Family & Relationships - 8 October 2006

Last night I overreacted to comment my boyfriend said about me. I told him a week ago that we were not going to get into any major arguments for the next two weeks (because things have been getting pretty tense and also he is moving to an apt soon). But we argued late last night because I was sensitive to that and I scoffed at something else he said during the arguement. I know that I should have just blown the comment off but it reminded me of a past relationship that was abusive.
Now he says he doesnt know if he loves me anymore and that he doesnt want to come over today (long distance relationship). He also says he doesn't want my help with the move anymore.
I don't want to break up with him so what can I do? What should I say? We have been together for nearly 3 yrs

2006-10-08 04:20:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I suppose there are no details appart from that everyone tends to go foer other people and not me!

2006-10-08 04:20:48 · 11 answers · asked by jamie L 2 in Singles & Dating

Is it fair that my mom won't come to a place just because someone she doesn't like is there? We were planning to go somewhere today to meat my friends and just hang out and talk.So yesterday while we were at a friends house,someone my mom didn't like was there so she's all like:I'm Going HOME! And now today for a place I've been waiting for,for a week she just says:I don't feel like going so you can go and I say how can I go?By my self? It's 30 minutes away! The person she doesn't like is minding her own buissiness and my mom should too!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-10-08 04:19:50 · 8 answers · asked by ~SmileyFaceCrazy~ 3 in Family

So i know i haven't done anything to this girl. And she keeps sayin all these horrible things.

like it was my fault and everything blah blah. and as lame as it sounds, i know its not. and eveyone around me knows its not. shes just alittle sensitive.

but anyhow, theres no reason for me to apologise.

But i really want to say sorry to her. Anyhow. even though theres no reason.

Should i?

and if so how?

Thanks!

2006-10-08 04:19:49 · 10 answers · asked by izt_is 1 in Singles & Dating

She insists on chewing her food first!

Is this normal?

2006-10-08 04:19:47 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We get along well and laugh together a lot. I think he wants to make it an exclusive relationship. I'm not so sure. I am worried about the long term - he is a diffrent religion and culture, has no kids, never married. I am in my 40's, have two teens, and am divorced. My ideal for a partner is around my age, someone who has been married and is a Dad like myself, has the same level of life experience. This guy and I are comfortable together, but I have not committed to him. I still occasionally date others. I have not slept with him yet because of this. What do you think? Am I being smart or should I go for it? I'm worried the differences will cause a problem over time.

2006-10-08 04:18:59 · 15 answers · asked by waterbaby 1 in Singles & Dating

i like this girl so much i wouldn't mind just being friends. i want to know the steps to become her friend. she is 3 grades ahead of me in high-school. i dont if this matters, but she is my height. she says hi
to me in the halls, and is really nice. also, i asked her if she would work with me on a health project and she said yes.

2006-10-08 04:18:09 · 4 answers · asked by geforce_7600_gt 1 in Singles & Dating

i like this guy do you think he likes me?
what do you think of this boy??
this guy i like always tells me personal stuff like his weiner is burning and he joins a group a school that im in for like a project and he makes me laugh alot ,he looks me in the eye alot and on friday our ss class was in a dark room watching a movie sitting on the floor and of course we were all cramped and he was leaning on my friend looking at me then looking at her then me and slyly scrathing his private.and in science he takes this machine and told me the button was a weiner and the hole was a girls thing and he was pushing them together fast then he scooted really close to me (he sits behind me in this class)and was makeing nasty sounds if you know what i mean.my friend asked him out for me the week before so is this his way of flirting or what do you think?

2006-10-08 04:17:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

this girl seems shy

2006-10-08 04:17:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my husband does not work, so I have no idea what he does when he leaves the house.I feel like its my right as the wife to know where he is going and what he is doing. But he thinks that I am nagging him. If I ask him to take me and the kids somewhere it turns into a fight because he doesn't want to be with us. But he is quick to go when a "friend" wants him too. He doesn't answer me if I ask where he is going and gets mad cause he feels likehe shouldn't answer to me. But then if I wanna leave he asks a million questions and gives me a curfew!!! Normally he doens't even let me go anywhere anyways. I am stuck in the house..so I want him to be as well. Or if he leaves then maybe take me and our two sons with him. It burns me up not knowing where he is or what he is doing at all times. he has cheated on me SO MANY times that I feel if he wants to gain my trust again then he should be honest and tell me what he's doing!! am I wrong??

2006-10-08 04:17:13 · 29 answers · asked by tweedy778 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-08 04:17:06 · 12 answers · asked by daveshadydave 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-08 04:16:46 · 21 answers · asked by deedee 1 in Singles & Dating

i speak with a guy at messenger!!we speak since may.he is a nice person with good character..besides he studies at college the afternoon he works..he asked me many times to date him and i refused his invitations coz at first i didnt like him.i bored of his invitations..now i like him coz he is sweet.and after all this time that i told him no he still wants to meet me..loll
i dont like meeting people from the internet.
what is your opinion??loll..

2006-10-08 04:16:26 · 10 answers · asked by Lady Santa 5 in Friends

I swear. guys just want to have sex with anything that can walk. Guys are such horn dogs. I am not that kind of guy.

2006-10-08 04:15:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't want you to identify the person you're talking about! It can be something a friend has told you, a family member has done or even something you've done! Keeping secrets is great! But sometimes don't you just feel like you'll burst if you don't tell someone? Now's your chance :)

Let's see - someone close to me got revenge on her cheating ex-husband by anonymously calling the IRS to report he was making 6-figures - completely under the table LOL!

2006-10-08 04:15:09 · 3 answers · asked by tagi_65 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I swear. guys just want to have sex with anything that can walk. Guys are such horn dogs. I am not that kind of guy.

2006-10-08 04:15:05 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

damn!she makes me crazy...last night was our homecoming party and we dance together when they played this love songs...what do i do to stop falling in love with her...

2006-10-08 04:15:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

and they are like really mad and jelous of each other like if I'm with one and hanging out with her the other girl gets REALLY MAD and REALLY UPSET and they don't like each other??????? I NEED ANY ADVICE I CAN GET!!!!!!!!!!(they're driving me "up the wall"!!!)

2006-10-08 04:12:56 · 20 answers · asked by ~♥~Tiffany~♥~ 4 in Friends

Okay, He Asked Me Out And I Said No Because I Don't Want To Date Until Next Year But I Do Actually Like Him. [ALOT]What Should I Do Now?

2006-10-08 04:12:55 · 15 answers · asked by IDK! 1 in Singles & Dating

What vegetables and fruits increases the sexual desire and which makes more errection for long time? Need only vegetablw and fruits.

2006-10-08 04:12:54 · 9 answers · asked by ashwin0507 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok so I was with my babys daddy for a year, and he had to move away to finish school, and eventually he started losing his interest in me so we broke up. And I was heartbroken, used to call him crying I want him back. Then I found someone else, that I think I may be in love with, and Now my babys daddy wants me back. He calls me like 5 times a day begging me to take him back and is talking suicide. But I am happy with who I, with now...What do I do?

2006-10-08 04:11:29 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

couldn't they know that it is rude to stare at other people and makes the victim uncomfortable? I hate guys who stare at girl from far away without talking to them. I swear.

2006-10-08 04:11:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my GF is staying very far

pls advice how to keep relationship alive

2006-10-08 04:11:20 · 3 answers · asked by cuteperl16 1 in Singles & Dating

I be dress as a nurse with longteeth and My heart will be falling out of my chest. and I have 16 eyes sticking on face with blood running down. I made this costume my self

2006-10-08 04:11:14 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-08 04:11:03 · 3 answers · asked by SWM 38 _4_ YOUNG GF 5 in Friends

Never seen one yet that start's with ask him what he want's or needs, it all about her feeling's, and feeling's aren't worth much because 6 months down the road she going to change how she feels.
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2006-10-08 04:10:58 · 12 answers · asked by brp_13 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-08 04:09:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

holding hands? kissing? having sex? Why cannot they just put their butts together and call that an effection?

2006-10-08 04:09:29 · 5 answers · asked by Mark 1 in Singles & Dating

holding hands? kissing? having sex? Why cannot they just put their butts together and call that an effection?

2006-10-08 04:09:14 · 4 answers · asked by Mark 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

holding hands? kissing? having sex? Why cannot they just put their butts together and call that an effection?

2006-10-08 04:09:04 · 3 answers · asked by Mark 1 in Friends