Family & Relationships - 8 October 2006

my parents are WAY too over protective, im 17, and im not allowed to go out with friends if they are boys, and if i do go out with girls, they dont believe me, im not allowed a boyfriend. they tell me that im like this really bad child, even though i dont like go out and get drunk, or smoke, or anything like that. they tell me that i answer them back, even though i dont even have a slight tone in my voice, as i know i cant, because i will then get accused for exactly that. i dont understand why they are like this, is there anybody else in the same situation?? just so i know that im not on my own in this one.

2006-10-08 10:04:47 · 9 answers · asked by billie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-08 10:04:28 · 20 answers · asked by jazzybug05 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-08 10:04:26 · 4 answers · asked by Sexy 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex-husband keeps insisting he's not involved with anyone. I have evidence to prove otherwise. I ask him to be honest to see if he will be. He denies it. Honesty is one of the things he says he's working on to get back with me. Do I continue to let him disrespect me while he's "finding" himself, or do I just leave him be & start a new life with someone else? How much time should I give him to realize what he is doing? I am in agony. I still love him, but his actions tell me he's just messing with my head.

2006-10-08 10:03:53 · 11 answers · asked by mari 2 in Marriage & Divorce

should i ask him what he wants out the relationship . girls keep sending him comments on myspace about they wanting to spend time together with him what should i do ...........

2006-10-08 10:02:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I want to have a sex life again. Me and my husband have been married for 8 years. I have said some bad things to him when I get mad like I am going to go sleep with someone else or you go sleep with someone else. I also told him I his penis felt soft when we had sex it is like kinda hard and soft. He won't go to the doctor. We tried having sex this evening and he couldn't do it. We did try to have sex but couldn't. He said the things I have said it messing up his mind. What should I do? Is he cheating?

2006-10-08 10:02:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i dated this boy for 3 months. we're very close. we had kissed & made out before. 1 day after school i kissed him goodbye on the lips. nothin gross just a kiss.
someone saw & told my dad. the second week into summer, my dad confronted me about it. he yelled at me telling me how horrible i am & grounded me from all social contact. he played the "you dont know what i know tell me the truth" game so i said "we made out in a movie theater before"
my dad made me break up with him & i didnt see him for a month. we're secretly dating now & only my close friends know. we're "allowed to be friends"
dad was my refuge, my daddy, since that day hes been different. i fear him like no other. his mood is everywhere. hes not abusive (maybe emotionally) but hes the scariest person in the world to me

im constantly paranoid and it makes my bf mad. im scared all the time. dad is more ridiculous everyday. he yelled at me for asking to go to homecoming with this boy. it was 4 months ago!
i love him. help!

2006-10-08 10:02:19 · 18 answers · asked by Kaya 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a boyfriend, but there is this guy that lives by me and he wont take no for an answer! HE says that i lead him on when all i did was be his friend!!! Help me and tell me what i should do!

2006-10-08 10:02:16 · 24 answers · asked by lovely06 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-08 10:02:09 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok im trying to be as detailed as possible, i met this girl about 3 weeks ago we have gone out about 5 or 6 times as a group and alone time, we have watched movies alone at home and in the theater, and a couple days ago on friday i was invited to her fmailys thanksgiving dinner yes im canadian, and i went and met her family, and then last night she came out and joined me and my friends after she was out with her friends, and last night i told her that i like her and maybe want more, and she told me that shes had relationship problems in the past before with guys as in guys cheating perhaps, she also said she has comitment and trust issues, and she said she has to be eased into a relationship, and said she doesnt feel she knows me too too well still, what do i do to try to make this work, should i go slow and just hang out with her more and with her friends, and go very slowly until she knows me better? what do i do?

2006-10-08 10:01:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok there is this boy and like a month ago i told him that i liked him but, he had a gf it's been awhile and now they are no longer together..i am friends with him and he knows that i still like him i see him every day in the hall way and i can feel him looking at me and he knows that i glance at him ,it's kinda like mysterious flirting. does he like me??? what should i do??? i love him!

2006-10-08 10:00:39 · 5 answers · asked by MiseryBusiness 1 in Friends

According to the bible it is permissable to cane your children when they are disobedient. I have sat my children down and showed them the scripture, they agree that they should be severley caned for indiscretions. I also told my wife that according to the bible, I am able to take more than one wife, She says that if I do that, even flirt with another woman, she will leave me. I called my minister and have asked him to pray for her soul. I am going to stand up in church tonight and embarrass her into this arrangement. What gives women the right to disregard the bible and become selfish sinners when they get married ? She also disagrees to severe caning of the children, I told her she will probably burn in hell for her blasphemy. Would the courts give me full custody rights of the children because she is a sinner? I would also want a monthly stipen from her. Has anyone else run into any
resistance from their spouses when following the bible ?I worry for her soul. Thank you and god bless

2006-10-08 10:00:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

just so dreamy in her goth garb? What a Hottie. No?

2006-10-08 10:00:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My former bf broke up with me a few weeks before school satarted. B4 school ended tho, he told me numerous times that he loved me. During the summer he IMed me 2 times and then never spoke to me again untill the day he wanted to break up with me...I'm just wondering..why do people say " I love you" when they don't mean it?

2006-10-08 09:59:33 · 8 answers · asked by running.blind2 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-08 09:58:56 · 20 answers · asked by Gazhan 1 in Singles & Dating

my girlfriend s boyfriends mother (living at moms property) died night before last while i was there. i stayed of course but am now going back . wishing i could do sometihng to help but am unemployed and not much $. ???????

2006-10-08 09:58:41 · 12 answers · asked by sunbow 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My girlfreind is stressed and depressed.She said she wants me to be her freind right now.Couple months ago was talking marriage.Next breath though she says if you are going to marry someone you have to be frieinds.And she said she is my better half! One night grat kiss next cool! Is stress and low self esteem it.? She said she has dealt with this her whole life and it will take a while.She said she knows whatws in my heart,But goes on behaviour.Said she does not want anybody else.Never knew how bad low self esteem and depression was.She was mentally abused and physically abused.Seems to be escaping. How can I help. She said leave her alone and be her friend.Thanks for any help.Love her beyond words!

2006-10-08 09:58:11 · 5 answers · asked by John 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hehe. Completely random. How many calories....?

2006-10-08 09:57:03 · 13 answers · asked by lonelioness 4 in Singles & Dating

what is a sign that a boy likes you?

2006-10-08 09:56:45 · 7 answers · asked by Carolinex3™ 5 in Singles & Dating

I gave birth to my son 18 months ago and ever since I seem to have lost complete interest in sex- I dont know whats wrong with me? My husband is really sexy and sex was good before... Help

2006-10-08 09:56:32 · 23 answers · asked by mrs rubberducky 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-08 09:55:23 · 9 answers · asked by my2cents 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-08 09:55:13 · 3 answers · asked by rottymadxx 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

what should I do?? I'm HOTTTTTT check my other pics in my 360 profile..hahahahahaha

2006-10-08 09:54:03 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My Girlfriend is always badgering me to take pictures of her with a plug inserted in here rear, then she takes the pictures home and i never see then again, what do you make of this? Sick or Nuts?

2006-10-08 09:52:42 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

this is what my friend emily did to me! I liked this guy at my school named alex and she's known that forever! and she's seen pictures of him saying ya he's really hot and stuff like that!! but then she met him at 2 football games and started liking him even more and also liking lots of my good friends!! so just yesterday i found out that she's going out w/ Alex i was so upset and i kept telling her that she knew i liked him but she kept saying she was sorry! should i forgive her or wait and maybe forgive her later??
i need some advice because ever since she told me i've been upset and depressed!

2006-10-08 09:52:25 · 13 answers · asked by Mater_rocks!! 2 in Friends

well we email eachother alot and one day i sent her an email and now she wont talk to me and she avoids me at school. but she keeps stairing at me at school...

2006-10-08 09:51:42 · 15 answers · asked by jared p 2 in Singles & Dating

I am a good looking disabled guy. I use a power chair to get around. I'm not paralyzed, but I have muscular dystropy. I've tried to put myself in a girl's shoes and tried to imagine what a girl could find attractive in someone like me.
I know 98% of women would not date someone disabled.
Please, no comments like it's your personality that matters, what's inside that counts, bla,bla,bla. We all know if you don't pass the physical attraction test nothing else matters, for guys and gals.
Only the truth, please, not statements to protect my "feelings".
Lying hurts more than hearing truth.
If you think I'm wrong about all this, tell me.
Here's your chance to anonymously tell it like it is.

2006-10-08 09:51:39 · 29 answers · asked by james 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-08 09:51:28 · 7 answers · asked by jzz_luv 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I like this muslim girl and I am a Muslim. She is in my university. She is doing a different course and I only see her near the university entrance when she is leaving with her friends. She wears a scarf. I like her very much and want to ask her on a date.

So tomorrow, I have decided to just be brave and go up to her and ask her for a date and give her my e mail address to her to think about it and tell me.

What do you think will happen? I'm scared cause I have no other way to first become friends and then ask because she is always with other girls and is in a different section.

2006-10-08 09:51:22 · 5 answers · asked by Mr Business 3 in Singles & Dating

How much should I give someone when they say 'just give us a drink'? I mean, I could give them 60p for a coffee but that just seems mean! Serious answers please!

2006-10-08 09:51:03 · 18 answers · asked by Jester 1 in Friends