see this guy that i have known for a few weeks i like him and he likes me. he always knows what to say and i like him because he is straight forward with me. but the only problem is is that he is like 20 years older than me and i already have feelings for him but i don't know if i should. and i don't know what to do if i do fall for him and he hurts me like my ex did when i was in love with him. i know this one wont hit me but i just don't want to get my heart broken another time cause i might just decide to give up completely from woman and men. can you help me and tell me what i should do and how i can tell if i am really in love with him or not.
2006-10-13 17:01:16 · 6 answers · asked by nm_chiquita 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u want to meet him always
u miss him
u r jealous when hes with someone else
u feel very exited when he call u or when u meet him
= ur in love with him.
2006-10-13 17:05:40 · answer #1 · answered by zal_mie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hit u? oh my god ur ex hit u??? and that guy is 20 year solder than u?
dont let ur broken heart takes the decisions, cuz its broken and it needs to b healed and its gonna look for the first guy u meet to heal it
let ur mind take the decision, c if u really bond with this guy, c if u can b urself with him, trust him, b honest and loyal to him...
and dont let anyone hit u!! plz!
2006-10-13 17:07:16 · answer #2 · answered by green_n6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know for real if you've taken enough time to really get to know him, and then see his flaws, and see him at his worst, and still feel that powerful feeling of love. you will never have the doubts you're having now, (which is why you're asking), but there will be no doubts for you
2006-10-13 17:04:13 · answer #3 · answered by heyrobo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Agree with the first reply. If you're in love you just know it and dont have to question it.
2006-10-13 17:04:19 · answer #4 · answered by Veronica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
distance yourself from for a couple of weaks. if you're aching for him...youre probably in a good place with him (not particularly love though). if the distance doesnt affect you, then its just..well not much of anything really.
2006-10-13 17:04:29 · answer #5 · answered by wearyblossom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously you aren't if you have to ask total strangers.
2006-10-13 17:02:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋