i face a big problem in my life..my lover... dont know why he is compeling me to do nursing, he said he wont marry me unless i do nursing. his brothers wife is a nurse she is getting good income and she is buying gifts for her husband like that he want me to be a nurse to an income and to buy gifts for him, i asked my parents i want to study nursing they didnt allow even though i dont like nursing profession still i compel them i want to be, but later i found i hate to see blood, i am not interested to see operatiions i will faint down, my boy friend used me, i am not a virgin, i have no idea, he is saying i wont marry you unless u do nursing but he is not ready to propose me to my parents or to his parents... what i have to do. its a 3 yr long relationship...
2006-10-13 17:00:44 · 6 answers · asked by ann m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he is not someone who seems concerned about your wishes. You do not want to be married to a man like that, he is just using you get away from him. He will get worse after you are married.
2006-10-13 17:12:17 · answer #1 · answered by mindbender - seeker of truth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And what profession is the boyfriend into. Is he a doctor. You might challenge him, if he will become a doctor, then you will go into nursing. I, too, would say dump him. It is your life and you need to do something to make you happy. It appears that even before marriage he is not making you happy, so what will be like after you are married. Good luck in your decision.
2006-10-13 17:20:15 · answer #2 · answered by old_woman_84 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend wants to be with a nurse so badly then TELL HIM TO GO FIND ONE!!! and you haven't stated what his profession is and for him to tell you he won't marry you until you become a nurse sounds just plain stupid if it isn't what you want to do then give his a ss his walking papers and move on to someone who wont put a stupid a ss ultimatum like your boyfriend has done good luck with that though.
2006-10-13 17:27:26 · answer #3 · answered by CaliMa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say follow your heart and find out what you want to do for the rest of your life. You should reconcider this relationship if he is just wanting to marry you only if you become a nurse. Tell him if he likes the fact of you becoming a nurse maybe he should become one instead. Follow your dreams. We only live life once.
2006-10-13 17:06:14 · answer #4 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In this life, you have to work at a job you love or you won't do the job well. Additonally you will never be happy doing a job you don't like.
Yeah, your boyfriend is using you, and wants to set you up to do all the work and provide a cushy life for his lazy butt.
Dump him and fast.
2006-10-13 17:04:40 · answer #5 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy completely disrespects you. Dump him.
2006-10-13 17:08:23 · answer #6 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋