this is what my friend emily did to me! I liked this guy at my school named alex and she's known that forever! and she's seen pictures of him saying ya he's really hot and stuff like that!! but then she met him at 2 football games and started liking him even more and also liking lots of my good friends!! so just yesterday i found out that she's going out w/ Alex i was so upset and i kept telling her that she knew i liked him but she kept saying she was sorry! should i forgive her or wait and maybe forgive her later??
i need some advice because ever since she told me i've been upset and depressed!
2006-10-08 09:52:25 · 13 answers · asked by Mater_rocks!! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Kick that hoe to the curb. If she was really a good friend, she'd have known he was off limits. I guess you could maybe forgive her in a couple of months or so, but it won't be the same, because she's betrayed your trust bigtime, so why bother? Just get a real friend.
It'll take a little time to get over it, but don't worry hun, you'll feel better sooner than you think.
2006-10-08 09:58:17 · answer #1 · answered by mooo83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are YOU upset? Why would you even have reason to even THINK you needed to forgive her? You don't OWN Alex. You're not dating him, not in a committed relationship with him. Just becuase YOU like him doesn't mean you have a claim to him. He is free to date/like anyone he wants to and obviously he likes Emily. You are obviously too young to go out since you can't understand the difference between "liking" someone and their freedom. I suggest you grow up before you start going out and realize that you don't own anyone just because you "like" them. YOU should apologize to Emily since she has done nothing wrong.
2006-10-08 09:57:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for one, don't go around tell any of your friends of the same sex how hot or great someone of the other sex is. You should have made a move, you should be upset, at yourself... take a week or two, and then get over it, you kept telling her and showing her this guy, and then you expect her not to be into him too.
2006-10-08 09:55:36 · answer #3 · answered by Chuck'n Da Deuce 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why forgive later when you can forgive today?
It's acceptable for you to be upset that she crossed you. But there's really no point in stewing if you feel you're going to let it go eventually.
Either forgive and forget, or drop her.
2006-10-08 09:55:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you somewhat don't have something extra effective to do along with your existence do you? coming near yahoo and making up memories so which you will annoy people. i could recommend you seek for help from somebody. in line with risk extra of a social existence or perhaps getting a activity would make you have a clean appreciation for existence. good success!
2016-10-02 02:20:38 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i would be depressed because you can get sick like that. Just ask her why she did it and then move on life isn't going to stop and wait for you to be happy.
2006-10-08 09:58:18 · answer #6 · answered by mousey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should just find a different boy and be her friend!!maybe once you be her friend again shell be around him when you are there to and hill start likin you more!!and then when they break up hill want to go out with you!!let me know whats goin on once u get settled!!!
2006-10-08 10:02:13 · answer #7 · answered by Kay Kay H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive her shes your freind and no one wants to be against them. Sure she stole him but is it really her fault she likes him go ahead tell me at hazel_eyes_cutie_2232@yahoo.com!
2006-10-08 09:56:57 · answer #8 · answered by Sexy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not a friend of yours. She had no consideration or respect for your feelings. Dump her and never talk to her again! She will do it again if you take her back.
2006-10-08 09:54:36 · answer #9 · answered by Lesleann 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just move on and dont ever do that again. dont make your friends like him. p.s : talk to him just to get to know him better be his friend in some time he will get closer to you.
2006-10-08 10:03:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋