. Now he has asked me to move in with him, in a town about 45 min. away from my work, and our daughter's school. He wants to live in the town where he is attending college and I will be commuting. I asked him to live in my city, and he will not, b/c the city brings back too many bad memoriesof the way I reacted to his confessions.

2006-10-13 16:54:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Hey I am have some what of a overly protective mother and I cant evan go to a football game alone.I dont know why she wont let me I think it is gay and by the wasy I am 13 and I amr esponcible.

2006-10-13 16:53:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-13 16:53:06 · 7 answers · asked by dr sachpw 3 in Friends

Over the summer my family and I went on vacation, and we went through the drive through @ Krispie Kreame, and thats when i saw him.My heart fluttered.He looked at me and smiled.Almost everyday out of the week were on vacation i made my mom take me through the drive through just to see him.I asked the manager about him, and he said he was there working for the summer and he was from Russia. They come in and work in America in the summer and then leave and go back to Russia.
Every time we would go through the drive through window, he would wave and smile @ me. I couldnt work up enough courage to go in and talk to him, i didnt even know if he could speak english. There was just something about him that i really liked. So, i wrote down my cell number on a piece of paper and have to one of the employees to give to him. Months have passed,summer is over, and he still hasnt called. He seemed to like me. I really wish i could find some way to contact him without feeling like a stalker.anytips

2006-10-13 16:52:59 · 12 answers · asked by <3 2 in Singles & Dating

What exactly does "I'm not sure if you're the one" mean? Besides the obvious, what is he saying?

2006-10-13 16:52:53 · 10 answers · asked by CTMom 2 in Singles & Dating

How long should friends with benefits be friends with benefits before it becomes more. I am asking for someone else. Here is the situation. They are exclusive, almost two years, talk to each other daily and have a regular sex life. What do you think?

2006-10-13 16:48:57 · 40 answers · asked by 2fine4u 6 in Singles & Dating

My bestfreind's boyfreinds wanted me to do favours for him which i refused to do and he got mad at me ever since that and he goes tell other people that i'm disgusting and ugly which brings my selfsteem really low and i hate him so much i dont want my bestfriend going out with him but the problem is that she loves him what do i do?:( and you know what not to be conceited or anything but i know i'm a good looking girl.

2006-10-13 16:47:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-13 16:47:05 · 10 answers · asked by shelbee c 1 in Singles & Dating