Ok, so I've been with my boyfriend for a year now, but one of my close friends...yeah, i've got a crush on him. Like a MAJOR crush. I always mess with him..and i wanna tell him i like him without ruining my relationship. What should I do?
2006-10-12 11:44:28 · 9 answers · asked by Déjà Vu 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Now u can't have two relationships at a time ...that will be cheating with ur boyfriend. And if u do that it will hurt him too. It depends how much ur boyfriend likes u...how deep and meaningful ur relationship is. And also u gotta know how much ur friend likes u. If u tell him u like him ....and if he knows that u already have a boyfriend .... he might think bad of u ...even .though he's ur friend...also it depends on the level of maturity of u 3 and how u handle it. The best thing to do is .....'' just a suggestion''......>> while u and ur friend r casually talking to each other...start talking about some emotional stuff....and may be some of ur great memories together... ...and then.just tell him this sentence ...'' i wonder how we were gonna be if u and me were togther as boyfrind girfriend, and then follow by.... but what can i do .... i have a boyfriend... and then sigh a bit...and . then judge his reaction. :)))))
2006-10-12 11:59:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've got a decision to make. You 'wanna tell him' but without ruining your relationship, eh? Why? So he can be flattered? Or so that you guys can figure out a way to f around on the side?
Why are you with your boyfriend in the first place if there's another closer in your heart? Don't you think he deserves to find somebody that will actually love him?
I'm not saying 'you suck!' I'm just saying that maybe it would be fairer to your current b/f if you let him go, whether or not there was another guy you're obviously just killing time with the one you're with and don't really care anyway.
2006-10-12 11:48:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
confident, you have been incorrect, in believing she hated him and became finished with him. That became in basic terms noise to cover up her harm. additionally you would be able to have been used by him to make her jealous, so which you lose the two way. in no way bypass out with a acquaintances ex until the pal is deeply in contact with somebody else, for an etended quantity of time. as long as she continues to be indignant the sentiments are not ineffective. you have apologized and that's all you're able to do. in basic terms stand returned and allow her "come to her senses". If she a real pal she would be in a position again around, in any different case detect a sparkling pal, with a bit of luck an enhanced pal.
2016-12-26 17:47:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody really cares what you do. In fact your so called BF probably doesn't care either. I'll bet he's laying some pipe on the side.
2006-10-12 11:48:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you ahve already ruined your relationship with your boyfriend if youve messed around on him. your better off breaking his heart now rather then later.
2006-10-12 11:48:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him what would you think if some girl liked you and she was your friend. Get someone 2 help yah
2006-10-12 11:46:06 · answer #6 · answered by SCSA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all ,your so miss up.and anyways how do u know if your best friend likes so just keep it kool or ask your freinds if he does
2006-10-12 11:48:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you want to see him. If it works out, keep him. The boyfriend will be your Ex-. Sorry.
2006-10-12 11:46:48 · answer #8 · answered by robert r 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its one way or the other. You can't have both things you know? Its gotta be either one of them. So choose between them.
2006-10-12 11:50:03 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋