Is it normal for a man to still 'pleasure himself' even after he has moved in with his girlfriend, and the relationship is good?
2006-10-13 17:09:41 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
yes. and im happily married with a wife who is very pleasing almost any day of the week and i still find the time.
you have to look at it differently, sometimes we as men go for that whole romantic foreplay, cuddling, sweet and romantic love and then there are those times men would rather just skip that for 10 minutes of stress free pleasure. nothing against our girlfriends or wives.
2006-10-13 17:17:45 · answer #1 · answered by locowherto 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Totally normal.
After 6 years of living together I know both my partner and I 'pleasure ourselves'. Its a different thing to making love together. Sometimes the other person isn't available when you feel in the mood. Sometimes its just a tension reliever and not about sex at all. I find it very useful for relieving period pain for instance.
2006-10-13 22:13:42 · answer #2 · answered by Leapling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a totally natural behaviour you should get involved or even talk to each other about this do not let it stand in the way of your relationship. His hunger may be more than what he wishes to put apon you. You need to be more open in your private life.Good luck
2006-10-13 19:48:25 · answer #3 · answered by THERESE J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm well I know a guy that did it once after he got married but never again.
Of course its normal, all guys do it, some guys end up doing it more after they are in a relationship. As in more than they did when they were single and in their twenties but less than when they were teenagers.
2006-10-13 17:13:20 · answer #4 · answered by diggerfloyd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we will always do this we need the quick fix. we dont always want the build up and the emotional side women do.we caan turn it on straight away and it feels good. women on the other hand need the ful package which is fine and but sometimes we just need a bit of relief
2006-10-13 20:40:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not unless its him an his woman doing the icing with each other so to speak so no , if its something thats becomes weird for the partner, its about the two partners an their love for each other,thats what its for ..because the woman his the pleasure,.the icing
please note its also something if it makes you feel wierded usualy your gutt instinct is right.no does mean no 2
2006-10-13 17:18:48 · answer #6 · answered by GOOCH 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it should start slowing down for sure... Unless you just were not in the mood most nights.
Not to be disgusting, but why milk the cow when you have a milkmaid that can do it for you?
2006-10-13 17:15:51 · answer #7 · answered by James B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure....sometimes a man might just want to have a quick release of tension without all the hassle of sweet-talk!
2006-10-13 17:11:40 · answer #8 · answered by Danny 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my hubby still does after many years of marriage and i have no problem with it at all. it gives me a break and i'd much rather he pleasure himself than seek pleasure elsewhere.
2006-10-13 22:35:23 · answer #9 · answered by silly billy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't matter how old they are,all men pleasure themselfs,its a man thing,it is completely normal,its not just men,women like to pleasure themselfs to,i seriously wouldn't worry about it
2006-10-13 22:11:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋