My ex-husband keeps insisting he's not involved with anyone. I have evidence to prove otherwise. I ask him to be honest to see if he will be. He denies it. Honesty is one of the things he says he's working on to get back with me. Do I continue to let him disrespect me while he's "finding" himself, or do I just leave him be & start a new life with someone else? How much time should I give him to realize what he is doing? I am in agony. I still love him, but his actions tell me he's just messing with my head.
2006-10-08 10:03:53 · 11 answers · asked by mari 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He's your ex-husband and he doesn't owe you a reason. You said you still love him...but you didn't say if he still loves you back....keep it moving...
2006-10-08 10:08:42 · answer #1 · answered by zeta121 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought u said he was your ex so why haven't u gone on with your life yet? To me it sounds like all he's doing is making up excuses to keep doing what he's doing and doesn't really want to be tied down. It would probably be wise for u to get on with your own life and forget about him.
2006-10-08 10:13:18 · answer #2 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheating liar, always a cheating liar. Do yourself a favor and let him go. It hurts but you will be better in the long run.
2006-10-08 18:35:13 · answer #3 · answered by michelle p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
loose that 0 and find a hero once a liar always a lire I would tell him to Find his way right out of my life
2006-10-08 10:13:04 · answer #4 · answered by just_me_1955 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it just come natrually to them.You move on and when he sorts his self out if you are both still free and interested in each other, take it from there. He may sort himself out quicker if you call his bluff and call it a day.
2006-10-08 10:07:37 · answer #5 · answered by leigha 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
reading your story sounds a lot like my situation. i'm not divorced yet, though. i have evidence that he had numerous affairs and got a coworker pregnant, but he denies it. you have to realize that you deserve to have an honest relationship. don't sell yourself short. you deserve to have a trusting relationship. (me too, for that matter)
2006-10-08 12:32:41 · answer #6 · answered by jo jo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHy are you even still with him. Seems your just waiting for him to admit and tell truth, but he seems to think he has you either way. Move out and on withy our life.
2006-10-08 10:44:37 · answer #7 · answered by legguy2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so many people cheat b/c they cant stay in 1 realtionship but how can u love him if he has cheated u might want to think about finding another guy who loves you and will stay wit u and not cheat
2006-10-08 10:07:22 · answer #8 · answered by carly f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront him with your proof and then leave him.
He will come running back to you real fast.
2006-10-08 10:19:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can find someone who will not disrespect you.
2006-10-08 10:09:11 · answer #10 · answered by scorpio11120 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋