Family & Relationships - 12 October 2006

My wife don't work. She's home 7 days weely, 24/7. The only meal she cooks is dinner. I work at home, & most times, I have to get up & go get a bite to eat so I can eat & sometimes do the same for lunch. The 3 kids are in school so she is literally home all day w/ nothing to do.

I've asked her to work to help with bills, being self-employed, my biz goes up & down & during down months, her income would be a God-send. But she doesn't work, has many excuses as to why not.

I got a female friend, one she introduced me to because we are in the same profession, helping small bizs grow their business & we also work on our own side projects to make extra cash. We considered going into biz together but wife has a problem so it didn't happen. I work out my basement 10 hrs daily & the female friend & I talk to toss ideas back & forth, sometimes my wife is around & hears & sometimes she's not. Some days we talk for 2 hrs about biz. Am I wrong? Tossing ideas helps keep us motivated to go on..

2006-10-12 11:53:38 · 25 answers · asked by crazyazzhubby 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my girlfriend was cooking dinner in the kitchen, and she didnt hear me open the door when i came home from work. so i snuck up behind her and said BOO! just too mess around and she jumped and smacked her head against the pots and pans above her and they fell on top of her. she fell after the pans hit her and she hit the ground hard. i was shocked by what just happend and let a little bit of nervous laghter slip out. and she thaught i was lauging at her. i had to drive her to the hospital and she had to get 3 stitches on the top of her head. whats the best way to apologize

2006-10-12 11:52:50 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she also called me a ***** and *** hole on the computer when both of us r only 11!! then she said srry cuz she was mad but WAT THE HECK???? theres no excuse for calling me that! she has no frends cuz she lies and cuz she doesnt care about others feelings! and i no this sounds cruel but if u got 2 no her ud wwant 2 do the same. I WANT TO KILL HER!

2006-10-12 11:50:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-12 11:50:31 · 15 answers · asked by Mike S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

okay my best friend asked me out on monday and i said yes i have liked him for awhile and now that Im with him im bummed b/c we still act like friends and i want it to work soo bad but my ex boyfriend asked me back and i dont know what to do my ex and me were great together but i want chris help me make the right decition i dont want to mess this up

2006-10-12 11:49:48 · 7 answers · asked by psychobunny 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-12 11:49:46 · 4 answers · asked by lil miss country gurl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-12 11:49:10 · 6 answers · asked by sambonesgirl 2 in Family

2006-10-12 11:49:03 · 4 answers · asked by Mike S 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was raised in an old fashioned household. I understand that times have changed but I still think that the man should pay for majority of dates. My boyfriend of almost a year disagrees. He does it now but complains about it. He is at my house almost every day and I cook and do his laundry and I don't ask him for anything. We both work and pay our own bills. I do pay for some of our dates sometimes, but not a lot. He wants to go to a 50/50 type deal and I don't. Am I wrong???

2006-10-12 11:48:54 · 9 answers · asked by Dee 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-12 11:48:49 · 8 answers · asked by pagglio 2 in Singles & Dating

im tall and slim and he is very short and small. he is like my best friend out of guys. only at school. anyway my best friend was telling me today we looked weird together like we were bf and gf. cause his locker is above mine(he takes forever!)so i wait for him with my hand on his locker. i usally sut his locker for him or help him shut it cause it is sooo messy!
what my firend was talking bout was how we do that and since he takes soo long in a extra sweet voice, he says" you can go a head"
also we live in a small town and when we were having our fair. i wore some skin tight blue jeans. they were very tight. the next day at school someone asked him how i looked in them he said ugly. then he said "im just kigging and started blushuing so bad and laughing hysterically.


what do yall think aout all this?

2006-10-12 11:48:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

What do i need to do to get a guy to notice me?? Many guys dont notice me, and the ones that do aren't intrested like that. I just feel now that im unloved and its really depressing me now. My friends are like get over it... and they have BFs so that means nothing to me. My guy friends, tell me to be myself, which is a happy and perky person, but these days its dark and sad. Nothing is working... what should i do??

2006-10-12 11:48:10 · 5 answers · asked by limey 2 in Singles & Dating

I messed up and did'nt tell this girl I was in love with her. A some asshole came in and swept her off her feet. I know I scewed up But I want her back.

2006-10-12 11:48:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Health Survey

1) What is your gender? Male Fmale

2) What is your age? __________

3) Do you exercise? Yes No

*only answer questions 4 and 5
if you answered YES to #3.

4) How often do you exercise each day?

0-1h 1-2h 2-3h

5) How do you exercise?________
____________________________

2006-10-12 11:47:14 · 12 answers · asked by soccer chick 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-12 11:46:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-12 11:46:39 · 3 answers · asked by sophia b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-12 11:46:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

hi i am seraching for some friends who really have my back..right now im kind of depressed and needing someone to talk to now who wont consider me a weak person or stray away once i talk about my problems.im searching for some people who start up a conversation with me that i can connect with.I am anti social,shy,quiet,bigboned and have self esteem issues but still want to be accepted for me and make good friends who can help me deal with these issues and sort of see things from my perspective and people who are confident in themselves who wouldnt let what other people say about me or think about me get to them.many of my friends have gone away or become busy and i fell apart with a lot of people after my dad past few years ago that left me depressed...can you help me?

2006-10-12 11:45:23 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-12 11:45:21 · 8 answers · asked by cronaldo17 2 in Singles & Dating

Yesterday, she looked at me right in the eye and said to me you're my best friend. Then she said I really love you. I wanted to reply, but I was really sick, but I did smile and probably blushed. I know she saw me do this, but the next day she doesn't say anything to me. How did she turn from nice to ignoring? Why? What did I do wrong. Can I reddem myself

2006-10-12 11:44:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

At school, there is a dance on Nov 1st. And I can't decide whetheer to ask the new girl, a smart bombshell, or an old girlfriend who moved away, then came back.


Suggestions?

2006-10-12 11:44:29 · 27 answers · asked by needhelp_guy 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, so I've been with my boyfriend for a year now, but one of my close friends...yeah, i've got a crush on him. Like a MAJOR crush. I always mess with him..and i wanna tell him i like him without ruining my relationship. What should I do?

2006-10-12 11:44:28 · 9 answers · asked by Déjà Vu 5 in Singles & Dating

for me i like to be nuked and ******

2006-10-12 11:43:25 · 3 answers · asked by nansy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

well my best friend finally told me at this party so now we started going out. my ex boyfriend and me r still friends though. so when me and my new boyfriend, chris, came to school holding hands. well we go everywhereholding hands and it makes my ex mad!! its funny cuz he said i was gonna be missin him. hes tryin to get back at me by goin out wit my best friend and i dont really care. hes been acting really jerky and him and chris are about to get into a fight. how do i stop that??

2006-10-12 11:43:01 · 3 answers · asked by lothargrl_4_life 2 in Singles & Dating

what does it exactly mean when a guy tells a woman that he is a animal in the bedroom and likes it pretty dirty does that mean he wants to have sex with that woman?please let me understand what this guy is trying to tell me

2006-10-12 11:42:29 · 12 answers · asked by vtpatbrat 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-12 11:42:23 · 17 answers · asked by Dr Feel 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-12 11:41:43 · 6 answers · asked by toughthinker 1 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my gielfriend decided to try out anal sex for the first time last night. it DID NOT go as planned. about 5 minutes into it i guess i hit something in her and feces got every where and it smelled so bad. i cant even look at her now. what should i do

2006-10-12 11:41:39 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he likes miley cyrus and well he sits next to me in science and looks at me in math does he like me?

2006-10-12 11:41:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I had a associate call my boyfirend and leave a voice mail saying she was calling from my Dental office (I had a dental appt that am) she said that I had had an adverse reaction to the novocaine. That I had regained consciousness and that I would call him later when I was up to it. I know, it's not the type of joke you play on someone, worse yet someone you love. He called twice concerned. I called him back 2 hours later and immediately told him the truth, it was a bad joke. I knew he would be upset but it's been 3 weeks now and he has not gotten over it. He said he needs more time and that he's unsure he wants to continue the relationship as he's really hurt over the fact that I had no regard for his feelings. He's absolutely right. I've never done anything like that before and feel dreadful about it. He won't take my calls, but says he will let me know his decision - should I move on or wait? I love him dearly what can I do to help him get over it. Is it worth breaking up?

2006-10-12 11:40:55 · 18 answers · asked by michele c 1 in Singles & Dating