ok im trying to be as detailed as possible, i met this girl about 3 weeks ago we have gone out about 5 or 6 times as a group and alone time, we have watched movies alone at home and in the theater, and a couple days ago on friday i was invited to her fmailys thanksgiving dinner yes im canadian, and i went and met her family, and then last night she came out and joined me and my friends after she was out with her friends, and last night i told her that i like her and maybe want more, and she told me that shes had relationship problems in the past before with guys as in guys cheating perhaps, she also said she has comitment and trust issues, and she said she has to be eased into a relationship, and said she doesnt feel she knows me too too well still, what do i do to try to make this work, should i go slow and just hang out with her more and with her friends, and go very slowly until she knows me better? what do i do?
2006-10-08 10:01:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Three weeks isn't much time and you already told her that you were thinking about more. Just slow down a bit, especially if she is worth waiting for.
2006-10-08 10:03:48 · answer #1 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep it slow. Anyone nowadays who isn't jumping head first into something has probably got the experience to create a great relationship down the road. Give it a chance, don't rush. Things may only get better!
2006-10-08 10:09:21 · answer #2 · answered by volleyball_1979 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she's interested... especially if she's been to your place alone... you know, with only the two of you then she is. She likes you too, but she sounds genuinely scared of her feelings for you and is envisioning getting hurt by someone that she cares for! Take it as a compliment that she's being careful with the relationship! In the end, it'll be way more rewarding... hang in there!
2006-10-08 10:06:54 · answer #3 · answered by liverlips86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dan, your better off going at the pace you been going.
She's been forth right and honest with you about her issues. You should be luck she has told you of these things.
Jaut take your time, and don't rush anything. Enjoy what you have now so you can really enjoy WHEN!!
2006-10-08 10:06:16 · answer #4 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a staggering guy who will do something for her or a guy in penitentiary? hmmmm wow you prefer to give up being staggering!? do not! being a jerk isn't cool! maybe for a 15 year previous or in spite of yet not a 24 year previous. stay being your self and save attempting to show your self! if she is going for the penitentiary chicken then thats the way destiny rolls.
2016-11-27 01:20:17 · answer #5 · answered by ferree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's interested, but just doesn't want to get hurt again. Take things slowly, and don't push her...if she really likes you, she'll come around eventually.
2006-10-08 10:05:53 · answer #6 · answered by LibraT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it slow and easy. There is no rush, if you really like her.
2006-10-08 10:11:26 · answer #7 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep it as it is for now and let her get use to a great guy!!!
2006-10-08 10:06:24 · answer #8 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do just like you said . go slow.
2006-10-08 10:05:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
all u do is take your time and spend more time with her,send her flowers
2006-10-08 10:07:47 · answer #10 · answered by Kay Kay H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋