I've been married eight years, and haven't been attracted to my husband since a few months into it. We've argued and theorized and tried to figure out why over the years...now I've come to the conclusion that I just don't like who he is. We married so young and I didn't know what I wanted in a man. He treats me good, makes good money, loves me, and is very driven to achieve his goals. But he's been obviously unhappy our whole marriage, and he says it's because he hasn't reached the level of personal success he expected to. I'm happy with simple things, no "success" needed, and I despise him for not being the same. I can't make him happy, and I don't think this is something he can change, it's part of his personality. Am I an idiot for leaving a "good" thing because there's no passion? We've always been good friends. Does anyone think it's possible to get that passion back if you dislike someone's character? I will be going to therapy, but I am afraid my mind's made up...
2006-10-05
08:47:08
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beanie
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Marriage & Divorce