My girlfreind is stressed and depressed.She said she wants me to be her freind right now.Couple months ago was talking marriage.Next breath though she says if you are going to marry someone you have to be frieinds.And she said she is my better half! One night grat kiss next cool! Is stress and low self esteem it.? She said she has dealt with this her whole life and it will take a while.She said she knows whatws in my heart,But goes on behaviour.Said she does not want anybody else.Never knew how bad low self esteem and depression was.She was mentally abused and physically abused.Seems to be escaping. How can I help. She said leave her alone and be her friend.Thanks for any help.Love her beyond words!
2006-10-08 09:58:11 · 5 answers · asked by John 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I understand what she is going threw.! I have manger depression and the only that I can suggest to u is just be there for her. Always talk to her and ask her if there is something that is bothering her. Tell her how concerned u are. Let her now if she needs someone that u would be happy to be there for her no matter what. Give her all the support and comfort that she needs. Sometimes when things like this happen its hard for the other person to know what exactly is going on. So just be understanding, loving, caring, and most important tell her when ever she needs someone that u will always be there for her.
2006-10-08 10:26:41 · answer #1 · answered by Tammy N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does sound like low self-esteem.. to her may sound to good to be true.. Suggest that she goes to counseling. If she was mentally & physically abused as a child or thru another relationship.. She really should go thru some counseling to get her self esteem level up. It will help her grow & realize that GOOD things can really happen to her.
2006-10-08 10:28:38 · answer #2 · answered by Kammaka2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a troubled person who needs professional help, and if you love her you'll see she gets it. Just an off chance here, but if she is resistant to the idea of therapy then maybe if you ask her to go to couples counseling with you it might get her started.
2006-10-08 10:04:48 · answer #3 · answered by justa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe shes goin through something ask her what happend and if she doesn answer or tells you to go away tell her you want to help. like confert her and tell you ho wyou feel about her. tell her you want to be more then friends. then maybe she will tell you whats happend.
2006-10-08 10:03:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHE NEEDS MORE HELP THAN YOU CAN GIVE HER. ALL YOU CAN DO IS LOVE AND SUPPORT HER. SHE NEEDS COUNCILING AND ONLY SHE CAN DO IT. SHE MUST RELIZE IT HERSELF.
2006-10-08 10:02:12 · answer #5 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋