hi friends, i am confused. my friend and me always walk hand in hand. Me and he are also used to walk caressing each others abdomen. While talking, he always talk touching me. While sitting, he presses my thighs. However, he always talks about girls. i am confused that whether he is gay or straight. should i make any movement to test my hypothesis?
2006-10-05 08:49:12 · 29 answers · asked by dan v 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask him: "would you like to touch my penis?"
2006-10-05 08:51:28 · answer #1 · answered by chilean_sea_ass 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
He probably is bi, and maybe he doesn't want to come out all the way because of his family or maybe he's getting mixed feelings from you, I suggest you ask him, and tell him how you feel that is the only way to get the answer you are looking for, and if this is someone you really like don't be shy just let him know... I mean if you guys walk hand in hand down the street and rub each others abs that is not something a straight man will do...
2006-10-05 08:54:02 · answer #2 · answered by ~*Megan N MaRc~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe HE isnt the one you should be asking that question to. Based on your remarks, the touching and caressing was mutual. So that may signify deeper feelings on both parts, since most guys I know dont touch each other like that.
2006-10-05 08:51:44 · answer #3 · answered by glorymomof3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either bi or one of those weird "I still have to act like I like girls" gay boys. (Often the same thing...lol.)
I wouldn't make a move just to test a hypothesis...lol. But apparently you must be attracted to him. So why not. If he freaks out, you know he's got some issues. But trust me, the things you do are not things that any strictly hetero guys do with each other...lol.
2006-10-05 08:54:41 · answer #4 · answered by jonjon418 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are good friends why don't you just ask him? Are you gay? I don't mean disrespect just wondering cause it sounds like you want him to be more of a boyfriend than a friend. Don't get upset I'm just saying what I can tell from your question. Sorry If I offended you. But just ask your buddy and maybe he will tell you and you two can carry on in whatever way you both want⥠Good Luckâ¥
2006-10-05 08:53:37 · answer #5 · answered by ♥USMCwife♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me get this straight (no pun intended), You two guys caress each others abs, walk holding hands and rub each others thighs? i think you both gay.
2006-10-05 08:53:19 · answer #6 · answered by cashis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he not only mentaly into you but physicaly as well. Yes you should take a step further and see how he react. He just be very scared to come out of the closet, help him out of it.
2006-10-05 08:58:33 · answer #7 · answered by Marco4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds gay to me. Lets see what the straight men have to say....bet they agree with me.
2006-10-05 08:53:13 · answer #8 · answered by kandekizzez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he mite be bisexual. try making a move or asking him straight up. say "r u gay" and act like u want him to say yes, and if he does, say ok, just wanted to no, but if he says no and starts lookn at u like ur gay u can say just kiddin
2006-10-05 08:52:52 · answer #9 · answered by blank 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe it is not your friends sexuality that you are questioning...how comfortable are you to have your friend be so physical while interacting with you. Maybe the two of you are tow stepping around that fact that you are both tri-curious.
2006-10-05 08:54:08 · answer #10 · answered by dee-dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is certainly making movements.
2006-10-05 08:50:35 · answer #11 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋