me and my gielfriend decided to try out anal sex for the first time last night. it DID NOT go as planned. about 5 minutes into it i guess i hit something in her and feces got every where and it smelled so bad. i cant even look at her now. what should i do
2006-10-12 11:41:39 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get over it stuff like that happens. Don't let this ruin your relationship. Try to laugh it off and make jokes about it.
Next time make sure she uses a enema. You wont have that problem again.
Good Luck =]
2006-10-12 11:44:37 · answer #1 · answered by Intellectual Paige 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you go poking around down there Sh** is gonna happen! That's where it's kept you know! Look, if you try to have sex anally, then you will find remnants of poo. It happens. If you don't like it, don't do it. But don't expect anything different. Don't make her feel bad by ignoring her after wards. Remember, it was your idea to try it to. Take responsability for your actions. Make jokes with her about it and suggest not going in as far next time, or agree that it just isn't the thing for you guys. What ever you do, remember that right now she is feeling gross about her self, emberassed and probably stupid for letting you try that. Right now, more than anything, she needs to know that you still care for her and don't think she is gross; she needs to feel like you understand. Spend a little more time with her right now, until you're sure she isn't feeling bad still. If you can't do that, then your an ***.
2006-10-12 18:47:51 · answer #2 · answered by cbr♥fox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk about it. I'm sure you two will someday look back on it and have a good *private* laugh about it
also, if you want to give it another go (I'm assuming the first 5 minutes of it was somewhat enjoyable, otherwise you would have stopped after 5 seconds), make sure she's taken a dump beforehand
2006-10-12 18:47:34 · answer #3 · answered by badcloud56 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should do a little research on how to go about having anal sex....just remember that she feels just as uncomfortable about the situation as you do.....
2006-10-12 18:45:42 · answer #4 · answered by Mechelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Realize that she is a person too, and she is probably mortified that you saw what you saw. I would comfort her and tell her that you still care about her. As for you...you were in her rear end...if you didn't consider that outcome a possibility then you aren't ready for anal sex.
2006-10-12 18:44:50 · answer #5 · answered by Kevin P 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's disgusting.. You sound like you are inexperienced and young...You probably just learned how to have regular sex and your most likely not even giving her an orgasm anyway...So if I was her I would leave you and find a man that knows what he's doing...
2006-10-12 18:51:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I say let her do you like that and see if the same thing happens.
If you get the crap knocked out of you maybe you should try something else.
2006-10-12 18:56:18 · answer #7 · answered by Bad Example 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wait, let me guess. your buddy was in the closet with a video camera right? come up with a new story, this one has been circulating the web for years.
2006-10-12 18:43:58 · answer #8 · answered by BBQ MASTER 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Forget about it,you tried it and you didnt do it right.......So next tyme you try it make sure you lube up really well..And that wont happen again..Tell her thank you for tryin,cuz some women wont even try it.....
2006-10-12 18:47:08 · answer #9 · answered by stephanie f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you pull out too fast, that can happen, too. She's probably humiliated but if you love her, you should be able to overlook it. When you're 90, someone will have to wipe your butt. I would hope that you would be able to realize that it's something she doesn't have control over.
2006-10-12 18:46:10 · answer #10 · answered by Lynda M ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋